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Topic: How do I talk to a shy Pisces? =/
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augentier
Knowflake Posts: 893
From: KS
Registered: Nov 2007
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posted September 01, 2008 06:10 PM
 
So this guy I've been seeing..this is his chart  In person, he is SO shy..he responds but doesn't continue talking about anything or elaborate on something..I have to just keep asking. And when I talk about things, he gives little input. He has told me he's really shy and he can't help it. He is ESPECIALLY shy around girls. Even though we've been involved for a while he is still shy around me. How do I help him open up more? When we talk over texting or instant messaging he is VERY open..but in person, the total opposite. Whats up with that? ------------------
Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon Mercury:: Sagittarius
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Marila1313
Knowflake Posts: 117
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Registered: Aug 2008
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posted September 01, 2008 06:19 PM
For the whole Pisces shyness, I have a best friend pisces I've known since childhood. With me, of coarse she talks and we have a good relationship, BUT, I do notice around new people, she does withdrawl from them. So it's a normal pisces thing. I could also give you advice not to be so loud and flamboyant because my pisces friend hates loud, know-it-all people. So don;t be like that, but if you are, then don;t change yourself for someone, you should have to be comfortable in a relatuionshiop.
Did you do a synastry chart on you two? IP: Logged |
augentier
Knowflake Posts: 893
From: KS
Registered: Nov 2007
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posted September 01, 2008 06:22 PM
Despite my Sag moon & mercury Im not a loud boisterous person lol..but I am certainly inquisitive. Around people I don't know I am very reserved, withdrawn, and awkward socially. So I get where he's coming from..but with people I am close to and been intimate with, I am much much more open...so the fact that we've been close and he still doesn't talk bugs me.Yeah, I've done our synastry chart..we have Mercury square Sun so maybe that's what's going on here. This is my natal for reference:
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evander
Knowflake Posts: 195
From: east of eu
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted September 01, 2008 07:09 PM
hate to be the one to say this, but isn't it possible that he needs more maturing for that kind of closeness? most guys are like that till they reach certain emotional maturity. IP: Logged |
Kick It
Knowflake Posts: 1032
From: Leeds
Registered: May 2008
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posted September 01, 2008 08:12 PM
You dont help him open up as you are not his therapist, you are supposed to be his plaything.I had the same situation with a lass, couldnt stand it because she was really quiet. So I didnt stand for it. Made it not my problem. If you use wide orbs, 1st ruler square 3rd ruler. Guess it can be an indication of a non-talker. Add to that a square (and opposition) to 9th ruler and I guess it reinforces what I just said, but adds how other people communicate with that person.
His self-how he communicates-how others communicate with him are all in bad aspect. I got 3rd and 9th in square and I find people dont communicate directly with me, when thats all Im after. Its all indirect, whereas I want it direct. IP: Logged |
snohawk1
Knowflake Posts: 234
From: Killaloe, Ontario, Canada
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted September 01, 2008 09:03 PM
Pisces sun, Scorpio rising, Aquarius Saturn.
Three thing you should put together. Same as me.IP: Logged |
snohawk1
Knowflake Posts: 234
From: Killaloe, Ontario, Canada
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted September 01, 2008 09:15 PM
also, venus, mars and moon in negative aspect to eachother, besides mars and moon, same as me -my mars and moon are square though.------------------
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hippichick
Knowflake Posts: 2236
From: The Ether
Registered: Jan 2006
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posted September 01, 2008 09:35 PM
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Kismet*
Knowflake Posts: 107
From: CA, USA
Registered: Jun 2008
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posted September 01, 2008 10:53 PM
You don't talk at all, you look into his eyes until both your hearts are beating with unspoken desire.IP: Logged |
snohawk1
Knowflake Posts: 234
From: Killaloe, Ontario, Canada
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted September 01, 2008 11:20 PM
That would probably more apply to Pisces who have mercury in Pisces, but I don't know.IP: Logged |
Kismet*
Knowflake Posts: 107
From: CA, USA
Registered: Jun 2008
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posted September 01, 2008 11:27 PM
Could be true, but the Pisces I knew had Sun/Mercury in Pisces, so I'm sure that factors in. I'm also a cancer so little words were needed in order for us to understand eachothers desires. But one thing I know for sure is that the way to their heart is almost always in what words cannot express.
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augentier
Knowflake Posts: 893
From: KS
Registered: Nov 2007
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posted September 02, 2008 12:09 AM
when it comes to those DESIRES you speak of..we have no need to speak to each other, like you said, we sense it. but i'd like to have casual conversation afterward..lolIP: Logged |
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