posted July 28, 2008 06:22 AM         

First of all I will tell my case: no matter how old I am there are always (around me) free men, without children and never married. Divorced men don't like me (I don't like them either). I have met only one widower in all my life.
Now how to see that in Natal Chart?

I have Sun in 7th (ruler of 11th - empty house). Ruler of 7th is Mars in Leo, in 10th in square with Sun (back). Mars has sextile with Venus.

I see that how he has no children so:
my 5th - my children,
my 11th - his children (empty).

They are all younger: my Mercury is in 6th 3,5 degrees far from my DC. Some say that Mars in Leo means younger men.

Unfortunately, all that doesn't help me, as I have chronic pains with never ending story!

What are your experiences?

Buena

posted July 28, 2008 08:13 AM         

That was just my counting:

1st - me; 7th - him
2nd - my money; 8th - his money
3rd - my sisters; 9th - his sisters
4th - my home; 10th - his home
5th - my children; 11th - his children
6th - my illness; 12th - his illness.

I am studying a bit Horary Astrology and they do that way. I came to the idea to find out why all happens as it happens?

That is my way of Research in Astrology. I like this walking through the houses. It doesn't mean I am right.

Buena

posted July 28, 2008 12:35 PM         

But to answer the question what kind of men like me the answer is Aquarians and/or men old enough to be my dad. Take me to a club and the man heads in my direction who won't leave me alone will be the oldest man in the room, and probably looking for an argument. It has happened since I was teenager. I'm getting old myself now, so the gap is narrowing.

My chart has Mars in Aquarius (Conjunct the North Node) at the apex of Venus in Taurus Opposite Ascendant in Scorpio. It is also one corner of an Air Grand Trine with the Sun and Uranus. Mars is busy on my chart. Saying what you think and not wanting to be told what to do are not highly marriageable qualities, but it suits someone and that someone is *yawn* an Aquarian.

posted July 28, 2008 03:20 PM         

I would say these are the most common themes of the women I get serious with.

With Sun signs, I'd say I attract Sagittarius girls, then Capricorn, then Scorpio (in that order).

I have a 5th house Sagittarius. And Sagittarius girls seem most obviously attracted to me.

My Aquarius 7th house has yielded very few results, and I've never dated an Aquarian.

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I've kept a list of 22 Sun signs of the 24 girls I've physically "connected with" since childhood. Some of these were nothing more than a kiss, some of these resulted in sex, some resulted in love. These numbers date back to pre-school!

posted July 28, 2008 03:58 PM         

Aqua Sun, Libra Moon, Aqua Merc, Pisces Venus, Sag Mars?

She is such a fascinating girl. Her Moon, Venus, Saturn, and Uranus are all in the last degree of their signs. It's always fun to watch how she operates. She says some of the strangest things... its like she makes perfect sense in the most ridiculous ways. I'd say a true Aquarian genius.

posted July 28, 2008 04:17 PM         

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What kind of men (women) like you?

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A wide variety.

I'd start with feminine Suns - My Sun and Moon are feminine

Then probably Mutables - My Moon, Mercury, Venus, Saturn, Neptune and Asc are all Mutable

Followed by fellow Cardinals - I'm a double Capricorn (Sun and Jupiter) with two other planets in Cardinal signs (Pluto and Uranus in Libra), and four planets in Cardinal houses

Followed by Fixed - Mars in Scorpio is a fixed singleton in my chart. With Placidus houses I have four planets in fixed houses.

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posted July 28, 2008 04:31 PM         

but at the end of the day it does not work out because my scorpio sun/moon cannot handle them.

hmmm, i have dated or been involved with the 4 elements:

posted July 28, 2008 04:45 PM         

Aries 3
Gemini 1
Leo 2
Libra 1
Scorpio 1
Sagittarius 1
Capricorn 2
Aquarius 1
Pisces 1

posted July 28, 2008 05:49 PM         

I am uncertain whether it is I that gets drawn to them or what but I'm bombarded by Cancer guys (or I hunt them down?) I've had a very busy and social 2 weeks. All, I mean all the guys that hit on me were Cancer. I found it rather strange. And without meaning to sound full of myself but the number of guys who tried their luck with me in the last two weekends were 6. The rest I didn't care enough to find out when they were born.

i'm a Cancer moon, and It's on the MC. My Asc is Scorpio and my Mars and Jupiter are also in Scorpio. My Sun and Venus are in Virgo so generally all these Signs are compatible with Cancer.

As for their characters, they are highly romantic that one has to be on guard because one could easily fall for their charm. I know there are a lot of complaints about Cancers but I don't have that problem. All these guys were attentive, a little quiet, and one of them yesterday played me a set on the decks and dedicated it to me for all to hear. All these guys have a crazy streak about them, all artistic or into writing.

yeah, I've been ducking all the weekend long. They are serious too because all of them spoke about marriage, getting their acts together and having families.

posted July 29, 2008 03:51 AM         

I forgot to write what signs I had and prefer and they like me back:
The most important man was born January 1st (Capricorn with Venus in Scorpio). I have met two other men, born the same day and month and all three look like a brothers.

That means:

Capricorn (my Mars in 10th - Capricorn)
Scorpio (my Venus in 8th - Scorpio)
Taurus (my sign - I have nothing in 2nd)
Libra (my AC as also my Sun in 7th - Libra)
and that is all.

I have met more Cancer (my MC) men with AC Leo (my Mars) but something more wasn't there.

I like really New Year's men as they have at the same time trine my Sun and sextile my Moon.

posted July 29, 2008 11:04 AM         

Personally, I find it hard to resist a Taurus Rising, there's a strong attraction and usually instant bonding.
I have Moon/Venus/Taurus in the 5th.

Also Cancer Men, it never works out (because they're moody) but they have such a way of making me feel vulnerable yet secure enough to express it.

posted July 29, 2008 12:57 PM         

This is an interesting topic. I am a Cancer sun, Libra ASC, Pisces moon, and Venus in Leo. At least those are the major ones I know in my chart.

The guys I attract and have had the most significant relationships with, for better or worse, are Tauruses. Two of them have exactly the same birthdate! I often find myself attracted to Taurus men too because there is something gentle and sweet, but protective about them. And they have such a great fashion sense. LOL

posted July 29, 2008 02:17 PM         

I'm a woman in my mid-thirties, and I always seem to attract the same type of guys. I have Scorpio-ASC, Cancer-Sun, Sagittarius-Moon, Virgo-Venus, Cancer-Mars.

First: ONESIDEDNESS - the ones that are attracted to me so often - but always unrequitedly. They tend to fall for me quickly - but I am never able to develop a notable attraction or other romantic feelings for them: PISCES GUYS!!! At least three Pisces-guys have fallen madly in love with me - but I soon felt repelled by them in a way. And I guess I couldn't hide that - and hurt them, without the intention to do so.

These are some of my natal chart points in Pisces:

* North Node
* Immum Coeli (4th house cusp)
* Pallas
* Sun/ASC-Midpoint
* Asteroids & Arabic Parts:
- Hera
- Angel
- Sunshine
- Sexuality

Second: LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS: There is such a very strong LEO-Overtone to that part of my life, that I started to wonder "why?" some years ago.

Not only was my first boyfriend ever a Leo - also my most serious (husband-like) boyfriend for nine years - and finally my latest, most intense and badly failed relationship was with a Leo again. So: 3 of the most important relationships I had! Besides, I have some platonic, "buddy-like" male pals who are Leos. AND a man, who is currently after me is a LEO as well. But he must have a Pisces-ASC ...;-) Way too soft and clingy to me.

Here are some of my chart-points in Leo:

* Mercury
* BM Lilith
* Isis
* Asteroids/Arabic Parts:
- Marriage
- Husbandry
- Partners
- Amanda
- Aphrodite
- Desire
- Hybris
* Midpoints:
- Sun/Venus
- Venus/Mars
- Venus/Vertex
- Mercury/Venus
- Psyche/Jupiter

Third: SAME TASTE: Interestingly enough, most of the men who were in love with me (even the "unwanted" ones) definitely had their Venus in Virgo - like I have natally. Several others had Venus in Scorpio (my ASC-sign).

Fourth: STILL MISSING in my life are TAURUS-guys. Taurus is not only my DSC-sign (7th house cusp) - I have some other important chart points in that sign too - but NEVER got close to any Taurus so far.

My chartpoints in Taurus:

* DSC (7th house cusp)
* Saturn
* Juno
* Ceres
* Psyche
* Anteros
* Sirene

posted July 29, 2008 03:08 PM         

Yes, she is Moon in 12th, Sun/Merc in 4th

How does your aspect of Pisces Venus Square Sagittarius Saturn/Uranus work out for you?

Maybe it's Sarah's Scorpio Ascendant giving her great tenacity, or perhaps Sun/Merc in 4th with Moon in the 12th, but she is incredibly committed in her romantic relationships, and has had a long term live-in boyfriend since I've met her.

posted July 29, 2008 07:01 PM         

Typically water suns are attracted to me... And unfortunately, with so little water in my chart, I have a weakness for them.

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Then probably Mutables - My Moon, Mercury, Venus, Saturn, Neptune and Asc are all Mutable

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You know, most of my chart is also mutable (6 planets), but I actually find that the fixed and cardinal signs like me better probably because I AM so mutable. They can take the lead in the relationship a lot easier and since I'm so laid back, mutable style, I don't really care (unless they are offensive or disrespectful to me of course).

I typically attract Scorpios, Cancers, and Capricorns.

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They are serious too because all of them spoke about marriage, getting their acts together and having families.

to answer your question, I attract sweet Cancers who are on a mission to build their lives. But all of them, while talking, sounded like players hence I didn't entertain them too long. Between their sweet talks, I kept on seeing cracks of cheater, player, vibes. Maybe I'm paranoid.

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No... You're not paranoid. The most recent Cancer that I had a fling with was that way too, and unfortunately, because I haven't had a huge amount of experience with Cancers, I realized too late what it was he was doing. I mean... The fling was fun and he was a really cool guy, BUT, he was not serious at all, though he was talking about all the marriage, serious relationship crap. Luckily I was able to figure that out easily enough. Meh.

Now, the types of guys I typically like (and usually do attract) are either earth suns with heavy air undertones or water suns with heavy fire undertones (I myself am an earth sun with heavy fire undertones). So yeah... As far as attraction goes, I am RARELY attracted to fire and air signs. On occasion, I'll find an odd Libra or Aquarius I'm attracted to, or who is attracted to me, but it's rare.