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Topic: What aspects?
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Ana
Knowflake Posts: 156
From: Romania
Registered: Sep 2006
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posted October 29, 2008 07:40 AM
 
I've been wondering what aspects might point to the following issue: i'm attracting men - lots of 'em.I really can't have just a guy friend without him hitting on me.It goes as far as boyfriends of my (girl)friends telling me they have been in love with me or have erotic fantasies with me.... 
I seriously have no idea where and what to look for in my chart that would explain this attraction.Even at the office, i'm being hit on by most of my colleagues as well as clients, and believe me i'm not the kind that dresses in a provocative manner (i'm more of a jeans&tshirt type of girl). I'm also attracting Cancer guys - every cancer guy i have known liked/likes me in a romantic/sexual way.Any clues on why that is happening? i could only explain it as i'm having a lot of my planets in the 4th house, but there might as well be other things. This is my DOB: 18 november 1985, 23.40, Bucharest, Romania. And this is my chart:
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koiflower
Knowflake Posts: 1258
From: Australia
Registered: Jun 2008
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posted October 29, 2008 07:52 AM
Just one aspect to comment on at the moment: Venus and Juno are conjunct in Scorpio. Pluto is fairly close and some would say, that the relationship between Venus and Pluto AND Venus and Juno could make a stellium (if asteroids count in stelliums).Venus and Juno together make for a desirable union. Possibly advertising you as desirable. Scorpio will give it that intense undercurrent of sex. Maybe being in the 3rd house, you are a natural at communicating this aspect well. You have Mars in Libra which is in its fall (or detriment). Even though Mars doesn't usually feel comfortable here, I think Libra uses Mars well enough to present some attractiveness.
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Lara
Knowflake Posts: 3274
From: London
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted October 29, 2008 07:57 AM
10 degrees is a bit wide for a stellium  enus/juno is 4 deg so it's a bit wide and not sure it explains it cos l have same problem and my juno opposing my sun as only aspect! IP: Logged |
blue moon
Moderator Posts: 4700
From: U.K
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted October 29, 2008 09:43 AM
I'm going to go for the Sun/Saturn Square the Ascendant. Leo likes attention, Sun/Saturn wants to get along in life. So you are friendly and polite to co-workers and clients. Cancers in particular get off on your sensitivity and attention. When they get the wrong message, you are reluctant to be assertive and put them off. Just my interpretation, but if you read up on CafeAstrology, as one example, it might give you some ideas on how those Squares work. It does sound you could do with being a little more aggressive in the workplace so you don't get treated like a bit of fluff. Outside of work unwanted suitors may be annoying, and from their perspective, it isn't nice to feel like they are being led on. IP: Logged |
Deliverance
Knowflake Posts: 440
From: Bolloxville, Nutbush
Registered: Mar 2005
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posted October 29, 2008 11:46 AM
Ana,I would guess that its Lilith conj MC. Hmmm Venus conj Pluto in Scorpio could alos be sending out some "sexy-vibes". I had this problem in from 2000-2005. Lilith is conjunct my chart ruler in Taurus. It got really bad when I lost weight. It was horrible, I'm not a flirtatious person & the attention freaked me out. I dont have the problem anymore - I dont respond to flirting & scowl at me who try it on. I agree with Blue Moon, you need to be assertive at work to maintain your credibility. If you don't like the attention from the men & they don't back down, don't smile at them, don't even be polite - give them the "s**t-eye". IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 4497
From: Outside, to watch the nightfall in the rain
Registered: Aug 2006
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posted October 29, 2008 05:11 PM
Natally - Mars trine Jupiter, wide conj between Venus and Pluto IN Sco both square Jupiter in Aqu. A sense of dangerous freedom and vampishness that you put out that you might not be aware of. Comes out in speech (3rd house), also Pluto and Venus conj Juno, so you must be saying things that might come across as a worthy partner to be tied to. Technically unaspected BML also conj MC.EDIT - also it might have something to do with Sun square Moon, again Sco v Aqu polarity. Leo rising too so Sun is chart ruler. You should be a good looking cat! You can also see how Ura is tied in to Jupiter and Mars which gives a Uranian streak there. EDIT x 2 - Eros conj Pluto, Venus. Res Ipsa Loquitur
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Scorpionic Web
Knowflake Posts: 812
From: Pennsylvania
Registered: Dec 2005
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posted October 29, 2008 05:22 PM
Romanian women are just sexy. Also, two of the three times I've felt real love was when I dated a girl from Bucharest, then one from Buzau. But regardless, some correlate the 11th house to "love received", others translate it to more of an Aquarian love as shown through "friends" or even mere "acquaintances." I attract a lot of Gemini's with a Gem 11th house, but I'm a Scorpio and we simply don't get along and the attraction dies quickly, so I'm not sure exactly which level of attraction is more true of the 11th house. Still, attracting Cancer men would only make sense, as Cancer is completely intercepted in your 11th. IP: Logged |
Ana
Knowflake Posts: 156
From: Romania
Registered: Sep 2006
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posted October 29, 2008 05:22 PM
thanks loads for the interpretations everybody!you have made it clear to me why all this is happening to me IP: Logged |
Ana
Knowflake Posts: 156
From: Romania
Registered: Sep 2006
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posted October 29, 2008 05:27 PM
Scorpionic Web, i'm from Bucharest too :PI'd like to know why you said that attracting Cancer men would only make sense, as Cancer is completely intercepted in my 11th house.How does that explain attracting cancer guys?
I like 'em loads so i don't complain, the more the better . EDIT: i re-read your post and i think i got it:P, and i'd guess i'm attracted to them because of my 4th house planets as well? IP: Logged |
Scorpionic Web
Knowflake Posts: 812
From: Pennsylvania
Registered: Dec 2005
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posted October 29, 2008 05:45 PM
Ana-Many people see the 5th house as "love given" and "who we enjoy", whether literally or figuratively I'm not sure, but my 5th house is early Sagittarius through early Capricorn, and I've desired more women whose Sun has fallen into my 5th house than whose Sun falls in any of my other houses. Opposite of the 5th house, the 11th house suggests "love received", so if we are attracted generally to 5th house types, then we should attract 11th house types. Like I said though, Aquarius (natural ruler of the 11th) usually offers a very cool variety of love, more universal than romantic, so the theory of "attracting friends" may be more accurate overall than attracting true lovers. However, your specific situation is favorable, because your Scorpio Sun has better potential of working well with a Cancer 11th, bringing a better chance of finding romantic love within your 11th. Whereas my Gemini 11th has always been difficult, because Gemini Suns both traditionally and personally have proven to be an unfavorable match a Scorpio Sun. IP: Logged |
blue moon
Moderator Posts: 4700
From: U.K
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted October 29, 2008 05:46 PM
 Cancerians are easy targets, Scorpios/your clients/the boss are more dangerous territory.
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