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Topic: How am I with women?
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vassilisb13
Knowflake Posts: 20
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Registered: May 2008
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posted September 23, 2008 08:12 PM
 
Hi knowflakes!My information is: 10 march 1990 14.10 Brussels What are my matches? What methods availiable in my planets can I use to attract,connect and seduce them? Why can`t I bond easily? Why is my sex drive so low? What should I avoid doing? Why I am so reserved to the point of withdrawing from relationships? IP: Logged |
sunshine_lion
Knowflake Posts: 919
From: ann arbor mi
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted September 23, 2008 09:44 PM
sounds to me like your sex drive is fine.to draw them in and seduce them as you would like to ...I suggest vast amounts of alcohol (that you buy for them) It seems like you have ulterior motives, no?
maybe try just getting to know people and then you connect and then whatever happens...happens..Girls know when some guy is trying to put the mac on them to just get in thier pants and it sounds like that is what you want. Spend the time getting to know people, or spend the money to get them drunk. to bond - try GENUINE INTEREST
What you should avoid doing - coming off like you just want to hook up - then you might actually hook up
problem solved.
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sunshine_lion
Knowflake Posts: 919
From: ann arbor mi
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted September 23, 2008 09:54 PM
ok...I didn't realize you were only 18. Just take your time and get to KNOW girls and quit worring about seducing them. You will meet plenty in time, trust me.IP: Logged |
swirl-kitt
Knowflake Posts: 239
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Registered: Apr 2008
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posted September 23, 2008 10:09 PM
The more friends/acquaintances you make at school/work etc, the greater your chances of meeting potential girlfriends will be. So rather than approaching the issue directly, try this rather indirect approach, which should be fun  Call your regular friends for a movie night at home, but tell them to bring someone you don't know as well, so that it will be a little different than usual and stuff like that.. Did that just sound boring ? But it's not, right ? :P Anyways 10 march is a cool birthday lots of famous singers and artists born around that date. You possibly have a creative side.IP: Logged |
amowls
Knowflake Posts: 866
From: Richmond, VA USA
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted September 24, 2008 03:07 AM
Your DSC is in Aquarius, and Mars & Venus is conjunct it. Meaning, you will more often than not be drawn to Aquarian/Uranian type people. It is often said that Aquarian like people love humanity but hate individuals. They are usually eccentric, sometimes they are even loners. Not only are you drawn to these types of people, but you may even act that way in one on one relationships.Also, your 11th house is in Taurus, which is ruled by Venus. Your Venus (as stated before) is in Aquarius which also may indicate you tend to treat your allies lightly and loosely. Intimacy is not your thing. Don't worry about it. Do whatever makes you comfortable, not what society pressures you into wanting/needing. IP: Logged |
Kick It
Knowflake Posts: 1032
From: Leeds
Registered: May 2008
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posted September 24, 2008 06:13 AM
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Hi knowflakes!My information is: 10 march 1990 14.10 Brussels 1. What are my matches? 2. What methods availiable in my planets can I use to attract,connect and seduce them? 3. Why can`t I bond easily? 4. Why is my sex drive so low? 5. What should I avoid doing? 6. Why I am so reserved to the point of withdrawing from relationships?
1. 2nd March 1991, Leo rising is perfect for you if you want to be specific. Days either side with the same ASC is fine. 2. You probably wont need to if you find that date, but concentrate on your 1st house, which is Leo. Just be confident, maybe a touch arrogant and you will attract what you are looking for. 3. No idea, maybe you can tell us. 4. Is this normal, just happened recently?
Maybe Pisces on the 8th can indicate in some way that you make sacrifices in that area, or even to the point of sublimation...sounds like a Piscean word. 5. Being too trusting with friends. Probably best not to be a bank to them. 6. Possibly reserved due to your chart ruler in Pisces. Especially within relationships? Maybe the Aquarian DC asks you to hold back and stay detached in relatonships. IP: Logged |
blue moon
Moderator Posts: 4700
From: U.K
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted September 24, 2008 07:10 AM
 It sounds to me like you are comparing yourself to men your age who seem more popular and more succesful with women. It's a while since I was 18 but I recall someone asking me similar questions, including not really being interested in sex. My answer was: oh, does that matter? Good for him he didn't give into the peer pressure and try and swagger around acting the stud. Chances are I wouldn't have been sitting speaking to him if he acted like that anyway. So, the old cliche, "be yourself" is the answer you are going to get from me. If you're not sure what that is astrology could help you find out. On my response to your previous question I pointed out that Venus in Aquarius is your only postive planet (in the sense of yin/yang not good/bad). That explains a lot about how you come across to other people and why Leo Ascendant might not feel to be a good fit. Your South Node is also in Leo in the 1st house, so I think it is a bad idea for you to get to trapped into acting on your self-projection. Working on the nodes in the 7th house is the answer. They are giving you a clear message, in my view.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/019151.html
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blue moon
Moderator Posts: 4700
From: U.K
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted September 24, 2008 07:32 AM
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Girls know when some guy is trying to put the mac on them to just get in thier pants and it sounds like that is what you want.
By 18 most girls will be smart to this one. IP: Logged |
Kick It
Knowflake Posts: 1032
From: Leeds
Registered: May 2008
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posted September 24, 2008 07:37 AM
I thought: at 18 women were doing all they could to get into guys pants!
Maybe its just round my area IP: Logged |
deuxantares
Knowflake Posts: 1197
From: Meet Me in Sofia
Registered: Nov 2006
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posted September 24, 2008 07:59 AM
Kick It, maybe in your area women outnumber men.  IP: Logged |
CoralFrequency
Knowflake Posts: 1432
From:
Registered: Feb 2007
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posted September 24, 2008 08:19 AM
Call it 'sex' people!lol Am I the only one who finds sex describing metaphors dumb? IP: Logged |
amowls
Knowflake Posts: 866
From: Richmond, VA USA
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted September 24, 2008 12:32 PM
You're absolutely right, Kick It. I was 18 only 2 years ago and I dumped my long term boyfriend so I could be slutty and free.IP: Logged |
sunshine_lion
Knowflake Posts: 919
From: ann arbor mi
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted September 24, 2008 12:48 PM
AMOWLS - what a hoot! now that is funny.IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force
Knowflake Posts: 1489
From: England
Registered: Dec 2004
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posted September 24, 2008 12:56 PM
I'm 18 and single now and nothing's happened! Several months!! Going crazy!!
Anyway, the answer to all your questions is: you're a Pisces.
Sorry. 
Hehehe... yes, a lot of people will be cross with me now.... just joking... IP: Logged |
blue moon
Moderator Posts: 4700
From: U.K
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted September 24, 2008 01:00 PM
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Maybe Pisces on the 8th can indicate in some way that you make sacrifices in that area, or even to the point of sublimation...sounds like a Piscean word.
On the chart I put up Aquarius is on the 8th house, that's because it's a Placidus chart.
I think Kick It used Equal House? IP: Logged |
Unmoved
Knowflake Posts: 2160
From: Born in S.Africa
Registered: Jun 2007
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posted September 24, 2008 01:02 PM
amowls - you crack me up.  IP: Logged |
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