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Topic: Pluto/Venus Synastry: Obsession?
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savanna20
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From: Malibu, CA
Registered: Sep 2008
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posted October 02, 2008 07:34 PM
 
My venus Quintiles his Pluto and Our venuses conjunct each other. Who would be more obsessed towards the other? Venus or Pluto? Anyone else has this aspect in their synastry with a partner? Your experience? IP: Logged |
augentier
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From: KS
Registered: Nov 2007
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posted October 02, 2008 08:15 PM
I replied in your other post and briefly described a relationship with this..as far as the Venus-Pluto conjunction goes, I was/am much more obsessed and enthralled (I am Venus) but he is more controlling and manipulative... I have read on here and on other websites that with Venus-Pluto aspects, Venus is the one more captured in this situation, with Pluto having the upper hand.. Venus conjunct Venus is good for getting along..the ways you want to be loved are very similar to his (generally speaking) and you guys will agree a lot with each other on topics of romance, sex, and tastes in things. ------------------
Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon Mercury:: Sagittarius
Venus::Scorpio
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blue moon
Moderator Posts: 4700
From: U.K
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted October 03, 2008 03:15 AM
I tend to be of a mind with augentier on this interaction. The couple of times I have been close to someone whose Venus is in close aspect to my Pluto, it has been hard to break away from the relationship. I married one of them, so that means you make a promise to try not to let go. As I have Moon Conjunct Pluto on my chart I tend to be sensitive to Plutonic aspects and to be quite honest I am cautious if I see them, though by the time I look at them on a synastry chart it might be too late. A friend of mine had Mars Square my Pluto. That was a potential disaster waiting to happen. My step-daughter and I also share this aspect. I really like her, but I am wary of hidden resentments blowing up in our faces. IP: Logged |
savanna20
Knowflake Posts: 370
From: Malibu, CA
Registered: Sep 2008
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posted October 03, 2008 12:08 PM
Interesting blue moon! So the person with pluto or venus finds it hard to let go or both?IP: Logged |
blue moon
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posted October 03, 2008 12:26 PM
I think it is going to depend on how the rest of the chart ties in. With my Moon in on the action, I felt like I was the one who was the receptor. But letting go of situations where Moon/Pluto is triggered is going to be a difficult process. Moon/Pluto is a powerful conjunction, and on my chart, Pluto is the ruler, as my rising sign is Scorpio. In your Quintile, you are the one bringing romantic Venusian energy into the relationship, Pluto is the one who has the tenacity, intensity and depth. But it is a two-way pull. Letting go, if you have to, might not be easy for either of you. Venus Conjunct is a very nice, very harmonious aspect. IP: Logged |
Lara
Knowflake Posts: 3274
From: London
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted October 03, 2008 12:31 PM
I once went out with a guy and we had venus/pluto conjunct and when we broke up l absolutely swore that l would become a lesbian, l was so upset!
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savanna20
Knowflake Posts: 370
From: Malibu, CA
Registered: Sep 2008
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posted October 03, 2008 12:37 PM
Omg! Well I became a bit upset and bitter after I broke up with this guy. I find it hard to let go. I don't know about him but...it's been almost a year now and we only dated for like 6 months. My pluto sextiles his juno too.  IP: Logged |
augentier
Knowflake Posts: 893
From: KS
Registered: Nov 2007
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posted October 03, 2008 01:22 PM
Lara..were you Venus or Pluto in that relationship?IP: Logged |
savanna20
Knowflake Posts: 370
From: Malibu, CA
Registered: Sep 2008
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posted October 03, 2008 03:36 PM
She says she was the Pluto.  IP: Logged |
Lara
Knowflake Posts: 3274
From: London
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted October 03, 2008 03:46 PM
yeah i was PLUTO IP: Logged |
savanna20
Knowflake Posts: 370
From: Malibu, CA
Registered: Sep 2008
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posted October 04, 2008 11:59 PM
Darn pluto!IP: Logged |
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