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Topic: What are your experiences with Venus in Cancer, Pisces, and Scorpio?
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Got Gemini? Knowflake Posts: 1037 From: Mercury Registered: Jul 2007
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posted October 15, 2008 07:38 PM
I'm curious as to your experiences with water Venuses especially since I'm an airy gem with Venus in Cancer. Me personally, I have never been intimate with another water Venus so I wouldn't be able to tell you. So share your experiences if you will. ------------------ Virgo Asc 6˚& Mars 0˚ Gemini Sun 24˚ Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house) Gemini Mercury 25˚ Cancer Venus 29˚ And yes, i'm a guy! IP: Logged |
Kick It Knowflake Posts: 1032 From: Leeds Registered: May 2008
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posted October 15, 2008 07:46 PM
Dunno.But why do you put.... "and yes, Im a guy!" ....on your sig
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augentier Knowflake Posts: 893 From: KS Registered: Nov 2007
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posted October 15, 2008 07:50 PM
Im a water Venus person..Venus in Scorp. I have known many guys who have Venus in Cancer, a few with Venus in Pisces..and a couple girls with Venus in Scorpio.Basically we are all very much in tune with our emotions and feel them deeply. We become attached to others easily and we are highly erotic.. feelings are easily hurt too. I also find that people with water Venus' like emotional, moody, and sometimes "dark" music and artwork ------------------ Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon Mercury:: Sagittarius Venus::Scorpio Mars::Pisces IP: Logged |
blue moon Moderator Posts: 4700 From: U.K Registered: Dec 2007
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posted October 15, 2008 07:56 PM
Because of the continual assumption that he was a woman. Venus in Pisces, I love them, especially with the Sun in Aqua, it gives a gentleness and caring side to the character that I find very attractive in a man. If it gets near the end of the sign it is in Opposition to my Pluto/Moon combo and there is quite some draw. Gordon Brown has Venus in Pisces CNJ Mars in his 12th house. It's Opposite my Moon/Pluto. He isn't set up politically to be a popular man and doesn't have the best in the way of charisma. I like him though, I can't help myself. You can't deny the lure of the stars. IP: Logged |
23 Knowflake Posts: 4497 From: Outside, to watch the nightfall in the rain Registered: Aug 2006
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posted October 15, 2008 07:56 PM
Venus in Cancer - very gooey. IP: Logged |
missneptune Knowflake Posts: 241 From: Portland, OR, USA Registered: Feb 2006
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posted October 15, 2008 08:03 PM
Hey Got Gemini?, I know someone who also has Gemini sun with Cancer venus, and she seems to always be in a committed relationship, however she also has Virgo moon/ ascendant, so maybe all that earth makes her more inclined to be in a relationship. Either way I've always worried that she is afraid to be single, or that she just goes into relationships to be the nurturer without getting as much credit as she deserves. BTW mercury goes direct today, it really effects those Gemini big time! ------------------ Sun - Leo Moon - Pisces Ascendant - Sagittarius IP: Logged |
23 Knowflake Posts: 4497 From: Outside, to watch the nightfall in the rain Registered: Aug 2006
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posted October 15, 2008 08:08 PM
Vaguely related material: http://jeffreykishner.com/astrology/love/2007/12/when-you-dont-identify-with-your-venus.html http://jeffreykishner.com/astrology/love/2007/08/how-to-attract-man-with-venus-in-cancer.html
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racole12 Knowflake Posts: 10 From: Denver, CO, USA Registered: Oct 2008
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posted October 15, 2008 08:23 PM
I have Venus in Scorpio, in my 5th ruled by Venus. (I only have Venus and Uranus in Water Signs, rest are in Fire and Earth) I'm a Sag, with my ASC in Gemini. Anyway, with my Venus I have notice I have a lot of men propositioning me, even married men. I'll usually end up becoming friends with many of these men and ask them later why they approached me in the first place. They usually say, "I don't know ... I was just drawn to you. Also, I am very creative. I have a degree in Music and Design, and I need that outlet. I have noticed that I can get extremely emotional but it seems to only be with people that have their moon's in Scorpio or Venus in Scorpio or Libra (also my moon is in Taurus, 12th house, ruled by Venus) IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 689 From: processing destination...... Registered: Sep 2008
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posted October 15, 2008 08:26 PM
My venus is in Scorpio and I only know of one other man I was with who shared a watery Venus. I am sure there have been maybe a couple of others, but then I am not so sure...This one experience was amazing because I felt like we understood each other perfectly, but also freaked each other out because of the emotionally intense factor. Like, it was all fun and games until the feelings kicked in I think it's weird for me because my Venus in Scorp and 7th house Scorp also makes me do and want the whole dark-intense thing, and want to connect on a really personal, deep level all the time with someone...but for me it's also weird because I'm really a huge flirt in general until I like someone a lot, and then I go into that mode of serious and quiet and wanting to connect on a deep level and not being able to stand anything superficial past a certain point. And when the relationship ends, I can feel the person's energy lingering forever on me for some reason, like I can't shake them out of my system and have to really try hard and make a conscious effort do it, otherwise I fall into this obsessive state. So yeah...Venus water...not fun, but also rewarding I think on a lot of levels because it's transformational and can make you connect profoundly with whoever you are with. IP: Logged |
stillatlarge Knowflake Posts: 609 From: TX. USA Registered: Apr 2007
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posted October 15, 2008 08:26 PM
The guy I met during evacuation had sun aqua venus in pisces. I'll never know...IP: Logged |
swirl-kitt Knowflake Posts: 239 From: Registered: Apr 2008
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posted October 15, 2008 08:59 PM
A few men I've known and dated had Venus in scorpio and maybe its because I'm a scorpio, I can go ahead and claim that those relationships will always stay unmatched due to their sincere and intense nature, not to mention the satisfaction I've felt from feeling utterly understood .. Cliche but true Venus in cancer is nice too, but I realized that I can't stand Cancer in someone else's chart, altho I have cancer asc, too emotional or something, I don't know. Pisces as well, tho not certain about that yet. And whoever said venus in scorpio goes along with venus in libra is right IP: Logged |
taurusvirgoleolady1974 Knowflake Posts: 270 From: where I am Registered: May 2008
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posted October 15, 2008 09:08 PM
My venus is in Pisces. I have to feel in a relationship, I cannot be with someone for reasons (which to me are more simple) such as need a second income, I'm lonely, We have alot in common, we look good together, he's tall, etc. I really need to feel you in my soul. Venus in Scorpio was the most intense relationship I've ever had. We felt like we were on another plane. Great? Yes. Draining? Even more so. Was it realistic? No. Never again this particular gentleman. But the mix of the Scorpio and Pisces was immensely exhilarating, to say the least. They are such a turn on, I would probably have to have a good Cappy sun to offset some of that intensity. Sometimes I wish my Venus was in another sign.IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Knowflake Posts: 4700 From: The Asylum Registered: Mar 2006
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posted October 15, 2008 09:23 PM
My best friend is a scorpio venus and let me tell ya,all her 'non-platonic' associations have tended to be a bit...dramatic. Almost like a never-ending telenovela. She also has a sag sun which may be why its a bit comical. She does get intensely attached and her loyalty is never ending so I hate to see it be taken for granted. My sister is a Pisces venus too (along with a pisces sun), but its hard to tell if she ever gets superattached to people until something bad happens. I think her Gemini moon kind of masks it in a way or smt. *shrugs*
I met a man with a Pisces venus a while back though and I swear his words were very theraputic. His venus trined my mercury and my venus trined his mercury in Aqua so maybe that was it? Either way, any chica would be lucky to have him. *le sigh* I wish I had been single around the time I briefly met him...LMAO. This placement is almost as gute as the moon in pisces in a man. And then there was the gemini I was talking to earlier this year with venus in cancer and it was a nice inverse to my cancer sun/ gemini venus. Things didn't end so well but feeling pampered by someone after the break-up of my long term relationship was great while it lasted. ROFL I do have a water sun, but not a water moon or venus so we are similar....but different. I see they're more in their element in the realm of relating to people (especially on a romantic level) than my gemini venus could ever be. Connecting with them is the best part. IP: Logged |
oneruledbymars Knowflake Posts: 232 From: South Carolina, USA Registered: Apr 2008
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posted October 15, 2008 10:30 PM
I have Venus in Pisces. And I have to say that it is very dreamy. I find that even inspite of myself I idealize my lover and my other intimate friendships, and so I get dissapointed alot but I have learned to get over it. lol I am very laid back in love though, I dont stress about much, I am not the jealous type, I rarely argue even if the person is mad and yelling I usually refuse to participate. I find it easy to give the unconditional love my partner needs as well as the space the need to grow, and of course my Sag moon demands maximun freedom in love as well. I am very monogamous and cannot fathom infidelity from my end although I guess all things are possible. I have to say overall I like my Venus in Pisces it makes love so spiritual and transcendant, I have always felt a connection to the Divine and everything around me, even as a kid. IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 560 From: Registered: Feb 2007
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posted October 16, 2008 12:15 AM
My Venus is in Cancer, 7th house. I was very close to a Gem with a Cancer Venus when I was younger, and both of us were very secretly fragile...we loved deeply and tenaciously, which was a torturous feeling for the Gemini. We feared rejection more than the average person, and took emotional things harder and more personally. Now that I'm older, I'm no longer secretly fragile...I'm a grown-up Leo and I share my vulnerability, loud and proud! (I should add, he got back in touch with me years later, and we--being Cancer Venuses--had never gotten over each other.) IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 689 From: processing destination...... Registered: Sep 2008
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posted October 16, 2008 05:59 AM
Lucia, the loud and proud part, it made me laugh because the other day someone asked me something about my feelings and I yelled, "^%#$ I'm SHY, okay?! And I'm sensitive too!" LOL. The Aries moon battles with the Venus Scorp sometimes...it's embarrassing IP: Logged |
alanabelle86 Knowflake Posts: 1840 From: Connecticut Registered: May 2005
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posted October 16, 2008 01:12 PM
My father and my sister both have Venus in Cancer... They loooove the sappy, cheesy, love songs. Can't get enough of them. They also value family and "blood" a lot. While my dad is more about loyalty and being family-proud (Moon in Leo), my sister is more maternal and nurturing, especially towards children. She's also big on having her own space and filling it with cool personalized/sentimental things. She can also get pretty 'clannish' too, but it's mostly with her friends (Moon in Libra in the 5th).
I have Venus in Scorpio. I'm very passionate about everything I get into. With relationships, I put 100% into flings, flights of fancy, and committed relationships. I have a few aspects that help ease the heartache (Uranus conjunct AC and Venus square Mars in Aquarius). It gets very exhausting though, I'm not going to lie. I'm not big on the sappy romantic stuff. I like subtle hints of interest. Professions of love creep me out. I'm attracted to dark and poetic music that most people find depressing/distrubing- the type that channels to the deepest level of your core and wrenches the gut feelings about life and death that most people suppress. I have the Moon in Leo in the 8th- "Oh, baby Oh baby, I love you" doesn't do it for me, I'm afraid I find I'm most attracted/appealed to trauma. That sounds weird, but it's true. People who've hit rock bottom and live to talk about it, those who've gone through major life changing revelations, those who are constantly battling with "inner demons" yet continue to see the world for how beautiful it really is. That's what I'm all about. I am fickle (Gemini DC) and distant when it comes to relationships...that's definitely my strong Uranus influence. It takes me a long time to make a legit commitment but once I do, I'm hooked forever. My Venus is in my 11th house squaring my Aquarian Mars. When it's over- it's over. I abruptly cut all ties and don't look back. It's probably because of all the Scorpio/Pluto in my chart but whatever! I knew an Leo AC/Aries Sun/Leo Moon with Venus in Pisces. It definitely softened the fiery blow. She was extremely romantic and sentimental and had very high ideals for relationships. So high in fact, that she refused to get involved with anyone but her dream guy. Don't ask me how it worked out for her. She loved 'get you in the mood' music, too. Whenever anyone challenged her unrealistic attitudes towards relationships, her fiery Aries/Leo took over and ran you into the ground. ------------------ Sagittarius AC, Sun in Scorpio, Moon in Leo IP: Logged |
racole12 Knowflake Posts: 10 From: Denver, CO, USA Registered: Oct 2008
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posted October 16, 2008 02:25 PM
I was just checking out my grandmother and mom's chart. And We all 3 have Venus in Scorpio. Also, My mom and I have Neptune conj to our sun's (me/Sag and her/Libra) and my grandma has her Moon conj Neptune (in Virgo) ... I thought it was an interesting pattern with all 3 of us with our Venus' in Scorpio _________ Sagittarius- Sun conj Neptune, Merc, Mars, Psyche and DC Taurus Moon Scorpio Venus conj Uranus IP: Logged |
Astra Knowflake Posts: 553 From: Registered: May 2007
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posted October 17, 2008 10:24 AM
I don't have experience with Venus in Cancer, so I'll focus on Pisces and Scorpio.Venus in Pisces is great at softening the emotionally-detached Aquarius Sun or the fiery and blunt Aries Sun. It does make someone very gentle, sweet and self-sacrificing. The downside of this placement is that sometimes with this placement, the individual loves EVERYONE. The men I've known with this placement have been cheaters and when you call them out on it, they look all innocent as if to say "Who, me?" I am NOT saying everyone with this placement cheats....just the men I know. Venus in Scorpio is deep, intense, passionate, loyal, jealous and possessive. They find it very tough to leave a bad relationship because they've bonded far too much to their partner. On the darkside, this can make someone lack loyalty (i.e. they sleep with anything that moves), manipulative, cruel, and revenge-seeking. I knew someone with this placement who did not have a conscience; she did whatever it took to get what she wanted regardless of how many people she had to step on to get there. IP: Logged |
amowls Knowflake Posts: 866 From: Richmond, VA USA Registered: Dec 2007
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posted October 17, 2008 12:53 PM
I have Venus in Pisces. Other than that I'm basically all Air and Fire (and Gemini rising too).Mostly I date guys with Venus in Air signs (they are attracted to me the most because my Sun, Moon and ASC are all air). So of course, I'm the clingy sap. IP: Logged |
Heart--Shaped Cross Knowflake Posts: 9145 From: 11/6/78 11:38am Boston, MA Registered: Aug 2004
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posted October 17, 2008 02:21 PM
Venus in ScorpioIn the deathly stillness and solitude of this night, your memory haunts me, and I feel my loneliness, my love, revive... I drift, in a dream, between past and present tense, as your image rises and recedes before my mind's eye... How you leaned over me in the dark, your head bent, hair soft and silvery in the bare light, and moved. How your body flows in perfect proportions, curves like a river, down into the heart of your bourgeoning c*nt . How your skin welcomes and belongs to my hands. And your lips, like fine calligraphy, taper in graceful serifs. How your bold eyes sparkle, wide and moist, carrying me into your soul... How your pussy held me like a sure hand, imperceptibly guiding me, deep into the core of your love. And I swoon inside you. My heart grows heavy and weightless, overflowing my chest in many-coloured light; pouring itself like a secret honey out to you. I want more of you, could almost burst into a thousand rays of hungry light, devouring you. Your hands seek out my hands. In the dark, smooth parts of you seek me out where they suspect me. Every tender inch of you becomes more familiar. And I long for you now, as I've longed for you from the beginning. To press my hands into your cheeks, to feel your lips slip over mine, your throat exposed and asking silently to be kissed. And, at once, I am overcome, wanting all of you; wishing I had a thousand hands, a thousand senses, with which to cover you; to feel all of you, and let nothing go to waste. Your mouth, like a freshly cut fruit, opens to receive my love. I could swallow you almost. And sometimes I seem to. Seem to drink you down into my guts, and feel warmed in the remotest depths of my insides, assimilating you completely. And still hunger grows, and grows so powerful in its fullness, eclipsing the fragile elements of life. And nothing means anything to me now, but to be inside you, and to move where I am wanted, needed, -- where I feel at home, safe, and understood. You are my darling, in a thousand ways. Your light conforms without effort, in order to grace a thousand unexpected objects; but, always, it is your light; impossible to describe, or to know in its essence; only light, warmth, mercy, charity, forgiveness, constancy.. all of these, and none. This young woman who you are, and the wiser woman you become. They have made some sacred, clandestine pact with me, my soul, and I am mute in gratitude, honor, and humility. My angel. I ache from every part of me. I miss you. http://www.linda-goodman.com/cgi-bin/ubb/postings.cgi?action=editpost&forum=Soul+Unions&number=10&topic=003334.cgi&ReplyNum=000000&TopicSubject=Sweetheart, IP: Logged |
Kay Libra Knowflake Posts: 355 From: New York, USA Registered: Feb 2005
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posted October 17, 2008 03:13 PM
Deep HSC! I've had relationships with guys who had their Venus' in Scorp I would say this is EXACTLY how they feel in so many words. I've heard such deep expression of their love nature just as you've expressed. IP: Logged |
Ana Knowflake Posts: 156 From: Romania Registered: Sep 2006
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posted October 17, 2008 03:39 PM
HSC, if this is how i'd get my lover to think about me then i'm so happy for my scorp venus :Paugentier is right, basically we're pretty much intense and attach ourselves to our partners way to easily and quickly.The good thing about it is that once you get us, we're pretty much yours, we become blind to everyone around us and devout ourselves (exclusively) to our partner. I don't know if it's the scorp venus or not in my chart, but i seem to attract a lot of guys (mostly cancers) just like racole12 said in her post. IP: Logged |
Scorpionic Web Knowflake Posts: 812 From: Pennsylvania Registered: Dec 2005
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posted October 17, 2008 04:22 PM
I have Scorpio Venus conjunct Scorpio Jupiter... and believe me, this jealous, possessive, passionate Venus placement suffers under the conjunction with the expansive Jupiter. Jupiter, and conjunctions in general, just make everything bigger. When I want a woman, I literally cannot think about anything else, my daily activities shut down, and I'm thrown into desirous hell.IP: Logged |
wishing_well Knowflake Posts: 6 From: Ireland Registered: Oct 2008
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posted October 21, 2008 04:59 PM
I am Venus in Scorpio and tend to the more Byronic side of love (lol!) .. of course my Mars is there too, but that's another story for another day.. I am currently trying to fathom my relationship with an Aries male who has Venus in Cancer, and I can't quite get my head around this facet of his personality after previously only *seeing* his Fire (he is blessed with rather a lot of fire) .. .. Just one touch from him speaks volumes, he doesn't have to say a word - in fact, he says it best when he says nothing.IP: Logged | |