posted August 12, 2008 10:58 AM              

not a large family, parents separated when was 13 years old, only one sister

my dad was never much at home, and i get along better with my mother, when i was little i had a best friend and she had a large family where i used to spend a lot of time

then again when i was VERY little, i had lots of cousins etc... but mainly because i lived at my dadīs birthplace but from 3 years old onwards not much contact with family at all...

posted August 12, 2008 03:09 PM              

Anyone else?

posted August 12, 2008 03:54 PM            

Can you be a more specific as to what you're trying to determine by someone having Venus in Gemini.

I have Venus in Gemini in the 12th House. It is sextile Mercury-Saturn and sesquiquadrate Pluto.

Also, Venus=Sun/Moon.

My Venus tells nothing of my Mom, Dad, hobbies, school or friends. My Venus co-rules the 12th House and rules the 6th house, so you've got my health and workplace, cooperation dynamics.

Would you please explain what you're looking for with your question. Thanks.

Geocosmic Valentine

posted August 12, 2008 05:01 PM              

My life as a child was not based on anything academic or intellectual. My parents didn't tell me to do homework, didn't care about my school life, or supported me in those areas for that matter.
My parents split when I was 5, then when I turned 8 my dad married my stepmom.
My childhood was mostly emotional and tulmutuous and because of the trauma I don't remember much from it.
But yeah,....other than the love I received from my stepmom, it was anything but lovely.

Oh, and regarding a sibling, my older brother was more like a younger brother...I never felt supported by him and I was the one who took care of him.

posted August 12, 2008 07:16 PM            

Natal Venus in Gemini in the 7th. Hmm – I grew up in a challenging home environment. I had an angry, verbally abusive father, and a very kind, spiritual mother. I was homeschooled, and we moved around quite a bit so my primary friends were my mom and sister. I read a lot and played tons of computer games (escapist stuff). : )

posted August 13, 2008 11:54 AM              

Some commonalities among Venus in Gemini types I've noticed so far have included at least one step-parent, a big social circle and/or extended family, and nurturant influences who...weren't so much.

posted August 13, 2008 02:08 PM              

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I was drawn to creative people.
And interesting people.
People who were unusual and different.

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posted August 13, 2008 02:55 PM            

Yes, I fit the bill with the very large extended family. I never thought about how large my social circle is, but because my Venus is also in the 12th house, as is my Sun, I tend to isolate from time to time, but I've never felt that I had no friends to socialize with when I come out of hiding.

I have had 3 step parents at this point. I don't understand what you mean when you say "nurturant influences who...weren't so much."

Does that mean that the people who were supposed to nurture you didn't nurture very well?

Thanks for focusing the question a little more.

Geocosmic Valentine

posted August 13, 2008 05:12 PM              

My bf who is also Venus in Gemini has very large both nuclear and extended family. He doesn't have a step-parent, but his three oldest siblings have a different father to him, and so does the youngest sibling. So his father is actually the step-parent to all of those children.

posted August 13, 2008 09:56 PM            

My stepmother can only be described as....interesting. She's a gemini herself, but her moods are kind of ridiculous. Then again, so are my dad's. She's also been very gossipy in the past about my mother and me and my sis and my brother.

For interests: I've finally realized that I tend to have alot of hobbies, almost being like a Renaissance man.

posted August 13, 2008 10:41 PM            

Although I have Venus in Gemini and that was my experience, it was also my brother's experience. He is a year older than me and he has Venus in Pisces, so I'm wondering just how tight your research can be with Venus in Gemini reflecting these things, how does it compare to every other Venus in the zodiac so far?

How many Venus in Gemini charts have you considered that have these same experiences?

What houses are they located in?

How are these Venus' aspected?

What houses do they rule?

posted June 07, 2016 03:25 PM            

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Originally posted by wild sheep:
Moms, Dads, step-parents, school, friends, hobbies, etc.?

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My family life is far from being fairytale,elders just didnt get along,and they favorized my and sisters older brother so a lot of tension on both sides. Sister and i sticked together allways.

Father was almost allways absent

I started "noticing" mother when i got tad older,my grandmother kinda alienated us from mom when we were super young because she disliked her (still does,and still looks us under the eye when she sees us being close to mom)

I mean i like my childhood in general,but it had lots of negative stuff going on also

Even though i have sun,mercury and gemini in my 11 th house i dont really have or have had real friends - i mean,i was good with everyone,but no real ,real friendships.