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posted November 03, 2008 01:21 AM         

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I've been dating one for five months and he's a trip!... He's talking about getting married and having kids. He has it all planned out and he's got all of the deatils of our future house thought out. Mine has a Cappy Moon and a Scorp Asc as well, so I think that makes it worse. I should be running in the other direction, but I think it's amusingly cute that he's so sure of the future. He showers me with attention and promises me that he'll have a good job and take care of me... all of this after five months! Anybody else have any experiences like this with Cappy men? Do they want to get married a week after you meet them? He's so cute and corny and naive at the same time that it sort of cracks me up, even though I do appreciate the fact that he cares about me and I love him too.

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posted November 03, 2008 01:46 AM         

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Ah yes...I married and divorced a Cappy. He was a Gemini moon and a Pisces rising, though his Venus was also in Capricorn.
He was very much corny, and very sweet, and wanted to plan the whole thing from start to finish. I would stare at him in horror - the prolonged engagement and huge wedding scared the crap out of me.

We ended up eloping on a mountain top in Montana - his idea, by the way. A perfect setting for a Capricorn, I might add, and for me, an Aries moon

The Capricorn moon probably really reinforces his sun also, so this brings out his expression of security to you. That's their idea of seduction, LOL. I shouldn't make fun, this is heaven for a lot of women, I realize. Steady job, good provider, attentive, sweet, etc. etc...Very conscious of the long-term and working toward it and wanting you there.

It didn't work, but we're on good terms. He still calls me up after all this time, to tell me how much he misses my cooking..."I found a can of tomato soup from when we were married," he says. LOL. It's like he's a rat scrounging around for food...lol.

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posted November 03, 2008 04:41 AM         

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this is probably one reason why some capricorns have a reputatio for being bitter or cold. because at some point in their life, they trusted the wrong person.

you know - it's bad enough that you think his feelings for you are "funny"; it's so much worse to make fun of him publicly. you probably don't deserve to be loved! let's hope he realises that before you break his heart and laugh your way out of his life.

read all those threads of people hurting. maybe you'll get some idea of how lucky you are!

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posted November 03, 2008 05:06 AM         

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Editing out my nastiness:

Uhhhh....if you were talking about me, Christiname, then I'll repost my diatribe about how terrible my marriage was.
Otherwise, I just want to say that I think you're being a little hard on BoE...

lol.

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posted November 03, 2008 05:14 AM         

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VirgoMask - I'm pretty sure Cristiname meant BoE saying her Cap guy is funny and cracks her up lol

BoE, does he know you're not as serious about things as he is? I think it's best to not lead him on.

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posted November 03, 2008 05:17 AM         

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Um. Ooops.
LOL.
If that's the case, sorry Christiname...I'll go back and edit the nasty stuff. LOL.

Aries moon reaction. Lovely, isn't it

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posted November 03, 2008 01:37 PM         

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Listen up christiname, you don't know me so there's no reason to be rude. I love this guy, and I KNOW that I'm VERY lucky. The reason that I posted this thread was because I've never met anyone like this before and I was wondering about other people's experiences with Cappy men. I was wondering if all of this was the real deal. I am not really making fun of him, but when someone says something really corny the natural reaction is to be amused. He's only 19 years old and I'm pretty sure he isn't ready to say he wants to be with me forever. I appreciate the fact that he cares about me, but he even laughs at himself after he some of the stuff that he says, so please don't judge me. I guess I should edit the post so maybe it will come off as being less offensive to whoever might take it the wrong way.

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posted November 03, 2008 03:46 PM         

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hmm 19 is young..I had a simular experience with a young Capricorn not that long ago he said things to me that makes think now if he ever meant any of it tbh but thats just my personal experience.. and at that age its pretty risky but if both of you are the same age or very close in age and you love eachother and its what you both want and heading in the same direction then you might just be ok. If you trust your instincts follow them.

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posted November 03, 2008 04:53 PM         

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I read it last night, and I wasn't offended as a Capricorn male. I agree with your assessment that we're cute and corny.

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posted November 03, 2008 05:27 PM         

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wait til the moods set in

They start soon after "marriage and kids talk"

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posted November 03, 2008 06:06 PM         

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aqua/scorp Haha, oh heck no, I don't want to get married! Neither does he at the moment, he was talking about 5 or 6 years from now.

Thank you AG. I wasn't trying to offend anyone. You can be really corny and cute at the same time. It's sort of endearing, haha.

Lara- Go ahead and spill about the moods... I haven't seen them yet. Maybe I have to a small degree, but I want to be prepared. lol

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posted November 03, 2008 06:52 PM         

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I'm wondering if the withdrawn, silent moods is what Lara is talking about. The occasional dark could that hangs there and refuses to lift.
Or the workaholism....I tend to think that Capricorns actually get more laid back the older they get, and more fun to be around. But sometimes if they're not mature emotionally, they can be really, really rigid and fixed on things being a very specific way, and not want to have any fun at all...

One time I read a description of the Capricorn male and it said:

"Capricorn men tend to conduct their relationships like a court room trial."
LOL. Yes, there were many, many moments like that. But again, this was just a facet.

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posted November 04, 2008 12:00 AM         

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One thing I've read about Virgo/Capricorn relationships said that neither will ever be good enough for the other. I haven't dated a Virgo to my knowledge, but that does seem like a plausible outcome.

I have a Virgo Moon myself, so I hold a certain affection for Virgos. I think I probably would try dating one if I got the opportunity.

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posted November 04, 2008 12:33 AM         

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Acoustic, you think it's the need for perfection from both signs which does this? It does sound likely.

I think the two signs get along very well and can even go days without saying a word to each other (I don't mean fighting) yet have an inherent understanding and connection. It's interesting.

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posted November 04, 2008 12:33 AM         

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MVM... Hehe, yeah... he already said that he's tried his hardest to find something wrong with me. I'm on trial, I guess. So far he hasn't found anything. I'm sure he will eventually.

AG- I think that the Virgo-Capricorn thing works quite nicely as far as I can tell. People are always saying that we compliment eachother. I guess some Virgo/Cappy couples are always going to find something wrong with their partner, but so far I think he's quite good enough for me. I'm no vision of perfection, myself. I guess that both of us are sort of looking for perfection, but I think we're smart enough to know that we can only come so close. Some of the quirks in a personality make a person all the more loveable.

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posted November 04, 2008 12:05 PM         

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I would think that a Virgo/Capricorn relationship should work. I definitely see some similarity in values.

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posted November 04, 2008 02:48 PM         

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to be fair to cristiname, your initial post (before you edited it) did make out that you were laughing at him and possibly even thought he was ridiculous.. if you didn't mean it that way and really think he's sweet in his corniness, that is a different story. but i gotta say, i felt it came across as though you were maybe leading him on and thought he was an idiot or something.

i like that capricornian persistence. i think it is very sweet. i can see how it could be maybe a bit tedious to those who crave more drama or excitement, but i think to earth and water influenced people especially, it would be comforting for the most part! enjoy!

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