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Topic: Aquarius and Pisces
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flyin_free_70
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posted August 12, 2008 09:26 AM
 
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But, I also read something on the Internet written by a Pisces Girl about her Aquarian Guy - it really struck a chord with Me... I love the way this Pisces Girl understands her Aqua Guy... http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/messages.asp?id=320730&p=1&sort=asc
Holy, this link is amazing! I've bookmarked it for reference. Is that REALLY the way Aqua guys are? The #3, keeping my distance part is seriously going to kill me. OK, I'm going to try not to turn this into a book but I need to explain how things are going for us and get some insite on him. We haven't been seeing each other for that long and we both have children and pretty much need to work around their schedules to see each other until there comes a point where we decide to introduce them too each other. On top of that he works out of town 4 days at a time and I work Mon-Fri..all of this makes it hard for our schedules to match and we don't get to see each other all that often. I Know he really likes me. For one he's pretty open about it (man that man can talk...and talk enough to get me to talk too), for two he does all these little things that make me know he's worried about what I think of Him. (he tells me I'm beautiful and he worries about the way he looks(which he doesn't have to...I think he's gorgeous), he texts me little msgs from work just to let me know he's thinking of me, we managed to spend most of last weekend together and he washed his van that we took camping for the first time in 3 years (and he's dated other women before me...so why'd he have to wash it for Me?), he cleaned his house up spotless before he brought me over last weekend...he's doing so many things that show me he's worried about ME not liking Him that I absolutely know he really likes me, he also introduced me to his friends at the wedding we went to as "his girlfriend"....and yet we have this seriously wonderful weekend together and now I feel like I'm getting mixed messages. He dropped me off on Sunday and went home to pack up his stuff so he could take his daughters camping for the rest of this week...there was a small window later on in the evening where we had decided we might be able to get together but he called and said he needed to finish packing...fine, no problem. So I invited him for lunch the next day and he again said he might show up if he was done everything...well he didn't show up...no call, no text, nothing. Now I'm getting a little worried that maybe he's pulling back. Maybe that's not it at all, I mean he did have legitimate reasons for both and we already have plans for next weekend so it's not like he doesn't want to see me again or anything...If that description of aquas is accurate then maybe this is just his way of taking back his space? Is it a test to see if I'm too needy/clingy? Like I said, I'm just kind of confused. I'm thinking my best bet at this point is to just not call him at all and let him call me later on in the week when he wants to...any insite into this would be great Aquaguy...or anybody else for that matter? IP: Logged |
flyin_free_70
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posted August 12, 2008 09:33 AM
I should also add that I don't let many people into my world. Very few people ever get close enough that I open the door and they see the "real" me and yet he's definately getting in there. He probes and pokes and talks and talks until he gets me to open up and let my guard down...I think that's one of the reasons that this pulling back on his part is killing me so much. I can do the "distance" thing (which is what most people get from me) or I can let you in...and once you're in it's really hard for me to not be emotional and open.IP: Logged |
AquaGuy
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posted August 12, 2008 12:38 PM
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Is that REALLY the way Aqua guys are? The #3, keeping my distance part is seriously going to kill me.
Some, but, not all...  Actually, I had a problem with number 3 also... And even if it is true, she said the "beginning" - you're already kinda past that stage... quote:
I mean he did have legitimate reasons for both and we already have plans for next weekend so it's not like he doesn't want to see me again or anything...If that description of aquas is accurate then maybe this is just his way of taking back his space? Is it a test to see if I'm too needy/clingy?
If he's anything like Me then he might be in "Daddy Mode" since he's getting ready to spend the time with them... quote:
Like I said, I'm just kind of confused. I'm thinking my best bet at this point is to just not call him at all and let him call me later on in the week when he wants to...any insite into this would be great Aquaguy
Yep - I think you should wait until he gets back and you're together again... If he's anything like Me then he's probably fiercely devoted to his daughters... Don't want to force any wedge between them and you... Besides, all the good stuff you wrote earlier is very encouraging I believe... Sounds good to Me... Don't worry - I think you got him hooked... ------------------
February 3 1968... Sun = Aquarius... Ascendant = Libra... Moon + Saturn = Aries... Venus = Capricorn... Jupiter + Uranus + Pluto = Virgo... Mercury + Mars = Pisces... Neptune = Scorpio... Email = theaquaguy@optonline.net IP: Logged |
flyin_free_70
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posted August 13, 2008 08:18 AM
Thank you, you've made me feel better about the whole thing. Thing is, I Know he likes me, he makes it so obvious that I don't have to wonder...I also read people pretty darn well and know he's pulled back for some reason. At this point I just really can't figure out just "what" that reason is. I'm pretty sure that when I see him and if I ask him about it (I not entirely sure I *should* ask at this point) that he'll tell me. He's very, very honest. Anyway, time will tell I suppose and for the most part if this works out it will be an amazing relationship...and IF he already has some sort of issue with it then I guess it's better to know now. Now I just have to quit stressing 'till Saturday and let things fall where they may. IP: Logged |
flyin_free_70
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posted August 13, 2008 08:28 AM
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According to me, that combination is the second best, next to conjunction.
A planet is strongest when conjunct and the next aspect along is semisextile (30 degrees)- it is also the previous aspect to a conjunction.
Kick it, I know very little about astrology so I don't really understand this too well. Where can I go to get a chart for each of us, or a chart for both of us together that explains all that? I know his sun is Aquarius, his moon is Cancer, his Mars is Leo and his Venus is Sag or Cap (I don't know his time of birth) My sun is Pisces, moon is Gem, Mars is Taurus, Venus is Aries Could his moon, make him much more compatible with Pisces than most Aqua's? That's just Me interpreting but I *think* I'm right... IP: Logged |
amowls
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posted August 13, 2008 09:35 AM
flyin: if his moon is in cancer, he's going to be more needy than most aquarians. his moon craves stability and emotional security. he's not going to mind if you're clingy.IP: Logged |
flyin_free_70
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posted August 13, 2008 09:47 AM
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flyin: if his moon is in cancer, he's going to be more needy than most aquarians. his moon craves stability and emotional security. he's not going to mind if you're clingy.
*Grin..thank you! I was pretty sure that's how it worked but it's nice to have some confirmation on it. IP: Logged |
bluegreyeyes
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posted August 13, 2008 12:16 PM
One of my best friends is a Pisces, and I'm an aqua. We've been friends since, wow, um, 3rd grade...so about 15+ years. My only critique of her is that she is a little clingy. Literally, if I haven't seen her in a few months, she'll hold my hand and lean on my and walk arm in arm. (She acts the polar opposite with strangers tho.) She's not very independent... she would be wayyy too self conscious to sit in a bar by herself, she's constantly looking around feeling "eyes" on her, wondering if people think she's a loser or something. So she might be a little insecure in that respect. ------------------
*Christina*
Aquarius SUN
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flyin_free_70
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posted August 13, 2008 07:06 PM
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She's not very independent... she would be wayyy too self conscious to sit in a bar by herself, she's constantly looking around feeling "eyes" on her, wondering if people think she's a loser or something. So she might be a little insecure in that respect.
That's me...I'd rather die than sit in a bar by myself. I'm also really self conscious about trying to do something I've never done before...ie: skiing, kayaking, etc. I always think that people will look at me like "OMG, she doesn't have a clue what she's doing"...it's getting much, much better as I'm getting older, but in general, that's definately me!
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hippichick
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posted August 14, 2008 10:56 AM
There are way to many Aqua threads on this forum for me to reiterate here.I am a Pisces female with lots of experience with Aqua males and I have just one thing to say. It is all about the energy. It can be successful, but it really helps IF the Pisces has alot of air (ahhhh Aqua would help) and the Aqua has alot of water. Even tho, this was the case with me and he, it never would have been what I wanted. Over many years and encounters with Aqua males, I have come to know that any Pisces woman who is involved with an Aqua male must have a high degree of detachment herself, be a bit cool, aloof and have a life all her own, which, save for having a life all her own are largely impossible for the Pisces lady. The air/water sun sign combo leaves the individuals in a perpetual state of fog....what is created when warm water is blended with cool air....? Fog.... IP: Logged |
AquaGuy
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Registered: Jun 2008
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posted August 15, 2008 01:31 PM
Whoa, HippiChick - bummer... Anybody with some happy thoughts... LOL... ------------------
February 3 1968... Sun = Aquarius... Ascendant = Libra... Moon + Saturn = Aries... Venus = Capricorn... Jupiter + Uranus + Pluto = Virgo... Mercury + Mars = Pisces... Neptune = Scorpio... Email = theaquaguy@optonline.net IP: Logged |
hippichick
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posted August 15, 2008 02:50 PM
experience is the best teacher IP: Logged |
flyin_free_70
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posted August 15, 2008 09:29 PM
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Whoa, HippiChick - bummer... Anybody with some happy thoughts... LOL...
Well since you're an Aqua male, maybe you could throw your own experiences on here. If you were with a woman who wasn't very independant, who wore her heart on her sleeve, who was pretty darn good showing affection and liked receiving it, who needed you to show her you cared....if you were with a woman like that would it drive you insane? Do you need your space? IP: Logged |
flyin_free_70
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posted August 17, 2008 07:40 PM
Well, just an update...I just had the most amazing weekend ever with this guy. Absolutely nothing was wrong (and I did ask him about it) He just said that things were pretty new and he wanted to be careful about me meeting his daughters too soon and also that he didn't have any cell service unless while he was camping unless he paddled around the lake looking and looking for a weak signal. All in all I'm going to just quit worrying about weather or not Aqua's and Pisces *should* get along or not and just let this relationship happen. I know Aqua's aren't supposed to be(and maybe it's because the relationships so new, or maybe it's because he has his moon in Cancer...or whatever) but this guy is Very affectionate, comassionate, romantic, and soo honest and caring. I have never in my life had such a great relationship. And my ex was a Pisces and we're *supposed* to get along...and he was none of those things! IP: Logged |
AquaGuy
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posted August 19, 2008 08:58 AM
Yay - that's what I was waiting to hear... Can you explain the "romantic" things if possible? ------------------
February 3 1968... Sun = Aquarius... Ascendant = Libra... Moon + Saturn = Aries... Venus = Capricorn... Jupiter + Uranus + Pluto = Virgo... Mercury + Mars = Pisces... Neptune = Scorpio... Email = theaquaguy@optonline.net IP: Logged |
sinderlou
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posted August 19, 2008 11:13 AM
i dated an aqua for a while and it was nice but he also said i was clingy so i left. now he says he feels so lost without me in his life.I won;t admit it to him but I still love him inside and have remained strictly freinds but i would always be there for him if he needed me. its is a strange water/fish relationship..... IP: Logged |
AquaGuy
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posted August 19, 2008 01:54 PM
Can you define "clingy" in Pisces terms...------------------
February 3 1968... Sun = Aquarius... Ascendant = Libra... Moon + Saturn = Aries... Venus = Capricorn... Jupiter + Uranus + Pluto = Virgo... Mercury + Mars = Pisces... Neptune = Scorpio... Email = theaquaguy@optonline.net IP: Logged |
blue moon
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posted August 19, 2008 03:34 PM
They clingy comment is interesting. It isn't just clinginess they might complain about, because Aquarians can be hypocritical. They are the ones that get to be independent and aloof. If their partners display the same, they might complain about that as well. Maybe it is the traditional rulership coming into play ~ the Saturn side. They like people to be there when they want them, and not bother them when they aren't in the mood. IP: Logged |
flyin_free_70
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posted August 19, 2008 07:30 PM
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Yay - that's what I was waiting to hear... Can you explain the "romantic" things if possible?
The romantic things...hmmm, well I'm not sure all of these are "romantic" on their own but they all fall into the mix of just why I like him so much. He texts me completely sweet random things out of the blue messeges just to let me know he's thinking of me, he tells me I'm beautiful (and really means it), he's not afraid to talk about Anything, he loves to hold hands and touch and yet he's as masculine as they come, he's smart, and funny and very honest. Truthfully I really can't say exactly "why" I like him so much...I just do. He makes me smile and he makes me happy...and I've never fealt this way in a relationship before in my life.Sorry, I guess I really didn't answer your question all that well did I? Truth is, I've been with other men who brought me flowers all the time and stuff (which IS romantic) but they never made me feel like this...it's not "One thing" that somebody does, it's the whole person. IP: Logged |
AquaGuy
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posted August 19, 2008 07:59 PM
Flyin - sounds awesome... It's the Pisces/Aquarian Magic at work - there's no explaining it... Keep us updated... ------------------
February 3 1968... Sun = Aquarius... Ascendant = Libra... Moon + Saturn = Aries... Venus = Capricorn... Jupiter + Uranus + Pluto = Virgo... Mercury + Mars = Pisces... Neptune = Scorpio... Email = theaquaguy@optonline.net IP: Logged |
flyin_free_70
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posted August 19, 2008 11:42 PM
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It's the Pisces/Aquarian Magic at work - there's no explaining it
*Grin...I love that sentence. That's basically the phrase I was hoping to find when I first started googling Pisces n Aquarius. Didn't find it of course but like I said, does it really matter? I mean for whatever reason (astrology or otherwise) everything is looking great for the moment.  I'll keep you updated, I promise. IP: Logged |
peace
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posted August 20, 2008 02:26 AM
Paul Newman 1/26/1925 & Joanne Woodward 2/27/1930Carole King 2/9/1942 & James Taylor 3/12/1948
not a couple but very creative!. Aquarius & Pisces the most cutest couples on the planet!.
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AquaGuy
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posted August 20, 2008 06:28 AM
Flyin - you have to Google "pisces aquarian attraction love" otherwise you just get the lame usual "textbook" responses...You need to read "real world" love stories from real Pisces and Aquarians... When I become attracted to a Pisces Girl I started Googling it and was amazed to hear the same feelings being described as I was having... And it was more than that she was just beautiful... It's like I can sense something with her... Like some force or energy... It's crazy... But it's cool... ------------------
February 3 1968... Sun = Aquarius... Ascendant = Libra... Moon + Saturn = Aries... Venus = Capricorn... Jupiter + Uranus + Pluto = Virgo... Mercury + Mars = Pisces... Neptune = Scorpio... Email = theaquaguy@optonline.net IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted August 20, 2008 09:37 AM
"You need to read "real world" love stories from real Pisces and Aquarians..."
AG: Is that a book???
Huh I can actually write a book on Aqau and Pisces just from my own experience..:-) IP: Logged |
Annepisces
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posted August 20, 2008 12:55 PM
the only problem i have with my aqua man friend is he a workaholic and put his career first before anything else.IP: Logged |
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