posted November 09, 2008 08:14 AM              

Please just be patient with me for a moment and 23, please take a painkiller NOW!

I am going to list the points of each sign that l relate to and then list a few points about me. Problem is, l relate to both ASC's grrrrrr

LEO ASCENDANT
Leo people cannot help but be noticed.
self-aware
rash decisions (could be my aries moon/venus though)
staying power and drive
demonstrative, verbally
Drama Queen but ONLY when emotionally upset
natural flair for presentation.
optimistic
eye for quality
can be quite cat like
ability to put ideas and thought together and express them effectively.
very artistic
not good at handling jokes about myself
sincere and exceptionally loyal
romantic and idealistic yet logical
can be quite lazy
make friends easily and fit into any surroundings

AQUARIUS ASCENDANT
unique and original
never want to be labeled
individual
people always come to me for advice
i love to help the underdog
LOVE to shock!
Nothing shocks me
very provocative
give everyone freedom and like it myself
treat all others as equals
cool and detached curiosity
can be standoffish and rude/direct
very independent
original style
love to observe and deduce people and usually right
very intuitive and psychic
dress sense slightly offbeat but l don't wear bright colours or floral prints
somewhat stubborn and inflexible lol
vision to change the world
love the internet and research
much better at communicating by written word than speech
try to not judge others and hate to be judged myself
feel different to others and almost like i'm from another planet sometimes

ME
cant bear to be tied down
bore easily
always willing to help others without needing any gain
not needy or clingy
cant bear clinginess in others
very aloof sometimes and yet love to party but part of me always keeps myself to myself when partying
hate jewelry except crystals
hate flamboyancy
no fear
can act irrationally
have lost friends due to my verbal mess ups
fine hair but really thick (lots of it)
small head
good writing ability
broad minded and love to think and study
fascinated with occult and spiritual/development matters
ability to see through people psychically
good intuition
like to be free and separate even if with group of people
like to help others self improve
good bone structure/skin
well proportioned body and great legs
like my privacy
dont really need attention but like to be appreciated and have fun with friends
not at all a family-orientated person
not a susie homebody lol
drive fast and well
great at problem solving
love a man who is mentally stimulating ad can make me think
if someone hugs me, i'm always the first to feel uncomfortable and want to let go
not good at emotional situations
prefer to keep most people at arms length
have a wide circle of friends from all walks of life and like to just come in and out of their lives, moving from one to the other.
Don't have BEST friends who l speak to every day
i'm a kooky loner

I think l lean more toward Aquarius BUT the one thing that gets me is that with Leo ASC my venus/moon etc is in 9th house and almost ALL my boyfriends and marriages have been foreigners living in London!

Aquarius ASC puts my stellium in 3rd house.

Question is: could l be Leo ASC and still have all these Aquarian aloof and detached traits? I absolutely need freedom in relationships and if my partner gets too close, cuddly or controlling l sink into myself and withdraw from life... then eventually my aries rises from the ashes and l suddenly annouce i'm leaving.

Relationships happen and end very irratically and out of nowhere for me.

Any help welcome please... i'm really not sure!

posted November 09, 2008 08:16 AM              

This is me with my natural hair colour - years ago!

posted November 09, 2008 09:11 AM            

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oh... and l hate to be told what to do!

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And for that, I'm grateful...

I vote Aquarian...

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February 3 1968... Sun = Aquarius... Moon = Aries... Venus = Capricorn... Mars = Pisces...

posted November 09, 2008 10:05 AM              

You look like my colleague, AC Aquarius. She is Scorpio, has green eyes, but blonde hair.

In fact is very easy to know what AC we are:
what kind of people (Sun sign) like you mostly?

If I wouldn't have hour of birth, I would say that my AC is Libra. I met so many Libra people in my life and don't need hour of birth.

posted November 09, 2008 10:11 AM              

I am blonde too - l just dye it black

hmmm, well leo/aries are mainly attracted to me but l am attracted to air/fire signs!

A few of my really good girlfriends are gemini/aqua

posted November 09, 2008 12:17 PM              

ok so basically i'm Aquarian AC then lol

unless anyone thinks differently

posted November 09, 2008 12:55 PM            

It's hard to be objective about yourself.

posted November 09, 2008 01:01 PM              

Yet, with Aqua AC it puts my stellium in 3rd, giving me a good written communication ability in places such as Lindaland, no?

posted November 09, 2008 01:16 PM            

Your posts draw a lot of attention, and generally speaking, Aquarians prefer to be out of the lime light. Also Leo gives you a lot of passion that Aquarius wouldn't. You would be much more detached in your dealings with people (think Kick It).

Plus I know of an Taurus Sun/Aries Mercury/Leo ASC, and sometimes you remind me of him.

And as for the 3rd/9th thing, I think you are more Sag than Gemini, by going by the descriptions of yourself, and the ways you relate to Aquarius ASC.

posted November 09, 2008 01:44 PM              

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9th house is publishing
Your posts draw a lot of attention, and generally speaking, Aquarians prefer to be out of the lime light. Also Leo gives you a lot of passion that Aquarius wouldn't. You would be much more detached in your dealings with people (think Kick It).

Plus I know of an Taurus Sun/Aries Mercury/Leo ASC, and sometimes you remind me of him.

And as for the 3rd/9th thing, I think you are more Sag than Gemini, by going by the descriptions of yourself, and the ways you relate to Aquarius ASC.

Speaking of which, what sign is your Uranus? If you were an Aqua ASC, what house would your Uranus be in? That could give you pointers.

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Interesting Amowls... hmmm

I am quite detached in real life yet for some reason online l am able to lose that... l was on a website last year and was so popular that i thought "wait a minute, why doesn't this happen in real life!" Would Leo rising be similar in real life to online please?

with Aqua AC my uranus is in 7th/placidus or 8th/equal and jupiter in 7th (which is weird cos the one place l have the worst luck is in relationships!). I am both a shocker in relationships and psychic and shocking in being able to sus people psychically instantly.
Both my marriages were to men who you would have never guessed were my type - and they weren't. Neither had money, status or anything actually - and l managed to completely shock my family with my choice of 2nd husband. Strange....

With Leo AC my uranus is in my 3rd/placidus or 2nd/equal, jupiter in 1st and my sun is in my 10th house... yet l have zero career of any standing! I am great at what l do yet it never becomes a career

If l was Leo AC i guess Air on DC would draw air types to me.

posted November 09, 2008 01:51 PM              

My Granmother swears l was born in the morning. she said she found it just weird drinking champagne so early!

Leo starts at 11am and Aquarius at 2.45am.

I should mention that my Granny was a renowned drinker
therefore drinking at 11am wouldn't really stick in her mind as much haha

posted November 09, 2008 02:22 PM            

Also, if things were going wrong, how long would they wait? Until noon the next day? That would be a different shift of workers, probably. Unlikely.

posted November 09, 2008 02:28 PM              

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cant bear to be tied down
bore easily
not needy or clingy
no fear
have lost friends due to my verbal mess ups
like to be free and separate
not at all a family-orientated person
not a susie homebody lol
drive fast and well
great at problem solving
I absolutely need freedom in relationships and if my partner gets too close, cuddly or controlling...

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always willing to help others without needing any gain
hate flamboyancy
like my privacy

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I think all of those traits are easily explainable without having to add something to your chart that isn't there. You STRONGLY come across as Leo ascendant, and I haven't really noticed anything aquarian in your posts. The Leo/Taurus/Aries combo is quite fitting, and I don't know why you have such a great need to be labelled aquarian? Are you maybe trying to emphasise these traits because you're trying to convince yourself of you being emotionally a good match to the Leo/Aqua guy? And are you trying to tell yourself you're actually just as detached as he is, and that his aloofness doesn't bother you one bit? Because in your posts about him, you definately don't come across as someone perfectly comfortable with detachment, but quite to the contrary. It sounds like you're having a hard time settling for what he's offering to you right now, and are trying to change(well, that might be too strong a word. Adjust?) yourself to this "I don't care, see how I'm as detached as he is!"person, even though your true feelings are clearly shining through. I suggest you talk to him about this sooner rather than later, otherwise you'll just end up writing a million more posts to this and other astrology boards asking people to tell you what he thinks of you.
And no, you don't need to have strong Uranus influence on your chart in order to need detachment, freedom and personal space in your life and relationships!
And I'm sorry I've kind of combined my replies to your different threads instead of replying to just this one. And again, if my conclusions sound insane to you, just ignore them.

By the way your new, dark hair looks gorgeous

posted November 09, 2008 02:41 PM              

and l don't care if this Leo guy is right for me or not. I'm a very chilled out and cool person who really doesn't give a damn about these things but l just would like to know for me, and l really appreciate your help in this cos it's so maddening not knowing

The interesting thing is that in real life l don't seek attention and l really don't like people knowing anything about me, it's weird. I'm happy to be a Leo AC because my mum is a triple Aquarian and so we have enough in our family

Yeah, my hair looks better... never ever did anything to myself before l dyed my hair 3 yrs ago. ill get round to having my ears pierced one day too lol

Most people say i'm aloof. The guy thing is not so much me not being able to handle it, it's more of a case of "oh **** , this is not exactly what l want so what do l do now!"

I have no idea why l have come across as having to convince myself of anything cos l have unswerving belief in me - maybe my aries moon freaks out at my un-phased attitude? My ex husband always accused me of being cold and aloof, distant and unemotional.
If l am Leo then l don't dress like a leo. I usually spot leo's cos they always look so dressed up, drowning in jewelry and immaculate with manicured nails, every hair in place and a bit loud and "look at me"
which is totally not me !!!!