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Marila1313
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posted September 17, 2008 07:36 PM           Edit/Delete Message
I was wondering if a man's venus sign shows when he is romantically interested in a woman. OR is it maybe the mars or moon sign?

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alvarella777
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posted September 17, 2008 07:40 PM           Edit/Delete Message
My bet is more on the MOON, and second on the MARS-sign. AND look at the aspects to Venus in his chart - the way his Venus is aspected, that's the way he uses his energies to "get to Venus", how he approaches and deals with "Venus" (his love ideal). If he'd have Mars square Venus he would use much temper and aggressiveness, if it was Neptune trining Venus he'd "write poems" and so on an so forth ... Ju´st my 5 cents.;_)

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posted September 17, 2008 07:48 PM           Edit/Delete Message
7th house.

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bvanzy
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posted September 17, 2008 07:51 PM           Edit/Delete Message
Interesting, why Mars and the Moon before Venus?

The way I see it is this, generally speaking:

The progression would go: she's hot but I couldn't care less (Mars), she's effing hot beyoonnnd belief (Venus), she's amazing/God I'm so in love (Moon).

But I'd be interested to hear some guys on this one.

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Kick It
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posted September 17, 2008 07:52 PM           Edit/Delete Message
Post a pic and I will say if she is hot, effing hot or amazing/got a hard...hot.

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alvarella777
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posted September 17, 2008 07:57 PM           Edit/Delete Message
Hey BVANZY: Very well described, this "ranking of male interests" in a woman. I had something similar in mind: Moon would rule his "true" feelings, strong, profound emotional attraction, makes him feel "at home" and lets him develop some emotional longing. ("real love"). Mars-driven interests would more be of the "physical/sportive" kind. And "Venus" for a man ... can be quite an abstract thing, describing his "taste", but in a more "ephemeral" kind, not very basic, more like an overall ideal, a bit far fetched maybe ... STILL an important element - but not the core-base of feeling sound and strong "love", where the wish to "bond" plays a role ... BUT: I'm a woman too, haha! Just my impression from "the other side"... YOU GO GUYS!

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posted September 17, 2008 08:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message
My Venus is in Sag in the 7th. It sits between my Mercury and Neptune. It's conjunct both of them. It trines Pluto in Libra in the 5th. (Pluto is conjunct my Moon at 29 degrees Virgo.) Heck, by this time I should just post my whole chart!

So, my Venus is well aspected, and may be influenced quite a bit. Being conjunct Neptune alone may cause for some confusion on the matter.

Does my Venus sign show when I'm romantically interested in a woman?

I can be quite reserved when I'm romantically interested in a woman. I can go for months just casually having a silent crush on someone. That doesn't sound very Sag in the 7th, does it?

On the other hand, if the interest is someone I've just met, and there's little likelihood of me meeting up with this interest in the future, if I really, really like her I'll go ahead and make some sort of move to prolong the acquaintance. Any threat of my interest no longer being around can spur me into action.

So, overall, I'd have to say "No" you're not likely to get my Venus if I'm attracted to you. You'll get some combination of my 8th house Capricorn Sun, my Virgo Moon, and my Mars in Scorpio.

Could my Venus ever come out? I can see myself acting very Sagittarian when I'm drunk.

Gotta cut this short. Bye.

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alvarella777
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posted September 17, 2008 08:26 PM           Edit/Delete Message
ACOUSTIC GOD, that was a very well formulated, very clear self-description! (not SO common for male beings, haha!)

Gosh - from our respective signs we oughta be quite compatible!

Your Cap-Sun - my Cancer-Sun
Your Virgo-Moon - my Virgo-Venus
Your Sag-Venus - my Sag-Moon
Your Scorpio-Mars - my Cancer-Mars & Scorpio-ASC

I wish I'd meet a guy with these placements in real life one day, haha!!! (I wouldn't mind a dash of Taurus as well, since my DSC and Juno are in Taurus.)

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bvanzy
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posted September 17, 2008 08:47 PM           Edit/Delete Message
Hey alvarella777 - your comment (about two above) was really excellent, very insightful. I agree. But I also think this, that a man's interest cannot seriously be considered to be piqued unless he gets 'emotionally' attached, otherwise it is very simple for the man. Sex. Nothing. Relief.

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bvanzy
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posted September 17, 2008 08:59 PM           Edit/Delete Message
Mars in Scorpio I see more of as energy than preference.

Venus in 7 conjunct Neptune and Mercury is HUGE. Very libran loving.

Moon in Virgo makes me think (generally) of wanting a woman who can help you or one you can help. Damsels?

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Arnicka
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posted September 17, 2008 09:51 PM           Edit/Delete Message
i've always noticed that they act more like their moon sign... venus is more their ideal look, theyll either peg you as that or try to paint a picture of you possessing those qualities, romanticizing those qualities in you even if they dont exist.

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posted September 17, 2008 10:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Smiling Scorpittarius     Edit/Delete Message
Very interesting question!

I was thinking the same thing with the last guy I dated. He has an Aries moon and when I talked about him with my gal pal who was also dating a Sagittarius guy she said that my guy didn't seem like a Sag. So I think in my experience my guy's moon definitely shined through. I think he has Mars-Aquarius and Venus-Capricorn, like me. And I know when how I am when it comes to relationships, I try to take it slow and I've done the dating thing more than having actual relationships. I know for him it's the opposite. He's had more relationships but only a few that were long term.


Maybe, their Venus is what kind of women their interested in? And the moon is how they would act towards someone they're interested in?

Just my opinion, but what do i know, I don't know much about astrology...still learning...

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Dragoon
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posted September 17, 2008 11:17 PM           Edit/Delete Message
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the way his Venus is aspected

what if you dont have any aspect to your venus?

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LeoPisCan
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posted September 17, 2008 11:19 PM           Edit/Delete Message
I remember reading (unfortunately, I can't remember where) that a man's venus describes what attracts him, a man's mars describes how he pursues that person and his moon describes how he acts when he finally gets them.

More or less. Obviously, no planet acts all by itself. Also, a person with Venus SQ Saturn will be attracted to something different than a person with Venus SQ Uranus even if their venus is in the same sign/house.

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posted September 17, 2008 11:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message
Alvarella, ooooh...

Yeah, actually, we probably are fairly compatible. I am open-minded, so take this with a grain of salt, but I've pretty much sworn off Cancers, and that only because I've dated quite a few and it's never worked out (and I've so wanted it to [Seriously. I fall hard for Cancers.]). I've never known their charts in any detail, though, so there is a possibility that there's a Cancerian chart out there somewhere that would work. (Lately, I've been thinking a lot about the opposites, and whether their planet rulers express the similar yet opposite nature of the signs they represent, like what properties does Saturn have that might correlate to the Moon's properties? Is there something there, or is it just an interesting thought?)

I have absolutely zero Taurus. It occupies my 12th house. I get along splendidly with Taurus' though. Most of my best friends have been Taurus', and I can't say enough good things about them.

bvanzy,

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Moon in Virgo makes me think (generally) of wanting a woman who can help you or one you can help. Damsels?

That can also happen with Venus conjunct Neptune. I have both. Nice, huh?

Arnicka,

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venus is more their ideal look, theyll either peg you as that or try to paint a picture of you possessing those qualities, romanticizing those qualities in you even if they dont exist.

Not in my personal experience. I don't think I've ever painted a girlfriend into having Sagittarian or Libran traits. Of course, if you bring the aspects into it, then you're probably right as I may think them intelligent (Mercury) and see them in an overly positive way (Neptune).

Dragoon,

If you don't have any aspects to your Venus, then the Venus is unaspected which means it doesn't connect in with your chart. Because it doesn't connect in, it might overact, and become more of a dominating force in your chart.

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alvarella777
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posted September 18, 2008 01:39 AM           Edit/Delete Message
ACOUSTIC GOD, I am not so sure about this "opposing therory" of signs myself...

As far as Cappys go: One of my two great and precious love storys was with a Capriconr guy - it lasted five years and we still appreciate each other's company (on a friendship basis, very blunt and honest talks and all.)

He has a Cap-Sun - me Cancer-Sun (and Cap-Eros, btw!)
He is a Virgo-ASC - me Virgo-Moon
He has a Scorpio-Venus and -Juno - my ASC is in Scorpio

Actually, he is coupled up with another Cancer-girl now, and - gosh! - they've been together for more than 10 years now!

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posted September 18, 2008 10:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for belgz     Edit/Delete Message
As a female...

I approach a guy with my gemini moon and will be vert talkative and then i wil also use some of my cancer shyness to give the impression im soooooooooooooo innocent! LOL

When ive got them where i want my venus in leo kicks into play and stays forever. Im bossy demanding and require attention all the time and have to be the centre of his world and he is mine too of course, I think venus may be the important one.

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Moon.. Gemini

Mars.. Cancer

Mercury.. Cancer

Venus.. Leo

Ascendant....... Virgo

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posted September 18, 2008 10:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
LOL kick it
Hahaha

What sign are you again?

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posted September 18, 2008 10:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for deuxantares     Edit/Delete Message
Kick It is Libra.

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posted September 18, 2008 11:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemGemGem     Edit/Delete Message
When I like a guy I start out playful, light, and chatty. (Although I don't know if it's my Sun or Moon that is coming out, cause they are both in Gemini)
Then as I get to know them better, I get a little more possessive, serious, and physical.(I don't know if this is more my Venus or Mars, cause they are both in Taurus.)

For a man to peak my interest, he has to get my mind first. Once he has that, for a relationship to last, he has to be sensual and physically affectionate. I think it's a mix of Moon and Mars for me.

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darkdreamer
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posted September 18, 2008 11:16 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Hm, maybe women act out their Moon (with a bit of Sun) and Venus (and probably the ASC, too),

and man act out their Sun (with a bit of Moon) and Mars (and the ASC, too)?


Not sure, just guessing here.

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haybelly
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posted September 18, 2008 12:07 PM           Edit/Delete Message
kick it- I......

nevermind.

no words

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posted September 18, 2008 01:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for annaf     Edit/Delete Message
I think it depends. Do you mean how they act if they want to actively win over the object of their attraction? Or do you mean how they will act around the object of their attraction, even if they are not pursuing actively?

From my own experience when a man is attracted to someone and he is sure of himself, has a healthy self-confidence, also is clear in his head & heart what he wants from her, I think he'll act like his mars sign. (probably mixed a bit with his sun sign) Mars is 'masculitinity', so if he wants to be perceived as manliy, he'll put that on show. My ex-boyfriend had sun, moon and venus in aries, his mars was in aquarius. Before we got together I swear I didnt really see his venus in aries. It was all about the friendship aspect and he presented himself as different and quirky. (I think his venus in aries only really showed when we already were a couple. I also think his venus in aries also said a lot about the type of woman he truely found attractive.) Another guy I remember had mars in aries and venus in pisces. He was very self-assured and when he was going after me, his behaviour was ALL about his mars in aries, his venus in pisces definitely didnt show in his behaviour (but I think the type of woman I am might have appealed to his venus). So yes, I think it depends. If he is drawn to you, is confident and wants you (be it as a romantic partner or just for a bit of fun) he'll act out his mars.

However, I think if a man isn't completely sure of himself, maybe lacks self-confidence and/or isnt sure whether he should go after you (maybe because he isnt sure whether the woman likes him too, or maybe he is just not sure whether he REALLY wants you), I think in that case he might act more like his venus sign around you....so instead of direct, ascertive action (mars), it's now all about passively attracting the others.

Interesting topic!

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Arnicka
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posted September 19, 2008 03:00 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Yea, mine was from my experience too...in that, come to think of it, the men i was referring all had their moon very highly aspected by my planets [apparently thats how i like it].

As for me, def not my mars, its my moon/venus as well as asc.

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Arnicka
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posted September 19, 2008 03:01 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Yea, mine was from my experience too...in that, come to think of it, the men i was referring all had their moon very highly aspected by my planets [apparently thats how i like it].

As for me, def not my mars, its my moon/venus as well as asc.

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