posted July 05, 2008 02:36 PM         

I am partial to the dark haired types, but not adverse to giving that certain blonde a second look.

posted July 05, 2008 03:04 PM         

I don't want a man to take charge, although recently a pushy variety of the gender tried to tell me I was reading the map wrong. I wasn't, as he soon found at when I ignored his instructions.

My Mars is in Aquarius.

The ability to display emotions isn't something that I really require. Being able to mend electrical applicances is quite handy, though.

posted July 05, 2008 05:00 PM         

Kick it, let me try to be different then... Hmmm...

I desire a man who, although sensitive, does not crumble when a crisis is at hand. This is a man who is solutions driven, not a panicky man. That is what I meant as being in charge. I do not think that I would take well to anyone being bossy. I am turned on by a man who accepts his dark side as well as the light side - not a person who is ashamed of being... bad but someone who accepts that they can be bad as part of their makings, not someone who strives for good "perfection" but someone who strives for a balance between all his personality facets. Basically, I desire a man who knows himself, warts and all and a person who is not ashamed of that which is not supported by societal standards.

This man I speak of must be comfortable with his weaknesses as well as his strengths because he understands the dichotomous nature of the human being. This is a man who does not strive for goodness, but strives for truth.

He must be comfortable enough to be himself without fearing rejection. He must be comfortable in his own skin as not to pretend to be something he is not.

Mentally, this man must be highly introspective and must possess the ability to dig deeper into things and not take things for face value, a mind that is inquiring enough to read between the lines.

I desire a man who can be friends with paupers as well as kings, meaning that this man can not be superficial because he understands that things of the flesh are temporary. He is perceptive as to not be judgmental but instaed he must be open minded as to know that he might be wrong in anything, and also he must be comfortable to dmit his wrongs when misled.

Sexually, this man is passionate and sincere. He would rather not have sex or a relationship than give half of his heart into the deed. Therefore, we are speaking of a man who knows what he wants as much as he knows himself.

I am not attracted to people who are the life of the party, noisy and entertainers of the crowd. I am attracted to the man that speaks when he has to speak, not to speak to just fill the minute/hour (time).

The man which I am attracted to is not a push over but neither is he aggresive. He is passive aggressive with a big dose of wit and sarcasm. I like sarcastic people. I know that is weird but it takes a very creative mind to be sarcastic.

He has a career that requires no boss or not too many bosses because I prefer a man who is in charge of his movements and schedule. He is independent and yet he is driven for success, hence artists appeal to me, sportsman also appeal to me because they work for themselves and do not have to pretend to be nice to a boss in order to get ahead.

I desire highly ambitious men. He does not have to have reached his goals but he must have them, and he must be working towards making these goals a reality, not just living in a fantasy world. He is realistic yet he still has enough "romance" in him to dream.

posted July 05, 2008 05:47 PM         

the woman that I love is a blonde.

In my chart:

Blondelet in 0'18 Sagittarius in 3rd

conjunct 7th house ruler Neptune in 1'48 Sagittarius in 3rd -1'30
trine Frigga in 1'22 Aries R in 7th - 1'04
sextile Pluto in 0'51 Libra in 1st - '33
sextile Child in 0'40 Libra in 1st - '22
semisquare Uranus in Libra in 2nd - '01

declinations:
Blondelet 19'54 South
7th house ruler Neptune 18'57 South
5th house ruler Saturn 19'02 North

I also checked the Geocentric Blondelet Nodes.......I had a hunch(I get these weird asteroid hunches) that I have a Geocentric Blondelet Node conjunct Juno which indicate committed relationship,marriage with a blonde

this is what I found

Geo North Blondelet Node in 25'48 Virgo in 1st
Juno in 26'26 Virgo in 1st

not only that......I found that I have:

Geo South Blondelet Node in 27'05 Aquarius in 6th
Geo South Juno Node in 26'06 Aquarius in 6th

Therefore, Blondelet conjuncts my 7th house ruler(relationships)Neptune in Sagittarius(interethnic,international sign), sextile my Pluto in Libra(relationship sign) in 1st,trine Frigga(asteroid named after Norse Goddess of Marriage) in 7th(relationship house), semisquare Uranus in Libra (relationship sign)in 2nd. Blondelet North Node is conjunct Juno(committed relationship relationship, and Blondelet South Node is conjunct South Juno Node(committed relationship)

I have 6 relationship-Blondelet connections in total!

I even have Blondelet sextile Child which suggests the possibility of having a child with a blonde. My 5th house ruler(romance,children)Saturn contraparallel Child adds to that

posted July 05, 2008 06:19 PM         

Thank you for that list Unmoved. You obviously used your Mars in Scorpio well and didn't really leave much out.
Certainly different to the "I want a man with big muscles and bank balance type" that puts certain types of women into a collective box.
Definitely beyond the material which suits Scorpio.

posted July 05, 2008 07:05 PM         

What turns them on? I'm only Scorpio Mars and I would tell you about what turns me on, but I don't want to.
Why? It's good to know that the person who I'm after/is after me will be doing it as they are and not manipulating themselves to try and attract me.