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Smiling Scorpittarius
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posted November 02, 2008 11:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Smiling Scorpittarius     Edit/Delete Message

In a relationship, or more than friends... is it possible?
Or will the two be quiet all the time, until they both feel like they can trust each other...

I'm just asking because there was a question on here that discussed the only one to really understand a Scorpio Moon is a Scorpio Moon.

Any thoughts on this?

(ok...there we go, i'm in the right place. lol. :P )

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taurean_scorpion
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posted November 03, 2008 12:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for taurean_scorpion     Edit/Delete Message
i think two scorpio moons could totally get each other once they put their guards down. both are afraid of being hurt/rejected that manipulation takes place.
my experience w/ another scorpio moon was that the relationship didn't advance because we were scared. i don't know maybe it was because he didn't want to make an effort to let the relationship grow but i could sense he didn't want to be in a vulnerable position and neither did i...me being a scorpio moon, i need to learn to trust.
to open up, it takes times w/ us i think, and patience.

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Smiling Scorpittarius
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posted November 03, 2008 03:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Smiling Scorpittarius     Edit/Delete Message
bumping up...

just in case those that were discussing scorpio moons with me are still on here!

i can't sleep... so i'll be looking for something to keep me entertained! hhahaha. :P

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Atlenta
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posted November 03, 2008 04:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Atlenta     Edit/Delete Message
I am not a scorpio moon, but an 8th house moon, and I feel it's very similar to a scorpio moon. It's either in or out - no way in between. I don't believe in shades of grey where matters of love are concerned- its all or nothing, and we know it.

As for seeing another 8th or scorpionic moon, I haven't tried, but I feel it may be a bit too intense (my own moon is in Earth).
I think that scorpio moons do well with other scorpio moons, as well as capricorn moons.

Personally, my love interest has his sun and venus in the 8th, so i think it may be matched in the intensity. And the composite has moon in scorpio.

From the experience (thought its not exactly scorp-scorp moon), this whole relationship, especially since your composite is naturally scorpio moon, can just totally envelop you, and, if you're not careful, engulf you in the flames of redemption.. either take you to the depths of infinity or bind you like the chains of hell. Really, the relationship must have a foundation of positivity, love, tolerance.. because it can easily go the other route where you try to control each other and be sadistic just to get back at each other. You get the drift!!!!

I read that placing your own moon in scorpio is one of the, if not the most tumultous place to put your emotions.

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Smiling Scorpittarius
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posted November 03, 2008 04:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Smiling Scorpittarius     Edit/Delete Message
hi Atlenta!

yah i understand where your coming from.

And i read some where that Moon in Scorpio is in it's "fall." So that's no good... cuz even before i knew that i had a scorpio moon i always seemed like i didn't know how to deal with my feelings or i'd always have a hard time dealing... you know what i mean? but now that i know more about it, i feel like i've matured and grown a lot...at this point in life, at least.

And i see your point, hahhaaha. "flames of redemption and bind you like the chains of hell." hahaha.

Because even though we aren't dating but went out on one date and hung out a few times... i can already feel the jealousy on my side and on his side, cuz he seems like he's "playing it cool" and being hard to read. But i think i know what he's thinking and feeling.

I just feel bad, cuz i did something bad in trying to make him jealous. lol. i didn't mean to and now i feel bad....

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Atlenta
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posted November 03, 2008 05:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Atlenta     Edit/Delete Message
quote:
seemed like .. didn't know how to deal with my feelings or ..always have a hard time dealing... you know what i mean?

Definitely, I know what you mean! However, conversely from you, as I grow older, I find it even harder to deal, no kidding! When I was a kid, or semi adult, it wasn't so much of a problem. But, I noticed this is one of my friends with a scorpio moon as well. It's just harder and harder to deal with that jealousy feeling!

I don't want to be a faux scorpio moon or anything, but I don't even understand why I identify so much with it. It's a place where it seems difficult to control, like tides of uncontrolled "passion" (if u can call it that).

Also, its a very psychic placement, yes, and feeling their emotions and getting it spot on seems so scary. Making the other party jealous seems like a natural thing to do, too. I think it's the scorpio realm. My love interest (sun and venus in the 8th) is always pulling that jealousy thing on me too.

I think that both of you secretly enjoy it, because you share a secret knowledge of what the communal moons share. As long as you learn to trust each other (as t_s_ mentioned) .. but then again, how can you expect this to be emotionally smooth sailing? It may not be a very serene relationship (read: very tumultous), but that is, if you want to enjoy the ride.. it will only be serene if you hold back.

But the end story, if you overcome all barriers, will be very sweet. Just that you need to go through some things together (and being the binding sort of moon in composite, make sure you have a good reason before you go too deep, because it may be hard to come out!)

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Smiling Scorpittarius
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posted November 03, 2008 05:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Smiling Scorpittarius     Edit/Delete Message
yah i totally understand what you mean! lol.

but it's crazy cuz i dont even know this guy all that well yet, and i think he's mad at me already (lol :P) but i have a male friend who's a Scorpio moon and Sun and we get along so well... and understand each other sooo well. i guess it's how one deals with their emotions and feelings. but maybe we're just better off as friends for now and if anything happens down the line then so be it! haha :P

but i gotta remember that they are not the same guy. lol.

and i did "try" a composite or synastry on astro.com... if i have his info correct and there's A LOT of scorpio in there... like i think it said it'd be life changing...or soul changing... very intense, and deep stuff. lol. wow. sounds good, but then it sounds bad...

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Dulce Luna
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posted November 03, 2008 08:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message
Another faux scorpio mooner here ( 8th house moon), and I've had great bonds with scorpio mooners. Its funny that the one scorpio mooner Ive been with didnt work out but still I get on well with them. My ex's brother is one and it was soooo strange. Like there were things I did to hurt my ex in the past and the scorpio moon brother totally understood why and was a great mediator. The ex in question was a scorpio so it wasnt always so bad, but he had nice *sugary* placements like a pisces moon and a libra venus so we were pretty much like day and night in some respects.


I don't entirely believe that only scorpionic moons understand eachother, but sometimes it feels that way. :-\ Like, there are times when I feel like I get wayyy too intensely attached to people and/or situations (though I dont show it) and ppl in only a way that a scorpio mooner would be, plus my moods are pretty bad, and my lack of trust in ppl. O__o I've been known to be pretty Machiavellian in instances such as my brief stint as a hostess at Applebee's (it was THAT bad). My dreams also tend to be psychic in a way though, as they HAVE in the past foreshadowed actual events. And I do like to boast being great at reading ppl.

But at the same time, when I realize something's done and over with there's no looking back for me. I've found that I do indeed bounce back pretty quickly from things, whether it be because my 8th house moon is in practical virgo or my gemini venus I dunno...but I thank the Lord for that, as this year's been disasterous in terms of a love life/ personal life. LOL

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ScorpioCentaur
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posted November 04, 2008 03:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioCentaur     Edit/Delete Message
This is an interesting topic!
Scorpio sun and venus here, and I don't know If I believe two Scorpio moons could be together..
Obviously the rest of the charts have to be in harmony and have good aspects...
But still, Scorpio mooners are so intense, so stubborn and feel so deeply, I just don't know if two people feeling those ways could ever come to compromises with eachother.
I agree that it takes a scorpio moon to understand another scorpio moon, yet, is it compatible?
The only scorpio moon I know is my sister. She is intense to the extreme. Everything is black and white. Even with all my Scorp influence and our sun/moon conjunction I still sometimes find it hard to deal with all her ups and downs and dramatics.
I think maybe the best thing for a scorpio moon would be another water or earth sign moon (not in oppposition). That way the other person would provide some flexibility and lighten things up a little while still being compatible and sensitive enough.

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Smiling Scorpittarius
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posted November 04, 2008 04:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Smiling Scorpittarius     Edit/Delete Message
hey ScorpioCentaur,

thanks for your input. and I kinda agree with you... that two scorpio moons wouldn't be compatible with each other. we'd probably end up really really good friends. Cuz one night at a party with all our friends (not sure if it was his intentions...) but he made me jealous! and the next night when he went out with us, i wanted to make him jealous. haha. and he seemed like he wasnt having a good time with everyone. but there was definitely that attraction where i guess we were both ok with just being in each other's company even if we were both quiet. it was weird but nice.

if only i could meet someone that understand me and my moon but not get jealous or play games but understands that i feel things deeply and feel deeply too.

lately, i haven't met guys with water or earth moon signs. the last one i was really into... he had an aries moon. idk... i thought that was weird. i can't seem to foret him either. poooo.

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Smiling Scorpittarius
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posted November 04, 2008 04:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Smiling Scorpittarius     Edit/Delete Message
Dulce Luna,

yah i agree... i have a lack of trust in people too. sometimes i feel like i can't even trust my family or closest friends, i know it's crazy... but it takes some kind of action on their part to lose my trust. i usually give people the benefit of the doubt. and i usually give 2nd and 3rd chances. it sucks.

i also know what you mean when you say your great at reading people. i think i am too. never really noticed it till now. not sure if it's cuz it's scorpio season. lol. :P

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Green Fairy
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posted November 04, 2008 07:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Green Fairy     Edit/Delete Message
From what I've seen so far Scorpios/Sco Moon-ers have a very good relationship with Aries Moon people.

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Dulce Luna
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posted November 04, 2008 09:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message
Ah, what ScorpioCentaur was saying was kind of the lines of what I was trying to get at from past experiences. Like I said, the one scorpio mooner I was involved with romantically didnt really go great, but despite that: I still have great friendships with them. I feel if the situation becomes romantic, thats when the games begin. (EEK!) And its not neccesarily for kicks, but more to test eachother. (EEK! Again)

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Smiling Scorpittarius
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posted November 04, 2008 06:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Smiling Scorpittarius     Edit/Delete Message
Green Fairy,

really? you've seen that? could you elaborate... please? could you give examples of what you've seen with scorpios or scorpio moons with aries moons... did it last?

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Green Fairy
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posted November 04, 2008 07:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Green Fairy     Edit/Delete Message
From what I've seen so far [friends and social circle] they seem to get along well. Of course they're both VERY competitive and stubborn and the Aries moon must be always right and is quick to judge situations and people, but there's some sort of camaraderie [don't know if that is the right word to use] and knowing [as if they can understand each other's motives].

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