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savanna20
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posted October 03, 2008 06:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for savanna20     Edit/Delete Message
My Uranus in Sag conjuncts his Venus in Sag
His Uranus in Scorpio squares my venus in sag

Who's the heartbreaker here?

Has anyone had a venus uranus relationship and was broken hearted or ended up broken hearted?

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LeoPisCan
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posted October 03, 2008 06:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeoPisCan     Edit/Delete Message
I think breakups happen so often in venus/uranus relationships not because a certain person is a heartbreaker, but rather that the nature of the connection is hard to sustain.

Venus/Uranus connections happen suddenly, and are exciting and intense. This can make people think the relationship is deeper than it really is. Also, the intensity is unstable.

Uranus also (especially natally) breeds insecurity. Often in uranus connections there is a moment where one or both of the people involved have a "freak out". When a connection is established so quickly, it's hard to trust. A lot of people get scared and break off the relationship rather than try to maintain the intensity.

It would be good of you to look at the following:

1. What are your natal relationship needs? Does the natal chart of you or your partner incline you to uranus-type relationships? If either of you has a strong uranus or aquarius, you might be more comfortable with uranian energy in a relationship.

2. Are there good saturn aspects between you?

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savanna20
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posted October 03, 2008 06:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for savanna20     Edit/Delete Message
How would you know if you attract Uranian types?

We have a bad aspect. My sun squares his saturn.

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Diandra23
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posted October 03, 2008 06:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diandra23     Edit/Delete Message
i agree with LeoPisCan

me and my bf share aspects between venus/uranus both in composite and sinastry.

although it seems a bit scary at st sight ( whe i really wanst into astrology) i realised it has its own meaning:

we met and liked instantaneously ( love at 1st sight)and we are together for 2 years now.alhtough its not long one so far,its considered long when it comes to uranus

he is a uranian type:moon in aqua in 7th house.Uranus sextile sun/venus and trine asc.

I have my 5th house iN Aqua.Uranus sextiles my asc and mercury ( my sun ruler).and skuares my sun and trine Jupiter.

so we are both used to uranian energies.

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LeoPisCan
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posted October 03, 2008 06:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeoPisCan     Edit/Delete Message
---How would you know if you attract Uranian types?

Uranus influences in terms of relationship needs could include:
*Aquarius rising, or on the descendant.
*Uranus in the 1st or 7th house.
*Chart ruler aspecting Uranus.
*Venus in aquarius, or aspecting Uranus.
*7th house ruler aspecting Uranus.

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posted October 03, 2008 07:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EighthMoon     Edit/Delete Message
I have sun opposite Uranus, so I love the energy. I think that squares between Venus and Uranus can cause "circumstances" that keep people apart or at least keep things from becoming too conventional.

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katatonic
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posted October 03, 2008 07:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for katatonic     Edit/Delete Message
i attract uranian types!

aqua rising
uranus quincunx asc in 5th
uranus conj mars/mars sextile venus
uranus sextile merc(in 7th)
uranus trine moon(in 1st)

of course its obvious from the above i am pretty uranian myself! so i deduce (with my genius uranian mentality!) that uranian types may attract their parallels!

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posted October 03, 2008 07:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pearler     Edit/Delete Message
My Uranus opposes his Venus
His Uranus sextiles my Venus
There is a Venus trine Uranus in the composite.

In my natal chart my Venus (7th ruler) is conjunct Uranus
In his natal chart his Aqua moon rules his 7th house.
Our 7th house rulers oppose one another.

We are going on close to 7 years together which in Uranus time is mind-boggling and its been anything but conventional, initially it was a sudden attraction and from the get-go there has not been any possessiveness, jealousy or mistrust between us and we give each other plenty of space. The problems we have is when the relationship slips into the mundane then it’s all bets are off and we are both standing on soapboxes beating our chests.

I believe the fact that we are both Uranian influenced is our saving grace here otherwise we could be quite emotionally damaging to one another.

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savanna20
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posted October 03, 2008 09:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for savanna20     Edit/Delete Message
Wow! 7 years!!! Nice!

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Lucia23
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posted October 05, 2008 10:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
My 14-year relationship had some Uranus connections:

-his Venus sextile my Uranus
-his Uranus sextile my Sun
-his Uranus sextile my Mercury
-his Uranus square my Moon
-his Uranus square my Saturn

Natally, I have Venus square Uranus and he has Venus sextile Uranus.

It was a complicated relatoinship, with both of us needing a lot of freedom, but (me especially) also being very attached. We're both unconventional and needed lots of stimulation, travel, variety, new people and new things.

I have a lot of "push me/pull you" energy in my chart romantically, with that Venus-Uranus square. I get deeply attached to people but also push them away. I've often had a reputation as a heartbreaker, but lately I feel brokenhearted.

I noticed, reading a website, that Angelina Jolie has Venus in Cancer, square Uranus, like I do. I see why she has a tattoo that quotes the playwright Tennessee Williams, "A prayer for the wild at heart, kept in cages."

Tennessee Williams ALSO had Venus square Uranus, of course...he had lots of tragic affairs, but found a longterm partner to commit to, and they had a loyal relationship. Wheh his partner died, he went off the rails with terrible depression.

I think for people with a natal Venus-Uranus square, falling in love feels extra-intense and extra painful, because there is all this Uranian energy pulling us away from those deep Venus feelings. "Beware!" it says, "You'll get trapped and turn weak. Protect your freedom!" In a perverse way, that makes us MORE rather than less attached.

However unconventional and free-spirited Angelina Jolie is (and she is very weird, right?!), she loves deeply and painfully. Tennessee Williams was the same.

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savanna20
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posted October 05, 2008 02:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for savanna20     Edit/Delete Message
Oh wow~ that's interesting! I didn't know that about Jolie. My ex partner and I have our uranus conjunct each other...He was a bit weird...

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Diandra23
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posted October 05, 2008 02:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diandra23     Edit/Delete Message
you shouldnt focus just on that planets - uranus cj are generational aspect and even the uranus/venus are.

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Kay Libra
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posted October 06, 2008 11:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kay Libra     Edit/Delete Message
Hi. I have a double whammy Venus/Uran and his Moon/my Uran aspect with a friend, a very good friend. It did happen all of a sudden like Boom!!!We love each other. But then the insecurity starting creeping in. It is very intense. I run, he runs, I run, he runs. And you're right it's hard to sustain as we both are afraid. He has since moved away, but the times that we do see each other the sparks go OFF it's awesome, but at the same time nerve wracking as the urge to run away happens over and over. TOO TOO INTENSE wee both attribute it to karma.

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