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posted October 30, 2008 10:03 PM         

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What natal chart aspects indicate someone who has a relatively smooth love life that results in a an overall wonderful long-term relationship or marriage?

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posted October 30, 2008 10:15 PM         

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hmmmmm, you'd think Jupiter is involved for luck, prosperity and expansion. I'm gonna take a stab and say it's something like aspects between Venus, Saturn and Jupiter. Venus is the natural ruler of the DC, 7th house. Otherwise, look to aspects between Jupiter, Saturn and the natal chart's 7th.

...or maybe these planets in the 7th house?

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posted October 30, 2008 10:50 PM         

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I think I'm pretty happy in love..

But my idea of good luck, is not necessarily a long term relationship.. whatever happens happens.

I'm happy with the men I draw into my life. So far - only one bad egg.

I have:
Venus trine Mars
Jupiter trine Pluto
Mars conjunct Neptune
Gemini Asc (I think that's generally lucky - Sag on DC)

Not sure if this is significant, but the ruler of my sun - Mars in Capricorn, is conjunct the ruler of my Jupiter, Neptune in Capricorn.

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posted October 30, 2008 10:52 PM         

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an overall wonderful long-term relationship or marriage?

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For a long-term situation, I'm thinking Venus trine Saturn.

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posted October 30, 2008 11:17 PM         

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Venus in the fifth house.

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posted October 30, 2008 11:29 PM         

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I'll describe you my situations. somehow i always KNOW if a guy is fit for me, or will he cheat on me and stuff, and i've never been wrong. never. i always know the good ones. Most my friends get fooled by them, and don't beleive what i say. So thats why i never yet had ended up with a jerk/player/cheater/ ect.

my aspects
venus opposition saturn
venus conjunct jupiter
venus conjunct mars

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posted October 30, 2008 11:40 PM         

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venus trine jupiter, venus happy with mars, in the 5th, 7th or 8th?

but do you really want smooth sailing in love? isn't some button pushing necessary to promote growth (of the partners AND the relationship?

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posted October 31, 2008 01:13 AM         

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Button pushing is fine, but I've had the worst luck in love. I always end up with seemingly normal guys who turn out to be very creepy, obsessive, stalkers. I just want a nice, normal guy. Is that really too much to ask?

I was just watching a few classic Disney movies (Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty and Snow White) with my little cousins. If only it were that easy to find true love...

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posted October 31, 2008 02:08 AM         

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Hey, did you have a Venus/Pluto opp?

I think your Venus was conjunct mine. I might be confusing you with someone lol (I also have the opposition)

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posted October 31, 2008 03:44 AM         

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I can't remember a time in my life when I haven't had a relationship (or at least a guy I'm dating). However, I feel like whenever I am single and am "in the field", I get screwed over sort of... but then I end up with a really great guy so it all works out.

I have Venus square Uranus, Venus square Saturn, Venus conj NN, Venus conj Juno, Venus square Ascendant, Moon in Libra in the 5th, DSC in Sagittarius (Jupiter in Aries in 11th).

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posted October 31, 2008 04:02 AM         

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I have venus trine ruler of my 7th house neptune

Venus sextile saturn and pluto

venus sextile moon

Oh and my love life has never been good, even if it was i didnt know until it was over..

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Sun.. Cancer

Moon.. Gemini

Mars.. Cancer

Mercury.. Cancer

Venus.. Leo

Ascendant....... Virgo

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posted October 31, 2008 04:20 AM         

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Is life ever that simple?

It might look it from the outside, but I doubt that is ~ I know someone met her boyfriend when she was 11, married him at 17, and still lives with him nearly 60 years later. I'm sure it wasn't all plain sailing.

And I don't have her birth details, but I can tell you she is Sun Libra.

On the chart I think we would need to see some strong Libra or Venus, or something that shows the art of compromise.

Venus in the 7th is a traditional placement for a long and happy marriage. I've got that, but it's also a part of a T-Square with the Ascendant, Mercury and Mars.

No-one's ever cheated on me, and only one man treated me badly. I was 18. When he saw me in the street about a year later, he went and hid in a doorway.

My husband is a decent person, we have been together for 16 years. It's not been one-long honeymoon, neither of us are perfect. It takes hard work and it cuts both ways.

Luck on my chart? Jupiter Opposes Saturn in the 7th house. That's not my idea of lucky. But I count my blessings.

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posted October 31, 2008 07:50 AM         

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Smooth love life can be 1st and 7th in aspect. As for the marriage/relationship itself, best place to look is 7th house.
Capricorn/Saturn is more aligned to sucess.

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posted October 31, 2008 03:18 PM         

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Rulers of my 1st & 7th are trine. I've had an exceptionally smooth love life - no cheating, no disrespect, no probs at all, Simply because I've never had a love life hehehe.

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posted October 31, 2008 05:29 PM         

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#1 A well aspected Jupiter in the 7th especially conjunct Desc.
#2 well aspected venus in 5th.
Jupiter in 5th often causes an abundance in love/sex.
It's really important for the planets to be well aspected and strong, not just in the 5th or 7th. I have venus and jupiter in the 5th, but they are both SQUARE NEPTUNE. I have horrible luck in love.

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posted October 31, 2008 07:07 PM         

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Jupiter and Venus influence, but NOT Saturn. Even nice V/S aspects tend to lead to a rocky love life.

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posted October 31, 2008 07:21 PM         

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Deliverance - thanks for the laugh!!

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posted October 31, 2008 08:19 PM         

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Yeah sometimes I wonder the same thing.
I know people that never experienced heart ache. They found their wife/husband at an early age while many of us experience deep heart ache.

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posted October 31, 2008 08:44 PM         

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Kick it,
I have capricorn on DC and I don't consider myself successful in love. I have read that Capricorn or Saturn in 7th can indicate delays in relationships.

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