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GeminiLover75
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posted July 31, 2008 02:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiLover75     Edit/Delete Message
I'm curious... would there be any common placements or aspects for relationships (or even deep friendships) that you make online?

And what sort of transit or placement would be present if you actually meet that person face to face?

I'm thinking that a combination of Aquarius/Uranus with Mercury/third house could indicate the online relationship? Or maybe this kind of placement is only present in the relationships that will only ever stay "online" and never become face to face relationships?

I'd really like to know others' experiences as to whether there are any specific aspects that indicate the "online relationship" and/or what was going on if or when you met face to face...

I have one or two that I'll try to analyse soon... I could be way off in thinking that there is an astrology placement for this, but if so I'd like to confirm it either way!

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posted July 31, 2008 02:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 23     Edit/Delete Message
Well this is really interesting for me because I kinda met my partner online, first time I talked to him was over ytalk many years ago. We did have mutual friends though. Unfortunately, I'll be guessing dates and misleading you if I tried.

I'd say talking online is an airy thing, if not an aqu/ura thing because of the distance and communication. Placements that you suggested sounds right.

As for meeting them, it could be maybe when the asc is strongest, ie in time when it is in aries (ie Personal meeting) or it could be an earth thing. Earth rules the physical and mundane. Maybe in the 7th - forming a relationship

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GeminiLover75
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posted July 31, 2008 03:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiLover75     Edit/Delete Message
Interesting points. I just ran a chart for the day that I finally met someone face to face after at least a year of talking online, and the sun had just gone into Taurus (conjunct my sun). It's a bit mind boggling to me at the moment so I'll post the charts soon...

I wonder if there's an asteroid that would be relevant?

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darkdreamer
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posted July 31, 2008 04:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for darkdreamer     Edit/Delete Message
It`s interesting; I "discovered" the internet and especially messageboards and e-mail, when Transit Uranus was exactly conjunct my natal Moon. And Uranus rules the 3rd house in my natal and sits on the cusp of the 11th house (so Mercury-Uranus). It made sense that I started talking online then.

I also noticed that, if email- "friendship" start (and they don`t fade away quickly), that they are lasting approximately one and a half year.
There`s an exception, though. I made an online-friend, and we have been writing to each other for 4 years now. And even though the emails have become a bit more seldom as in the beginning, we still mail each other at least once a week, sometimes more, which is pretty much I guess.

But with her I have "normal" friendship-synastry. Actually there are quite some interesting connections.

Her Sun and Saturn conjunct my Moon.
Her Moon opposes my Venus.
Her Mercury on my Sun-Moon-midpoint and Antivertex
Her Venus conjunct my Sun and Mercury.
Her Mars opposing my Moon.
Her ASC conjunct my Saturn.
Her Uranus trine my Venus and squares my Mars.


I become actually a part of her very challenging T-square, since she has Sun / Saturn / MC in Aquarius opposing Mars in Leo square Neptune in Scorpio, and my Moon conjuncts her Sun, Saturn and MC.


Interesting note: We have never met each other, and don`t even know how each other looks. We will meet in London next year though, far away from both our homecountries (I am from Germany, she is from Sweden).


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Diandra23
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posted July 31, 2008 08:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diandra23     Edit/Delete Message
Hi!

that´s a very interesting question- nowadays there are many people who met online,not only friendship but relationship wise.

my bf,i met him online,i dont know exactly the day where we started to chat but i know the day we actually met

his transits:

his:

T.Kiron / T.Nept passing this 7th aqua house,with T.Nep conj his Moon.

T.Uranus conj his P.F in his 9th house

T.venus conj natal Karma

T.Sun conj natal Valentine

T.merc conj natal NN

T.NN trine natal Uranus

Mine:

T.Plut/Valentine conj my natal Neptune in the 3rd

T.Kiron conj my 5thaquaCusp

T.Uranus conj natal Amor

T.NN conj my 7th Cusp

T.Sun conj my natal PF/NN

T.Merc conj my MC

T.Satur conj my Valentine/Karma

as for sinastry we have:

the mmost usual aspect in long-distance:the sun-uranus skuare.This is an aspect present also in many celebrity couples where distance is somehow a part of their lives together,due to work or other circunstances.

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BornUnderDioscuri
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posted August 01, 2008 12:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message
Hmm I wonder what we have, other than a similar everything and an outlook on life lol!

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posted August 01, 2008 04:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 23     Edit/Delete Message
GL75 - Asteroids?

Link 3550 might be interesting. Maybe you can see how that is transiting the day you meet (or in a progression chart)


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GeminiLover75
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posted August 02, 2008 01:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiLover75     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks for all the replies so far! Hmm, Link could be interesting...

Yeah BUD, I wonder... I haven't had much time to look into this yet for myself, but it seems as though the Uranus aspects could be the most important factor?

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Kick It
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posted August 02, 2008 07:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kick It     Edit/Delete Message
Friends on t'internet will have a combination of Jupiter (internet) and Uranus (friends)

Sag on the 11th, like me, seems ideal.
Even t'other way round seems fine.

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winky_winky
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posted August 04, 2008 12:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for winky_winky     Edit/Delete Message
strong uranus or pisces, telepathy and mental and creative stimulation without presence i would say........... all of course in aspect to venus surely

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BornUnderDioscuri
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posted August 05, 2008 09:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message
We have a lot of Neptune aspects and moon/pluto, not so much Uranus hmm

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GeminiLover75
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posted August 06, 2008 01:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiLover75     Edit/Delete Message
BUD, I wonder if our composite Uranus or a Uranus aspect in our synastry was activated by a transit when we first started talking? I can see how the moon/Pluto aspects work and even the Neptune in a way, if you see what I mean. Sometimes I feel like our friendship has some higher purpose and that we're supposed to help each other. You know?

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