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Topic: Ex wants to get back! Advice please
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ripley
Knowflake Posts: 10
From: U.K.
Registered: Mar 2008
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posted October 17, 2008 02:57 PM
 
After my ex broke up with me I posted our data and you guys were very helpful. Last Nov to now has been the lowest point of my life (so far!) I'm nearly over him when suddenly he comes back into my life and wants to 'give it (our relationship) another go'. Although he is the only person who has ever made me truly happy I don't think I could take the pain of him breaking up with me again. I have looked at our progressed composite chart and there appears to be too many 'red flags' waving. I would really appreciate any of you more experienced readers of charts to take a quick look. Only problem I can't load chart. I don't know what 'cut and paste' means (?)Had same problem with posting charts back in Feb.
Our details are
Rip: 13 January 1962 4.55 AM London
Den: 9 November 1958 5.45 AM London
Sorry I can't get the chart on screen but any help greatly appreciated. Thanks againIP: Logged |
savanna20
Knowflake Posts: 370
From: Malibu, CA
Registered: Sep 2008
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posted October 17, 2008 03:02 PM
Well mercury retrograde is still in effect even though it ended on the 15th. Hold off on that decision until next month. By then everything should be clearer.I've posted the chart for you. I'm sure other experienced people will be able to help. =)  IP: Logged |
ripley
Knowflake Posts: 10
From: U.K.
Registered: Mar 2008
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posted October 17, 2008 03:16 PM
Savanna20. Thanks a bundle for posting chart!IP: Logged |
Peri
Moderator Posts: 2648
From: Kyiv, Ukraine
Registered: Dec 2003
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posted October 17, 2008 03:23 PM
it is very difficult for people to change, what were the reasons he broke up with you...think of them again... probably he will do it again, are you ready to put up with it?IP: Logged |
Glaucus
Knowflake Posts: 2761
From: Sacramento,California,USA
Registered: Jul 2006
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posted October 17, 2008 03:25 PM
I see that your Moon is Arieseven though Mercury is direct now, you have
The Mercury retrograde in your current lunar return chart. The Mercury retrograde will affect that month long period which lunar return period is about. It would make sense to wait until your next lunar return to make a decision.
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ripley
Knowflake Posts: 10
From: U.K.
Registered: Mar 2008
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posted October 17, 2008 06:12 PM
Peri, we broke up because he wasn't ready to settle down, although he said nobody ever understood him or encouraged in his work like I did. The trouble is the good times with him were SO good! Its so difficult to forget him, but looking at the composite, all that red, may be its red for danger! Everything seems to be opposition, squares etc. IP: Logged |
venusmars
Knowflake Posts: 287
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Registered: May 2008
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posted October 17, 2008 10:15 PM
and your composite..
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venusmars
Knowflake Posts: 287
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Registered: May 2008
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posted October 17, 2008 10:15 PM
double post sorryIP: Logged |
Astra
Knowflake Posts: 553
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Registered: May 2007
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posted October 17, 2008 10:19 PM
ripley,The fact that you have doubts about letting your ex back into your life should tell you something. If he were really the right guy for you, then you wouldn't be having doubts right now. Be really honest with yourself right now. What has he done to prove that he's changed? Words don't count. Focus only on his actions. Yes, people can change but only they can change themselves. Generally speaking, it's best to leave an ex in the past. I haven't seen that many successful relationships where people got back together with their ex. However, if you really do want him back, take things very slow. Do not get attached to him again too quickly. Be conscious of his actions and use your head to guide your heart. Pay close attention if he starts to fall back into old habits. Most importantly, before taking him back, make a list of dealbreakers--- things that he can do or say that are simply not acceptable; these are things that you would break up with someone over. Keep this list handy as you check to see if he does anything that falls on your list. Good luck! IP: Logged |
writesomething
Knowflake Posts: 2376
From: meet me in montauk
Registered: May 2006
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posted October 17, 2008 11:31 PM
rip- is there any way i can contact you?IP: Logged |
ripley
Knowflake Posts: 10
From: U.K.
Registered: Mar 2008
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posted October 18, 2008 01:39 PM
writesomething, my email is rplnstr442@googlemail.comIP: Logged |
ripley
Knowflake Posts: 10
From: U.K.
Registered: Mar 2008
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posted October 18, 2008 01:44 PM
astra, thanks for advice. I have already come to a decision of sorts but i would just like someone to take a brief look at the composite with all its red lines. For a newbie to astrology it certainly looks bad, as if we are incompatible and could never make a real go at things. So could someone please just give a few thoughts on the composite? Thanking everyone who reads this.IP: Logged |
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