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Topic: venus in virgo people
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lovegoblin
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posted October 25, 2008 01:56 PM
  
Could any venus in virgo people tell me their turnoffs/ons.Are you obvious with you affections? thanks!! IP: Logged |
blue moon
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posted October 25, 2008 02:05 PM
This won't help but I have a triple Virgo son (Sun/Venus/Mercury). As a very small boy he would scream and wail for me to change his t-shirt if it got a stain on it. Never a problem getting him to clean his teeth, always very enthusiastic about that ~ and washing. If you are trying to hook one I suggest you make sure you are well-groomed, just in case. IP: Logged |
Libralove09
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posted October 25, 2008 02:05 PM
i have mars in virgo, and put it this way, if the person of my desire knows i like them before iv told them, then i have failed.i also have mercury in virgo. IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted October 25, 2008 02:11 PM
I had a boyfriend with venus in virgo...I think they like familiarity to a certain degree. Even after we broke up I was the person he usually came back to when he wanted to feel loved/comforted...this went on for years.
And he was finicky and really tidy and kind of oddly kinky...very sexually curious. ------------------
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katatonic
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posted October 25, 2008 02:21 PM
i have venus, merc AND saturn in virgo. i am by no means a neat freak. but i can't stand beer bellies hanging over pants (or butt cracks for that matter!). i don't mind a little mess in clothing or hair or house as long as it's not overboard (i am attracted to comfortably-lived-in) but i hate people with sloppy manners, thinking or attitude! the smell of just showered flesh/hair is a serious turn ON. clingy people, bossy people and prudes definitely turn me off.as for obvious with affections i think that depends on who's looking (and who i'm looking at). i ALWAYS feel EXPOSED in the presence of someone i'm seriously attracted to, but THEY don't always see that! in fact some of them have complained i show nothing (guess i'm so busy trying not to be clingy, bossy, or a doormat i appear to be the opposite!!). but the ones i've gotten together with i CANNOT hide my feelings from, in fact usually everyone in the room can feel the vibes!! IP: Logged |
cooljen
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posted October 25, 2008 11:45 PM
I have Venus in Virgo and I can relate to the preference for tidiness and cleanliness. I don't like messy homes especially food all over the place (crumbs) I hate that. Seeing food crumbs and such on the table, chairs, floor, wherever - that grosses me out, so does the idea of a food fight. I picture spaghetti and meatballs or ground beef or something flying through the air - its just not a pretty picture.
Anyway, I think, though, it matters whether the Venus in Virgo person is a guy or girl. Because when talking about turn ons and turn offs, for me...I think its more my Mars that determines that (since I'm a girl) and for guys it would be their Venus. At lesat that's what I've read.
I have Mars in Cancer (I think this Venus-Mars combination makes me really passive when it comes to 'relationships') I'm not the type to go after guys. I have a friend who has Venus in Scorpio and another friend (not sure about her Venus but I'm sure its not something like Venus in Virgo) but the both of them seem kind of 'animalistic' when it comes to guys. I, on the other hand, see myself as the 'prey' not the 'hunter'.
For me, I like masculine men, not super big and brawny, but strong and confident (even a little cocky), bold, handsome of course, and often unique somehow (I have Uranus & Jupiter in the 1st) - but I think all of that is from my Mars in Cancer
I don't think that I really show affection for people that I'm interested in, and like someone posted earlier I think I'm a little busy trying to make sure I don't show anything...unless there's already something between us (then apparently its obvious to everyone)------------------
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librasunleomoon
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posted October 26, 2008 03:51 AM
This is related to my interests, are there any males here who have this placement?IP: Logged |
Snow_Dream
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posted October 26, 2008 04:00 AM
I have Venus in Virgo and so does my love. He is slow and cautious with whom he becomes involved with and ultimately gives his heart to.
What I love most in a man is intelligence and a sense of humor. Nerds are right up my alley, lol.Both of us are neat freaks!!! IP: Logged |
koiflower
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posted October 26, 2008 05:30 AM
Turn-ons:**tidy dress sense
**match colours of clothes really well
**nice shoes
**clean, clean, clean
**great teeth
**great manners
**slightly political
**gets righteous over issues (could be my Mars in Libra saying this)
**great work ethic
**easy on the eye
**trendy hair style
**great taste in art
**long lingering staring into each other's eyes The ideal date: **arrives on time with a small gift, eg. a little flower
**kiss on the cheek
**a relaxed evening over dinner at a restaurant with really cool decor
**home for a massage, kisses on neck and back
**fireworks 
**falling asleep in each other's arms
**cooked breakfast the next morning! Turn-offs: **BO
**bad breath
**shoes don't match outfit
**white sox
**poor dietary habits
**big loud obnoxious statements
**doing number twos while you're visiting
**not doing special little things
**being treated like one of the gang
**dirty bathroom
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jane
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posted October 26, 2008 06:18 AM
My brother has Venus in Virgo. (Also has his Sun in that sign.)He's obvious about his feelings. Once he likes someone, he pursues her right away and doesn't at all hide his attraction. I think his intense, focused pursuit is from his Sco Mars. His honesty, from his Sag Asc. He's the most straightforward, unguarded, uncompromisingly himself person that I've ever known. I don't think he'd even know how to hide his feelings. So keep in mind the whole chart of who you're interested in because the Venus sign alone might be misleading. A likely reason why he's so quick to pursue is his 0º Venus-Uranus square. (That forms a t-square with Chiron; Venus is the apex.) I can see how this has caused some problems for him. He pursues as soon as he is attracted, and doesn't think about whether they're compatible, how the woman feels towards him, or who the woman really is. Physically, he definitely has a type. He doesn't go for the curvy, Monica Bellucci look. He's naturally attracted to the very thin Natalie Portman look. His ideal beauty is Alexis Bledel. That's his ideal and usual type, but he's been attracted to other types of women too. The last woman he was with wasn't super thin, and he thought she was gorgeous. He's more into faces than body. He doesn't like glamour; prefers a pretty, natural look. Both of his LTR's have been with Caps. I think he's still in love with the first one.  The second one he started falling out of love with because he began to realize that he didn't actually like her as a person. She was too status-conscious. His Sag Asc (and 9th house sun) probably had a lot to do with his disgust with her snobbery, but I could see his Virgo Venus doing that as well, because he's attracted to people who are down to earth. What really killed his feelings though was after they were together about a year, she started doing coke. Not often, but at parties. That instantly turned him off. His Virgo Venus makes him want someone who lives a clean life, someone clear-thinking and healthy. He'd been very attracted to this woman, obsessed even (Moon-Pluto cnj and opp in synastry). His Virgo Venus must be pretty strong because discovering those two things about her was enough to kill his obsession. I have a Leo friend who has his Venus in Virgo. Like my brother, he's also obvious with his affections. He has a Sag moon, so I guess that Sag directness overrides his potentially cautious Virgo venus. edit - When I think of my brother and friend, I realize they both have a real lack of pride and ego when it comes to revealing their feelings. They don't seem to fear putting themselves in a situation where they may be rejected. IP: Logged |
jane
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posted October 26, 2008 06:54 AM
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**doing number twos while you're visiting
I could see the problem if it were done on the floor or in a beloved flower pot... IP: Logged |
blue moon
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posted October 26, 2008 07:52 AM
I scrolled up from the bottom, I couldn't see the name but I knew, and it was...jane  IP: Logged |
jane
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posted October 26, 2008 07:55 AM
lol. And that was pre-caffeine.  IP: Logged |
jane
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posted October 26, 2008 07:55 AM
I want a symbol like Zoro's "Z", that incorporates my Sco Merc and Virgo Mars. I'll sign my long posts with it.  IP: Logged |
cooljen
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posted October 26, 2008 11:46 AM
Yeah, to me it seems like Mars position is more telling with regards to showing affection.
I think Venus simply tells what type the person is attracted to, while Mars describes how the person pursues (actions)IP: Logged |
koiflower
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posted October 26, 2008 05:20 PM
I wondered which Knowflake would make a comment........JANE!! IP: Logged |
Arnicka
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posted October 26, 2008 09:23 PM
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as for obvious with affections i think that depends on who's looking (and who i'm looking at). i ALWAYS feel EXPOSED in the presence of someone i'm seriously attracted to, but THEY don't always see that! in fact some of them have complained i show nothing (guess i'm so busy trying not to be clingy, bossy, or a doormat i appear to be the opposite!!). but the ones i've gotten together with i CANNOT hide my feelings from, in fact usually everyone in the room can feel the vibes!!
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What I love most in a man is intelligence and a sense of humor. Nerds are right up my alley, lol.
Venus in the 6th here and I agree with the above, plus: he has to be serious, hard-working, HUMBLE, and CAN NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE have long hair. I have a serious phobia against hair, too much of it freaks me out. And no to cats, no no no. edit: also no piercings, and no tattoos. I like to think of the body as a beautiful natural landscape. so to me a tattoo is like seeing a big ugly billboard in the middle of a park - it just doesnt look right. how am i supposed to admire his body when this picture/metal thing here is distracting me?  IP: Logged |
rubi001
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posted October 26, 2008 09:31 PM
can someone elaborate more on this placement.
im very curious.
especially if the person (guy) also has an Aqua moon.
i know a few and im interested. IP: Logged |
Arnicka
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posted October 26, 2008 09:38 PM
If we're talking about a man with Virgo Venus and Aqua Moon he'd either like the logical clear thinking rational practical type or be perversely attracted to the reverse, emotional enthusiastic over-reactive and creative. Virgo and aqua have more in common than youd think.IP: Logged |
scrappydog
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posted October 27, 2008 05:39 PM
I'm a female with venus and jupiter in virgo and venus is really important in my chart, also a 6th house sun. I am not obvious with my affections even though I am very emotional. You would never know it if I liked you until I told you. I can be embarressed by big displays of emotion or "showiness". I'm a neat freak and obsessive about hygeine and grooming myself. I don't like my men neat. Actually I like them rugged and extrememly masculine(mars in Sag), but they have to be CLEAN. Oh and as a previous poster said I love great teeth!IP: Logged |
scrappydog
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posted October 27, 2008 05:49 PM
I've also noticed a focus on good skin with this placement. Nothing turns me off faster than bad skin. My x husband had this placement and he was exactly the same. I'm completely obsessive about my skin care since I was a kid. Liking familiarity and routine is so true, even with the men. This is rarely a promiscuios placement, they have to feel comfortable with their sexual partners, so they usually prefer the one who is familiar rather than going after something new. Even sometimes when unsatisfied, they will stay with the tried and true. Of coarse this is going to differ with various planetary placements.IP: Logged |
annaf
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posted October 27, 2008 06:38 PM
Jane, interesting that your brother likes Alexis Bledel, goodness, that's text book synastry ....she's a virgo sun IP: Logged |
enchantress299
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posted October 27, 2008 07:25 PM
Venus Rx, MC, Sun, and Merc in Virgo.If you are dressed like you just stepped out of bed and you smell, you probably won't be dating me any time soon... Or any other girl for that matter. That being said, everyone seems to think that Virgo placed people only like everything to be clean and hygienic and that everything else in love is not important to us. Lies and slander that is. For me as a Virgo Venus, it's the small romantic gestures that make a difference (holding the door, little surprises, holding my hand, etc, etc). Virgo Venus people are subtle about their affections. Instead of shouting our love from the rooftops, a simple look or gesture conveys our interest. Also, we are very practical when it comes to relationships (Not rational, that's different; if I had been rational I wouldn't have dated the last Cancer I dated). Practical in that, if we see the relationship isn't going to work, we simply won't pursue it. OR, we might see that it's not going to work, but pursue it anyway with the knowledge that it's not going to work out in the end. I'm usually sharp enough or cynical enough to figure it out. I tend to go for intelligence like many Virgo Venuses do. Stability, emotional and financial, is important to me. Ambition is good. (I also like a sense of humor and adventure, but that's not really my Virgo Venus ). I like someone who is nicely dressed: as long as they are nicely dressed in their genre of style, they have a chance. I dislike men who are rude or sloppy or skeazy. I don't like clingy guys either... But that's just me. ------------------
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oceaneyes
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posted October 27, 2008 08:04 PM
hey
i'm a mercury, venus and mars in virgo all in the 8th house.
not all of the things they say about virgo is true for me though. In love im really passionate and intense. I feel everything really strongly and i have a possessive streak. I'm pretty all or nothing and emotional. I'm thinking that it's the 8th house influence and the moon-pluto square too. I have a thing about cleanliness though admittedly, grunginess, dirtiness, sleaziness and general dirt turns me wayy off. You have to wash!
Also i get really nitpicky when i'm disappointed or genrally annoyed but i keep my criticism to myself. I'm very very analytical, i drive myself crazy! With my affection, i'm very cautious at showing, i have to trust you to be affectionate and i have trust issues lol.
Though i feel so so obvious when i like someone i try not to show them, i hate it when they can tell. I never ever chase. In a relationship unless they've consistently made me feel safe and loved i have a hard time showing my feeling s or affections. I've even had it when i was completely obsessively in love with this guy and he thought i totally lost interest! i'm really scared of rejection and getting hurt. However when i want someone and i know it's right im absolutely intensely relentless.
Aesthetically i like preppy clean cut looking guys who are very very masculine and a bit dangerous lol. They have to be kind hearted though, polite, more reserved, decent, reliable, considerate,private, deep, paasionate, sensual, classy and very very honest. They can be rude as they want between the sheets though ! IP: Logged |
mrsxdwinchester
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posted October 27, 2008 09:40 PM
Venus, Mercury, Mars in Virgo all Conj my Virgo ASC. I also have an Aquarius Moon in the sixth house.
In general I wouldn't say I'm an incredibly tidy person. If anything I'm particularly particular. I like certain things in just a certain way and it really bothers me if my patterns are disrupted. I can be very idealistic.
I don't show affection right away, but once I feel I can trust a person enough to I'm very direct and intense. I don't hold anything back. Emotionally, I don't let go of people easily once I've cared for them, but at the same time I feel I must keep my composure.
I'd actually prefer a bit of a scruffy look, with common sense when it comes to personal hygiene. I'd like someone with common sense in general. I must feel an intellectual connection above anything else. I also appreciate a partner that knows how to fix things around the house.
In a relationship I usually find myself doing simple things for the other person like, cleaning, cooking, making sure they get where they need to be when they need to be there. I also have a tendency to nit pick about how they can improve themselves, or how they do things which can cause problems but my suggestions are always made with the best intentions in mind.
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