posted September 17, 2008 07:51 PM           

The way I see it is this, generally speaking:

The progression would go: she's hot but I couldn't care less (Mars), she's effing hot beyoonnnd belief (Venus), she's amazing/God I'm so in love (Moon).

posted September 17, 2008 08:13 PM         

So, my Venus is well aspected, and may be influenced quite a bit. Being conjunct Neptune alone may cause for some confusion on the matter.

Does my Venus sign show when I'm romantically interested in a woman?

I can be quite reserved when I'm romantically interested in a woman. I can go for months just casually having a silent crush on someone. That doesn't sound very Sag in the 7th, does it?

On the other hand, if the interest is someone I've just met, and there's little likelihood of me meeting up with this interest in the future, if I really, really like her I'll go ahead and make some sort of move to prolong the acquaintance. Any threat of my interest no longer being around can spur me into action.

So, overall, I'd have to say "No" you're not likely to get my Venus if I'm attracted to you. You'll get some combination of my 8th house Capricorn Sun, my Virgo Moon, and my Mars in Scorpio.

Could my Venus ever come out? I can see myself acting very Sagittarian when I'm drunk.

posted September 17, 2008 08:26 PM           

Gosh - from our respective signs we oughta be quite compatible!

Your Cap-Sun - my Cancer-Sun
Your Virgo-Moon - my Virgo-Venus
Your Sag-Venus - my Sag-Moon
Your Scorpio-Mars - my Cancer-Mars & Scorpio-ASC

posted September 17, 2008 08:59 PM           

Venus in 7 conjunct Neptune and Mercury is HUGE. Very libran loving.

posted September 17, 2008 10:55 PM         

I was thinking the same thing with the last guy I dated. He has an Aries moon and when I talked about him with my gal pal who was also dating a Sagittarius guy she said that my guy didn't seem like a Sag. So I think in my experience my guy's moon definitely shined through. I think he has Mars-Aquarius and Venus-Capricorn, like me. And I know when how I am when it comes to relationships, I try to take it slow and I've done the dating thing more than having actual relationships. I know for him it's the opposite. He's had more relationships but only a few that were long term.

Maybe, their Venus is what kind of women their interested in? And the moon is how they would act towards someone they're interested in?

Just my opinion, but what do i know, I don't know much about astrology...still learning...

posted September 17, 2008 11:17 PM           

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the way his Venus is aspected

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posted September 17, 2008 11:19 PM           

More or less. Obviously, no planet acts all by itself. Also, a person with Venus SQ Saturn will be attracted to something different than a person with Venus SQ Uranus even if their venus is in the same sign/house.

posted September 17, 2008 11:42 PM         

Yeah, actually, we probably are fairly compatible. I am open-minded, so take this with a grain of salt, but I've pretty much sworn off Cancers, and that only because I've dated quite a few and it's never worked out (and I've so wanted it to [Seriously. I fall hard for Cancers.]). I've never known their charts in any detail, though, so there is a possibility that there's a Cancerian chart out there somewhere that would work. (Lately, I've been thinking a lot about the opposites, and whether their planet rulers express the similar yet opposite nature of the signs they represent, like what properties does Saturn have that might correlate to the Moon's properties? Is there something there, or is it just an interesting thought?)

I have absolutely zero Taurus. It occupies my 12th house. I get along splendidly with Taurus' though. Most of my best friends have been Taurus', and I can't say enough good things about them.

bvanzy,

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Moon in Virgo makes me think (generally) of wanting a woman who can help you or one you can help. Damsels?

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That can also happen with Venus conjunct Neptune. I have both. Nice, huh?

Arnicka,

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venus is more their ideal look, theyll either peg you as that or try to paint a picture of you possessing those qualities, romanticizing those qualities in you even if they dont exist.

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Not in my personal experience. I don't think I've ever painted a girlfriend into having Sagittarian or Libran traits. Of course, if you bring the aspects into it, then you're probably right as I may think them intelligent (Mercury) and see them in an overly positive way (Neptune).

Dragoon,

posted September 18, 2008 01:39 AM           

As far as Cappys go: One of my two great and precious love storys was with a Capriconr guy - it lasted five years and we still appreciate each other's company (on a friendship basis, very blunt and honest talks and all.)

He has a Cap-Sun - me Cancer-Sun (and Cap-Eros, btw!)
He is a Virgo-ASC - me Virgo-Moon
He has a Scorpio-Venus and -Juno - my ASC is in Scorpio

posted September 18, 2008 10:06 AM         

I approach a guy with my gemini moon and will be vert talkative and then i wil also use some of my cancer shyness to give the impression im soooooooooooooo innocent! LOL

When ive got them where i want my venus in leo kicks into play and stays forever. Im bossy demanding and require attention all the time and have to be the centre of his world and he is mine too of course, I think venus may be the important one.

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Sun.. Cancer

Moon.. Gemini

Mars.. Cancer

Mercury.. Cancer

Venus.. Leo

posted September 18, 2008 11:16 AM           

and man act out their Sun (with a bit of Moon) and Mars (and the ASC, too)?

posted September 18, 2008 12:07 PM           

nevermind.

posted September 18, 2008 01:57 PM         

From my own experience when a man is attracted to someone and he is sure of himself, has a healthy self-confidence, also is clear in his head & heart what he wants from her, I think he'll act like his mars sign. (probably mixed a bit with his sun sign) Mars is 'masculitinity', so if he wants to be perceived as manliy, he'll put that on show. My ex-boyfriend had sun, moon and venus in aries, his mars was in aquarius. Before we got together I swear I didnt really see his venus in aries. It was all about the friendship aspect and he presented himself as different and quirky. (I think his venus in aries only really showed when we already were a couple. I also think his venus in aries also said a lot about the type of woman he truely found attractive.) Another guy I remember had mars in aries and venus in pisces. He was very self-assured and when he was going after me, his behaviour was ALL about his mars in aries, his venus in pisces definitely didnt show in his behaviour (but I think the type of woman I am might have appealed to his venus). So yes, I think it depends. If he is drawn to you, is confident and wants you (be it as a romantic partner or just for a bit of fun) he'll act out his mars.

However, I think if a man isn't completely sure of himself, maybe lacks self-confidence and/or isnt sure whether he should go after you (maybe because he isnt sure whether the woman likes him too, or maybe he is just not sure whether he REALLY wants you), I think in that case he might act more like his venus sign around you....so instead of direct, ascertive action (mars), it's now all about passively attracting the others.