posted October 29, 2008 01:44 AM         

The question comes up because I met someone new I have this with and so far there doesn't seem to be a problem of needing to give each other a lot of space and it doesn't seem to be fading away, knock on wood, but I am fearful nonetheless.

The truth is I know long term couples who had placements like the Uranus and Venus square in their partner charts and were so in love, so it's never that simple. I know partners need various things from relationships and maybe with my Uranian energy I need that kind of space and that is why I always meet these people.

posted October 29, 2008 04:48 AM         

In romantic relationships this can be tricky because Uranus doesn't allow people to get as intimate as they can be. One person freaks out and "needs space." Or for whatever reason, the relationship is unstable so while you have romantic feelings for each other, it's hard to ground it into everyday routines.

posted October 29, 2008 09:32 AM         

Both people have to be happy with a relationship for it to work. A composite venus/uranus conjunction may be good for you, but may make your partner uneasy, depending on their natal chart.

I think most people can tolerate a venus/uranus conj. in a friendship, but only a few would find that influence satisfying in a romantic or sexual partnership.

posted October 30, 2008 04:23 PM         

quote:

---

Venus Conjunct Uranus
With Venus conjunct Uranus in the composite chart, you will have to keep certain points in mind in order to get the most out of your relationship.
If this is a sexual relationship, it is very likely that your feelings for each other arose suddenly. But no matter how intense the feeling, recognize that any attempt to hold onto this relationship is probably doomed to failure. If you want it to last, you must give each other lots of room to move.
A relationship like this shakes your established thought patterns and gives you both the opportunity to find something new in yourselves.
This relationship may very well change your life. Give yourselves the freedom to go where it takes you.

---

posted October 31, 2008 03:05 AM         

quote:

---

if people on here believe that love is stronger than the chart or if not.

---

Love is stronger because it's alive, it has energy. The chart is static, it's just a 2-dimensional drawing that is meant to serve as a map.

posted October 31, 2008 06:18 AM         

I have 2 experiences with the Ven-Sat square, which can manifest as love unrequited or love that is unfulfilled (either due to outside influences or to inner blockage such as insecurity and fears). Unlike the Ven-Ura aspect, this one poses problems in the beginning and requires a lot of effort from both parties for the relationship to take off the ground.

In my first experience, I met someone with whom I clicked really well (our synastry was good). We became close to each other as friends in just a very short time but before we could take it to a new level we both had to travel and then lost contact. Sad thing is I knew how to contact him but didn't because I was insecure. He was such a great catch and I could not believe that he would be interested in me for something more than friendship.

When we saw each other again, he was already in the beginning stage of a relationship with someone. Naturally I got hurt, but instead of staking my claim, what I did was play the role of a supportive friend and pushed him towards the other girl. Their relationship didn't last. When they broke up he tried to be close to me again, but I had already done everything to forget my feelings and could not see myself anymore being with him in a romantic relationship. (Being a double Scorpio, I am so good at burying feelings that sometimes I forget where I buried them and can't find them anymore). We have both found other loves since then but remained really good friends who would do anything for each other.

What's funny is with the next guy I fell for I also had the Ven-Sat square. I think this is the universe's way of saying "you are not graduating from this level unless you pass this test. Accept the lesson and its gift now or the next experience will be a tougher one".

posted October 31, 2008 07:19 AM         

To make matters even more complicated (and interesting): in synastry my Libra Moon&Venus conjunction is conjunct his Libra Jupiter&Uranus conjunction – this aspect bundle falls in his 8th and in my 2nd house.

In what composite houses does your Saturn square Venus fall in your relationships?

Our composite placements are: Saturn in Aries in the 11th house (society, friends) square Venus in Capricorn in the 8th house (coming together on the deepest levels, sexually and materially).

posted October 31, 2008 09:31 AM         

Eeek! I realized just now that with the first guy I have both Ven-Sat square and Ven-Ura conjunct (Saturn is also squaring Uranus). Apparently in the duel between Saturn and Uranus over Venus' affection, Saturn won.

Lana, so how are things with you guys now?