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Topic: Is this coming 16 July a good day to make my BIG move?
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Cappy Lady
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From: The City of Angels
Registered: Feb 2008
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posted July 13, 2008 06:28 AM
 
Hi all. I've been here a few times asking for advices on my Cancer crush. And finally I've mustered the guts to do the deeds.......Yep, I'm planning to confess my feelings for him via email on his birthday, which happens to be this coming Wednesday.
Tha main plan is just to let him know how I feel about all these years, with very little hope for him to answer back (he's been on and off with his response anyway). I hope it's gonna make him happy that there's someone who appreciates him for who he is, that's all.
But just to be on the safe side (how very Capricorn of me), could anyone check out if the timing is right for me?
Me: 9 Jan 1974 Bangkok time:15:09pm
Him:16 July 1976 Bangkok time unknown
Thanks heaps!!!!!!!!
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mblover
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posted July 13, 2008 10:32 AM
Go for it girl. There cannot be a better gift on Birthday than Love. This man will love you deeply.IP: Logged |
Cappy Lady
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From: The City of Angels
Registered: Feb 2008
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posted July 13, 2008 09:00 PM
Thanks for you kind words, mblover. That's really sweet. 'Cause it's kind of scary, really. He could hate me or just disappear for ever. But I've already come to the point that I've got nothing to lose. So, I'll go ahead with it anyway.
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alvarella777
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From: Europe
Registered: Jun 2007
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posted July 13, 2008 09:41 PM
Hey Cappylady, I don't have the time to make-up and study these charts now. All I can say: I share my birthdate with your long time crush! ;-) And from that point of view ... I'd be happy and honoured and flattered to a receive such an e-mail for my birthday! ;-) This is no guarantee for the outcome, of course! But I'm sure he'll appreciate and respect the fact that you've opened up to him emotionally. Cancers do know a lot about emotions - and, if he is not a totally un-evolved soul, he should know how to respond in an appropriate way. Of course no one can "force" or "convince" another person to love you back! But he should be able to understand what you want to tell him. And it should touch one or two of his heart's strings. One advice for you: Just give him time to reply. Don't be disappointed if he doesn't answer you immediately. Give him a few days - and then you'll see how he reacts. Good luck!IP: Logged |
alvarella777
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From: Europe
Registered: Jun 2007
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posted July 13, 2008 09:44 PM
P.S.: Just two days after his birthday, there'll be a full moon coming up in Capricorn. (on 18th of July). So ... just take some time into account. Sometimes, especially if a Crab is serious and doesn't want to fool around, it takes a few days. AND crabs tend to feel the full moon-energy to the fullest. AND it is in his opposite sign (your sign, that is!;-))IP: Logged |
Cappy Lady
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From: The City of Angels
Registered: Feb 2008
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posted July 13, 2008 11:25 PM
Gee, thanks so much avarella. That sure does help lessen the butterfly in my stomach.
And the full moon on 18 July sounds quite exciting. Don't know what kind of emotion it could stir up inside my Crab crush.
I don't dare to hope that much with him. God knows I've been trying to send him messages and greetings from time to time, hoping he would know that I care but it's really hard to read the man. So just to make him feel good is my ultimate goal at the moment. After all, I've been having a crush on him for 4 years. Waiting for a little longer is no difference. ; )
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alvarella777
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From: Europe
Registered: Jun 2007
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posted July 14, 2008 07:33 AM
Hey Cappylady, you really seem to care. This is sweet! I just took a very short look at his chart - no birthtime known, so the houses/angles (ASC etc.) are unknown. But one can at least see in which signs/aspects his planets are placed.His Sun is cj. Mercury and, in a wider orb, conjunct Venus - Sun cj. Merc. says that he takes communication very personal, he cannot detach his communication from his ego - so this might imply, first, that your words will reach the core of his "self" easily (as he might take any communication "at heart"). And, further more, with the Venus-conjunct, he needs/craves "words" to (re-)affirm his feelings. His Venus is either at the end of Cancer or in an early Leo-degree - so he won't mind some "emotion" and maybe even some "drama" involved, and he might like a playful, but meaningful approach. His Moon probably is in Pisces - again, there's some basic understanding and patience and sensitivity for "feelings" in him. He's not basically afraid of them (as, maybe, a Moon in Air would be...) It seems to be quite a balanced chart for him - ONLY Venus, if you take a closer look, receives some more stressful aspects. It is, all together, the most "stressful planet" in his chart. That might explain why you sense that it is "difficult to reach or read him". He has, for instance, Venus square his ASC and square his North Node - might be difficult for him to get it all out (to get his feelings out and share them) - Venus is cj. his Saturn: He's rather seriousminded about matters of the heart. It is also square his Uranus - so he might have experienced some (unwelcome?) surprises with love already. I get a feeling that this guy is a bit "touchy" and shy in these regards, but no player. Love might be some kind of riddle to him. You should dare your step! He probably wont take it too lightly. It might force him to ponder on that, thoroughly. I also took a quick look at his current transits. Mercury will square his Pluto around his birthdate ... intense emotions stirred up via communicational issues! (Not necessarily a bad thing, but: communication will have a strong effect on him.) He might NOT be in a very playful state of mind right then, having Venus cj. his Saturn on his birthday, and also Saturn, the disciplinator, cj. his Mars. But Moon wil make a trine to his Chiron during the day - he will also find his fears/personal wounds soothed through an emotional/female (?) influence that day. AGAIN: GO FOR IT. But don't expect a very quick or "easy" response. Your message will give him food for thought and a whole lot to "feel". All the best! IP: Logged |
Cappy Lady
Knowflake Posts: 45
From: The City of Angels
Registered: Feb 2008
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posted July 14, 2008 11:50 AM
Oh, alvarella. How can I ever thank you for such kind support and help. Really, this is something I love about this forum - getting words of help and encouragement from people across the globe without knowing each other.I'm totally speechless.......
thank you SO MUCH!!!!
And a very Happy Birthday wish goes out to you from my heart. May it be the best day for you too!!!
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Soulsista2
Knowflake Posts: 43
From: UK
Registered: Sep 2007
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posted July 14, 2008 01:30 PM
Cappy, I cant offer astrological advice but I do want to say, good for you girl. This is one of the hardest things to do but I believe that it is the right thing to do. I had a crush on someone for so long it was near killing me and I decided to ask him out. He, very kindly, declined the offer but you know Im still glad I did it because it 'cured' my crush. I dont mean to sound flippant about how you are feeling, I know it can be extremely intense and powerful and for that reason you HAVE to do SOMETHING.It is scarey and you are very brave. I really hope it all works well fr you and you get what you want. Much love xx IP: Logged |
BLKFox
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Registered: Nov 2007
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posted July 14, 2008 01:40 PM
---There can't be ANYTHING wrong with telling someone that you LOVE them...regardless of their reaction.---It is good for YOU to share your feelings with the subject of your affection!
--Please let us know how it goes....IP: Logged |
lisasimpson243
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From: London, England
Registered: Dec 2006
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posted July 14, 2008 04:29 PM
Hi Cappy,I'm not an astrologer but I just think it's a really courageous, loving step that you are taking and I really wish you well.  Fingers crossed, lisa IP: Logged |
Cappy Lady
Knowflake Posts: 45
From: The City of Angels
Registered: Feb 2008
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posted July 15, 2008 12:55 AM
alvarella - you mentioned " Venus also square his Uranus - so he might have experienced some (unwelcome?) surprises with love already. "
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I don't know about that too, but I've had a friend who does Tarot reading checked it out and the answer was similar to that. Also I sort of broke his heart once. Well, you see, we sort of clicked once and things went quite well between us until I fully realised that I was falling really hard for him (something I've never experienced with anyone even my ex bf whom I had a 12 years relationship with) --- I started acting weird around him by not talking and avoiding him because of my extreme shyness (don't know if that has something to do with my moon in Cancer) but inside I've been burning with feelings for him. He looked kind of hurt and since then he's been keeping a distance. I've read in his Hi5 postings and he once mentioned to a friend that he the 'guy that nobody wants'. I've always felt sorry but didn't quite know what to do or say around him, which is really strange cause it's never occured to me that I'm short of something to say to anyone. How funny love can make you do strange things, huh?
------------------------------------------------ Soulsista2 - it takes me 4 years to finally pluck up the courage and I'm so glad I'm having it in me right now. Thank you so much for your kind words and understanding. I'm really touched. --------------------------------------------------
BLKFox - a friend of mine once told me exactly the same thing you said but you know, I didn't really understand then....until now I do and I know exactly what you mean. I thank you - from the bottom of my heart. And I'll keep you posted of the outcome - although I think it's gonna take a while like Alvarella says. ---------------------------------------------------
lisasimpson243 - Fingers crossed too! Thank you, thank you, thank you. You are so kind.
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Cappy Lady
Knowflake Posts: 45
From: The City of Angels
Registered: Feb 2008
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posted July 16, 2008 02:14 AM
At 2:30 am last night local time, I finally did it!And I know he's seen the message, I saw him online this morning. So fingers crossed! Thanks again for everyone's support! I'm really touched. IP: Logged |
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