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Topic: IM FINALLY PREGNANT :)
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wheelsofcheese
Knowflake Posts: 1472
From: UK
Registered: Jan 2008
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posted October 13, 2008 05:31 AM
 
Oh many congratulations Belgz! Lovely news! I hope that the baby inherits your beautiful eyes!  IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel
Knowflake Posts: 6678
From: Australia
Registered: May 2008
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posted October 13, 2008 05:34 AM
Kick-ItI don't think we've spoken before. You always make me laugh. I hope that you're one of those men that gets the sympathy labour pains when the time comes.  IP: Logged |
taurus/gemini cusp
Knowflake Posts: 750
From: London, England
Registered: Sep 2006
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posted October 13, 2008 12:43 PM
Congrats Belz! Seeing Stars - when my "b@stard" child is old enough, I'm gonna send him round to yours to kick your arse!  And his dad's 6ft 6, so we know which way this is going!!!!! IP: Logged |
haybelly
Knowflake Posts: 230
From: The bigrock candy mountains
Registered: Jul 2008
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posted October 21, 2008 02:31 PM
What is finally for you? How long had you been trying?IP: Logged |
blue moon
Moderator Posts: 4700
From: U.K
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted October 21, 2008 02:40 PM
There's a thread a way back about my nan, Haybelly. She had a baby after 7 years of trying. Geocosmic Valentine looked at the chart and pinpointed Solar Arc Mars/Pluto Quindecile for the conception. If I recall correctly. As for age, my other nan had my mother at 43. She had her 7th baby at the age of 48. I'll put up her chart later, but I don't have her time of birth so that isn't so interesting as an astrological study. Oh, and she was born to an unmarried maid. Maid as in domestic servant. No clue as to her father. So when people start off moaning about baseborn persons and granny mothers I shan't be one of them ~ I say hat's off, I wouldn't be here if it wasn't for them, neither would many of us if we cared to study our family trees. IP: Logged |
belgz
Knowflake Posts: 719
From: sydney
Registered: Feb 2007
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posted October 21, 2008 05:21 PM
Hi everyone thanks alot for your support i had a miscarriage last friday and i have been avoiding everyone until today. I guess it wasnt meant to be. I dont really know what to think right now. ------------------
Sun.. Cancer Moon.. Gemini Mars.. Cancer Mercury.. Cancer Venus.. Leo Ascendant....... Virgo IP: Logged |
deuxantares
Knowflake Posts: 1197
From: Meet Me in Sofia
Registered: Nov 2006
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posted October 21, 2008 05:30 PM
I'm sorry to hear that, Belgz.  What's going on? This is the third post by a Lindalander about having a miscarriage. Ahh maybe just a co-inki-dink. IP: Logged |
blue moon
Moderator Posts: 4700
From: U.K
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted October 21, 2008 05:30 PM
I had 5, Belgz. It doesn't mean you won't ever have kids. I went on to have 2 kids, and I had them easy. I didn't have more out of choice.
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blue moon
Moderator Posts: 4700
From: U.K
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted October 21, 2008 05:37 PM
Deux, it could be that in the days of easily-available pregnancy testing we are picking up on early miscarriages. One of mine was at 5 weeks. That could easily be passed off as an late period without a test on your first few missed days. IP: Logged |
deuxantares
Knowflake Posts: 1197
From: Meet Me in Sofia
Registered: Nov 2006
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posted October 21, 2008 05:40 PM
BM, thanks for the info.
But I don't understand the early period thing.
EDIT: I thought I saw "early period". When I refreshed it's not there.  IP: Logged |
venusmars
Knowflake Posts: 287
From:
Registered: May 2008
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posted October 21, 2008 05:41 PM
I really am very sorry Belgz.But dont worry,you are too young,youll have a very healthy,beautiful baby someday.
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blue moon
Moderator Posts: 4700
From: U.K
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted October 21, 2008 05:56 PM
I get criticised for my heavy use of the edit button, but it can come in handy.  IP: Logged |
belgz
Knowflake Posts: 719
From: sydney
Registered: Feb 2007
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posted October 21, 2008 06:00 PM
Im not sure what went wrong or how it happened because i didnt do anything wrong i took all those vitamins and tried to relax all day. But i was extremely stressed i was having severe mood swings and hot flushes and felt depressed. I was sick throughout the middle of the night and then before friday i couldnt sleep for 2 days for some reason and friday i had a miscarriage. I blame it on my boyfriend because he gave me negative energy and was confused about the baby. I believe maybe it was god just telling me relax you can fall pregnant now just do it with the right guy. But im still devastated. On the day moon was square lilith in my 5th house.And seeing stars i have been with my boyfriend for 9 years on / off and he wanted this baby but when his mum didnt want me he left me when he found out i was pregnant. Yeah i did find other guys attractive but they were during times we broke up and we broke up quite alot. Its probably all my fault and i shouldve had the courage to move on from him a long time ago but we both clinged to each other even though we were over years ago. Im now trying to move on with my life.
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haybelly
Knowflake Posts: 230
From: The bigrock candy mountains
Registered: Jul 2008
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posted October 21, 2008 09:24 PM
Believe in miracles, I do...When woman my age are starting to prepare to be grannys I am still trying to conceive. I just had surgery to help make that happen. Every blood and hormone test I took was perfect, my husband tested out as a stud so my specialist went to look for physical problems and there they were, many..... However he has given me hope and I am going with that! Yes, I am older, but I started late, married a much younger man, and am finally ready to settle down. I don't why it took so long, but I am finally "there" in my life.
Blue moon- Thanks... maybe when I get the ok to start trying again someone could get out my chart and see if there is anything there.
Miscarriage is actually very common, many women have them and never know it. It doesn't make it any easier, I know.
Good luck and watch "the secret" it will give you some hope, visualize yourself with a baby, I stand in the door of an empty room in our house and visualize it as the baby's room, I am just not ready to give up and make it into an office or craft room... Kristin IP: Logged |
haybelly
Knowflake Posts: 230
From: The bigrock candy mountains
Registered: Jul 2008
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posted October 21, 2008 09:28 PM
Oh, I agree Blue moon, my great great grandmother had my great grandmother at 42, I found that out recently and thought it was intersting since it was a very long time ago.Maybe GV can see if I have anything magical happening soon IP: Logged |
BlueTopaz124
Knowflake Posts: 1508
From: Portland, OR
Registered: Jan 2004
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posted October 21, 2008 10:43 PM
Sending all my love to you Belgz  No doubt your heart and emotions are going in every direction possible. Just heal yourself and take good care of yourself. Let your family and friends pamper and spoil you the way you deserve to be right now. Put yourself in their care. I miscarried my second at 20 weeks when my first son was only 10 months old. It was difficult at the time but was not meant to be. It will all be okay, life has a way of sorting things out for us.
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blue moon
Moderator Posts: 4700
From: U.K
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted October 22, 2008 02:09 AM
Neither of you have done anything wrong, unfortuantely this just sometimes happens. Only a minimal amount of miscarriages are because of anything the mother has done ~ if it was that simple there wouldn't be such things as Feotal Alcohol Syndrome and babies born as drug addicts. I lost 5 wanted children, there was no negative energy about, it was just the way it was ~ one got tested and had chromosones incompatible with life. Just a chance and random biological event. I was in my 20s at the time, so nothing to do with age, either. Before anyone says. {It's only a matter of time before someone sticks the boot into older mothers, probably someone male.} IP: Logged |
SilverFairy
Knowflake Posts: 229
From:
Registered: Jun 2006
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posted October 22, 2008 07:43 AM
Belgz, I'm so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you. There are many of us who understand what you are going through. I just went thru a miscarriage last month. You did nothing wrong. Sometimes it just happens and sometimes there's a problem. You can become pregnant so please realize that's half the battle. I'm thinking of you and please don't give up hope if being a mother is what you want. IP: Logged |
koiflower
Knowflake Posts: 1258
From: Australia
Registered: Jun 2008
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posted October 22, 2008 07:58 AM
That's sad, belgz. Am sorry this has happened. Big loves to you. Take it easy and be kind to yourself. Give yourself a big hug and know you'll be okay. IP: Logged |
Unmoved
Knowflake Posts: 2160
From: Born in S.Africa
Registered: Jun 2007
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posted October 22, 2008 08:12 AM
I'm sorry belgz. It's nobody's faullt, alright? My mom had some difficulties too but we're here today. You still have time. Divine time is always on our side. Take Care of yourself. My heart it with you. {{{{hugs}}}}  IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel
Knowflake Posts: 6678
From: Australia
Registered: May 2008
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posted October 22, 2008 08:14 AM
Sorry to hear that belgz. Sending you love.
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Geocosmic Valentine
Knowflake Posts: 994
From: New York, NY
Registered: Sep 2007
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posted October 22, 2008 09:15 AM
Hi Belgz,I'm so sorry to hear this happened, but I'll repeat what Silver Fairy said to you. It doesn't matter how many vitamins or rest or whatever anyone else what thinking, etc. Sometimes it's all about nature. Nature makes a decision when something that we can't even think of goes wrong, nature says it's not going to work. You keep taking care of yourself and this can happen again with the right person for and all good things. {{{{BIG HUG}}}} Geocosmic Valentine ------------------
"Everybody is a star!"
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Diandra23
Knowflake Posts: 2240
From: portugal
Registered: Mar 2007
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posted October 22, 2008 09:24 AM
hi Belgzi am very sorry that you are sufeering that loss. Dont lose hope - my Mom had me and my twin siter when she was 38 years old, and that was 25 years ago  You have plenty of time to concieve again and in the right time! IP: Logged |
haybelly
Knowflake Posts: 230
From: The bigrock candy mountains
Registered: Jul 2008
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posted October 22, 2008 12:26 PM
yes, something to think about, at least you did get pregnant! Something that has evaded me, you will have another chance, be hopeful that you can concieve! IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 26842
From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted October 22, 2008 10:56 PM
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