posted September 23, 2008 08:18 AM         

I have done research and the answers i find are inconstant. I am either told that the planet in question- say... Venus, for example- if unaspected, means that there will be a lack of THOSE qualities in the relationship. OR that it simply means work will have to be done in those areas.

Now, that's all fine and dandy except that i know TWO couples who are very much in love and one of the partners in each relationship have unaspected Venus'.

posted September 23, 2008 08:55 AM         

Maybe it just means that that part of yourself and your life with be unaffected (unaspected) by other influences.

posted September 23, 2008 09:09 AM         

But maybe that partly answers the question. What happens when an unaspected Venus makes a powerful aspect to someone else's chart? Does that offer Venus the opportunity to express itself?

posted September 23, 2008 09:14 AM         

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What happens when an unaspected Venus makes a powerful aspect to someone else's chart?

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posted September 23, 2008 01:31 PM         

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At first I thought you meant two couple swho have no Venus synastry aspects.

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That's kinda what i mean. For example:

In Couple 1. The girl's Venus is untouched by the Boy. However, Boy's Venus is touched greatly by the girl. I know them both, and i would say they have a very sweet relationship... but it left me wondering if HIS attachment is deeper than HERS. I'm trying to figure out whether that is what is indicated by the fact that HER Venus is untouched.

But i'm not just talking solely about Venus. I mean, in synastry if the Sun, Moon, Mars, ASC, or DC is untouched does that mean that there is a block there?

posted September 23, 2008 06:49 PM         

So how do you feel about your partner? Are you deeply in love? Or is this a light relationship on your part?

posted September 23, 2008 07:12 PM         

In terms of asteroids, I think because I have moon in libra/7th, I have a need to relate and his asteroidal contact with my venus, in particular the union must have agreed very much with the moon.

Likewise, his moon is his 7th house ruler and the only aspect it makes to my planets is conj my ura (my 11th house ruler). So obviously for me, being an Aqu and 11th house ruler connection appealed to me very much on some level. We are very good friends too (our composite asc is Aqu too). Also his moon is conj ura - seeks a friend in a female companion.

posted September 23, 2008 07:16 PM         

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Or, to give an example of Venus: A couple of years ago a couple consulted me and asked for an astrological analysis of their relationship. They had been married almost thirty years, but the woman was in a kind of crisis. She didn't know if she loved her husband, or if she had ever loved him, and claimed she didn't really know what love actually was. Her husband didn't take this personally. His commentary was simple and honest, "We've gotten along very well together all these years, and I just know she loves me, and I love her. So something else must be going on, and that's why we're here." His wife, however, had gotten hold of the nagging thought that she didn't know what love was, and therefore also didn't know if she loved her husband.

Her Venus created no aspects whatsoever! After I had explained what an unaspected planet meant in general, and how an unaspected Venus works in particular, something finally clicked in her. She understood that the unfulfilled and searching feeling was inside herself and had nothing to do with her marriage. "If I look back at it that way," she said, "then we have in fact gotten along very well together all these years, and I wouldn't want to be without my husband." There was a moment of silence, and then she said, "Maybe that's what love is. Maybe I shouldn't be getting myself so worked up about it anymore, and accept that I can't catch or grasp it all." This is a nice example of how, with an unaspected planet, we can run the risk of misjudging a situation because with all that "searching" we begin to mull and fret. Just as often, though, all that searching has yet another result, namely the idea that we "aren't there yet," or can't do certain things. In the case of the unaspected Venus, this can express itself in a feeling that others don't think we're nice, or that we weren't cut out for love, or that we feel inferior because of our looks and/or emotions. In every instance this feeling does not corroborate the real situation or talents and capabilities. Once again though, the fact is that we don't see it at first. And even with an unaspected Venus, we can be very sweet, mediate very well, and have a finely tuned sense of harmony! Hidden in an unaspected planet like this is a great talent waiting to be discovered.

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posted September 24, 2008 11:22 AM         

So you do love him deeply- even though your Venus is untouched. But you said your moon/DC comes into play, so that helps as well...

posted September 24, 2008 04:23 PM         

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ANOTHETR question (sorry i'm being so curious), say her Venus is untouched in the synastry with him, but her Mars touches his Venus. AND in her natal chart HER Mars trines HER Venus. Would that be like he IS making an aspect to her Venus inadvertantly...? Does that make any sense?

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