posted September 17, 2008 06:54 PM
Hey Kismet,I am quoting what I have just added to another Saturn-forum (go and check: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/019105.html)
Personally, my experiences with tr. Saturn cojuncting a planet are not at all bad.
During tr. Saturn cj. my natal Sun (2004 mainly) I made huge steps to come to my real "self", left a relationship and a town where I didn't feel "at home" anymore - Saturn was like a big brother, strong friend, mighty father who really SUPPORTED me - even though this was an exhausting time. But: Saturn was watching over me!
Then I had Saturn cj. my Venus - during 2007 until this early summer 2008. Again, while I was stuck in that transit, I felt treated "badly" very often - entered and fought for an unhealthy relationship. SO: What Saturn did is: showing me the weaknesses in my OWN approach to love - by letting me meet and get heartbroken by this nasty a$$$hole-type-of-guy - I tried to cling to him, even though I felt threatened by him from the start - and Saturn shattered my dreams in this regard - but also HELPED me to figure out what I definitely do NOT want in a partner. Even though I was very sad ... now ... 4 months after the break-up (I left him under the returning Saturn-cj-my-Venus-influence) I feel very much wiser and more self-confident and feel a certain pride, that I managed to get out of that wrong thing!