posted July 15, 2008 09:02 AM            

I guess with the Saturn conjunct, on the positive it could mean, the Saturn person is serious about the Moon person's emotions? On the negative I guess it could mean the Saturn person restricts the moon person's emotions?

posted July 15, 2008 10:06 AM            

and boy did he control me. It started out like a fairytale and slowly got more Saturn like and Aries like until I woke up one morning married to the devil!

posted July 15, 2008 10:16 AM            

Me being the curious Gemini that I am, I had to check lol.

posted July 15, 2008 10:37 AM            

Oh, I guess I should say her and I are fast friends? I'm not after her or nothing like that. She is cool and fun to work with though!

I know another aqua girl that is BEAUTIFUL but I wouldn't DARE try ANYTHING with her. We are cool as friends ONLY.

posted July 15, 2008 06:33 PM              

You know sth funny? i use this nickname since i can remember but i dont exactly know where it camed from - i just slightly remember it might be from one of my favorite writter :MArion Zimmer Bradley

posted July 15, 2008 06:43 PM            

It can be a comfortable inner aspect
(but not romantic) and you do form a tight bond especially if one or the others Ascendant is Cancer or Capricorn.

posted July 15, 2008 06:54 PM              

Can be very bonding also - i remember tha when i was reding a book from a very famous brasilian astrologer ( Dulce Regina),she said this usually is a soulmate aspect.

posted July 15, 2008 11:15 PM              

But, each of us has a moon-saturn conjunction in the natal. This means: my moon is conjunct my saturn, which is conjunct his moon, which is conjunct his saturn...so, they all get kinda energized by this one aspect. But, I think since we're both used to a mix of moon-saturn in our own charts, the energy might be a little easier for us to handle. NOT that there aren't problems sometimes!!!

Btw, did I mention that this is all going on right on his ASC??? (My moon is conjunct his ASC, 0 deg) Poor guy! lol And the moon-saturn conjunction in the composite is in the 1st house...so let's just say this aspect plays a pretty significant role in the relationship! lol

Sorry...enough about me...you asked how it plays out. Here's my take on it: when one of us is freaking out, the other person calms them down. (Usually I'M freaking out, but he kinda freaked today! lol) Also, I find that the more secure I'M feeling (as the saturn person) the better it works. Cafe Astrology has some info on this that I think nails it right on the head.

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Let's explore Moon-Saturn interchart aspects as another example. This cross-aspect is a powerful one. Either one (or both) people involved may have made it clear at some early point in the interaction that this relationship was to be a serious or committed one. Whether or not it was verbalized, the air of responsibility is explicit. Although the relationship may begin with some element of enthusiasm, over time, Moon may feel the need to censor feelings of dependency on the relationship and on Saturn himself for some reason or another. Moon may also feel the need to censor self-expression, feeling almost like a child facing a disapproving adult. Moon may sense a certain level of seriousness and even harshness or narrowness in Saturn that may not even exist in absolute terms. Saturn may not even be aware of this unconscious reaction to Moon. Whatever it is, Moon can feel somewhat constrained by the relationship, and unable to express the "child" within, simply because of the expectation that Saturn may not approve, may not be capable of understanding, or may not be equipped to handle these expressions. The sense that Moon gets is that Saturn's needs for commitment are paramount, and that "frivolous" expressions of neediness or dependency wouldn't be appropriate; or that expressions of dependency on anything or anyone else will be met with Saturn's disapproval. It may also be that situational factors are such that true emotional intimacy is blocked, even though both parties want to get closer to each other.

The caution here is to avoid too much "censoring" to the point that Moon feels emotionally isolated, misunderstood, or blocked. Does Saturn truly benefit from this kind of "censoring"? Certainly not in the long run, because if it gets out of hand, Saturn will lose touch with Moon's deepest needs, fears, and desires. Emotional distance doesn't benefit either person. The chemistry in this relationship brings out the individual need for security and safety in both people, and each will certainly find a basic sense of safety with the other. Although Moon in particular may feel emotionally frustrated at times, there is a feeling of constancy and dependability in Saturn that is very attractive. This relationship stands much chance of being a long-lasting one. However, it can have its fair share of ups and downs. Periods of emotional distance and subsequent feelings that the relationship may be too "heavy" to maintain are often followed by tearful and emotional "reunions" when both parties feel that they need each other desperately, and that the attachment runs deeper than is always apparent. It is easy to see, with this kind of pattern, that either or both individuals could feel "trapped" together at times! But the truth of the matter is, given the depth of the attachment to each other, there is much to gain from working on the intimacy issues described above. Saturn needs to face his or her fears and consciously work on not clamping down on Moon, and Moon, instead of reacting defensively to Saturn, must also look to see whether Saturn does have a point, so to speak, and Moon can actually benefit from some of the more reasonable boundaries that Saturn seems to draw.

Karma is associated with Saturn, where the personal planet person feels some sort of personal debt to the Saturn person. The Saturn person seems to have the upper hand in the relationship, at least for a while. Both parties must be more mindful of what exactly they are doing. A balance is possible, as the personal planet person may benefit from Saturn's impositions, at least ones that are not purely based on fear. Maybe the personal planet person does need to learn to be more responsible and could benefit from some maturation, and Saturn can learn to loosen up in certain ways. Reacting defensively to each other will only exacerbate the problem.

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