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Topic: Are all Libras fence-sitters?
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funnyface
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posted November 09, 2008 08:26 PM
 
My ex decided that he wanted to be friendly with me again. Sent me an email, called me when I did not write back immediately, then called once again two days later, very politely asked for some photos and promised to send me his. I sent mine, that is the end of him calling up. He wrote to say he has to dig up his pics and will catch up soon. That was 2 weeks ago. I wrote to ask him what happened to his promise of pics. SILENCIO.
He is a Libra, 2nd Oct born. I am stupid to believe him, he hurt me bad first time, why did I even hope that this time it would be any different. Trouble is I still love him.I have been hoping that this would be something good, it has been a bad year for me. My dad was diagnosed with prostate cancer and I went through hell, worrying and hoping that it had not spread anywhere. Could anybody take a look at my solar return chart and see if next year would be a good one?
I am 22 Nov 1971 born in Bombay, India 2.19pm.
Thanks a ton folks. IP: Logged |
anek
Newflake Posts: 0
From: mumbai, india
Registered: May 2009
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posted November 16, 2008 02:47 AM
why wud he suddenly need your pictures ? and he not getting back to you shows he is a bit selfish
i can say that transiting saturn will be exaclty squaring your natal venus early next year, your natal venus and mercury are conjunct in the ninth house, mercury rules your 7th house of partnerships and marriages so just be a bit cautious in partnershipsIP: Logged |
Thethirdbenjamin
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posted November 16, 2008 03:36 AM
I've been wanting to ask the same question also.I work with three libras, I was assigned to another team to help speed up a project being run by a libra, Just like your picture problem he's part of the reason why I'm there, the project was suppose to be done a long time ago. IP: Logged |
bunnies
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From: u.k
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 16, 2008 03:59 AM
Oh God yes!!!IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted November 16, 2008 04:07 AM
until an Aries comes along and pushes them off with frustration... Yes!IP: Logged |
funnyface
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posted November 16, 2008 07:06 AM
God Anek,
U asked the same Qs that I had in my mind, why do u want my pics? I did not ask him, becoz of my scorpio pride which does not allow me to call him and show that I need him. I did ask him for his pics in return when I sent mine and he does not even have the courtesy to send his.
I just can;t figure him out, he acts all interested and then blows cold, Stupid man.
With the Saturn square in 2010 will things be bad for me, love wise or any other way?IP: Logged |
Kick It
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posted November 16, 2008 10:40 AM
No, all Libras are not fence-sitters.IP: Logged |
Lavlee
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From: Yes
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted November 16, 2008 11:04 AM
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funnyface
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posted November 16, 2008 11:24 AM
I respect the fact that Libras weigh both sides of the argument before making a decision. But this guy weighs and weighs and does nothing about it. He is almost 40 and he still has "intangible doubts". I told him that if he can't even articulate what his doubts are, he needs a lesson in thinking. He heads a team of 20 people, I wonder how he even manages to get anything done if he is gonna just think and think and not do anything. GRRR, he gets my goat everytime.IP: Logged |
Lavlee
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From: Yes
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted November 16, 2008 12:02 PM
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Azalaksh
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From: New Brighton, MN, USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 16, 2008 12:39 PM
Does anyone see the ridiculousness of asking things like "are all Libras fence-sitters?" or "are all male dancers gay?" Why do astrology students try to drape some personality trait over 600,000,000 (1/12th of the world population) other people?? Many personalities of all zodiac signs weigh conflicting ideas or situations to decide which is best for them -- to make a choice. If the choice is, A Rock or A Hard Place, the choice probably won't be made until they are pushed externally by one side or the other, or make the choice of not making a decision either way. Libra is a Cardinal sign of Leadership. Most of the Librans I know are in positions of responsibility, supervisory positions, where they must make decisions. An immature Libran who hasn't learned how to choose/weigh -- how to gather facts and make a decision in a reasonable length of time -- are the only Librans I might call fence-sitters. quote:
I told him that if he can't even articulate what his doubts are, he needs a lesson in thinking. He heads a team of 20 people, I wonder how he even manages to get anything done if he is gonna just think and think and not do anything. GRRR, he gets my goat everytime.
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he acts all interested and then blows cold, Stupid man.
If you are so upset by this man, then why don't you cut the cords and move on?? This man has issues that have nothing to do with you. He needs more time to mature, and learn how to treat people in his interpersonal relationships.In the meantime, why offend the rest of us Librans by asking/implying that we're all like your immature friend?? IP: Logged |
funnyface
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posted November 16, 2008 02:49 PM
Zala,
I am not implying or insulting any Librans, my apologies if they felt so. I am just asking about a trait for a certain sun-sign.
Fence-sitting is a term which is informally defined as "One who takes a position of neutrality or indecision, as in a controversial matter ". It is not a bad term and most libras are known as the diplomats of the zodiac because of this ability.
Some of my best friends are Libras and they agonize over simple things like which movie to go to and laughingly admit that it is a Libra thing that they can't decide.
It was not meant to be a very serious or insulting discussion, so pl. refrain from colouring it with your feelings.
If every student of astrology only asked sensible Qs, there would be no Qs to ask.
As for cutting him out, I have been trying to do that, he just keeps coming back when I least expect and my trouble is even after knowing his faults I still can't stop loving him. Guess the heart does not follow logic;-)IP: Logged |
savanna20
Knowflake Posts: 224
From: ca
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 16, 2008 03:56 PM
I'm Libra Rising and yes being indecisive is definitely a trademark of ours...most of my friends are libras and they're always unsure about making decisions...When I broke up with my ex, I was also unsure I wanted him back. Some days I did, some days I didn't...I couldn't decide...til this date I don't know if I really do... These are my typical Libra friends:
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funnyface
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posted November 16, 2008 04:07 PM
Hi Savanna,
LOL, it sure is a great pic. Love it.
Thanks for posting.IP: Logged |
DepTaurus
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From: canada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 28, 2009 12:08 AM
that picture is hilariouassIP: Logged |
Glaucus
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From: Sacramento,California
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 30, 2009 02:03 AM
I'd watch out for Libras whose Suns or other planets in Libra are in opposition to Eris. They could be more harder to deal with than Aries whose Suns or other planets in Aries are in conjunction to Eris.Al Sharpton has Sun in Libra opposition to Eris.
Raymond
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“It is absolutely the perfect name,” Dr. Brown said, given the continuing discord among astronomers and the public over whether Pluto should have retained its planetary status. In mythology, Eris ignited discord that led to the Trojan War. “She causes strife by causing arguments among men, by making them think their opinions are right and everyone else’s is wrong,” Dr. Brown said. “It really is just perfect.” http://www.nytimes.com/2006/09/15/science/space/15xena.html?_r=1 IP: Logged |
libraschoice7
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From: the city so nice they named it twice!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 30, 2009 02:47 AM
^^ Yep that would be me Eris in Aries(in 10th house) opposite Sun..only a pain in the butt when pushed too far. Most of the time I am pretty meek  IP: Logged |
Hana-Bi
Knowflake Posts: 68
From: Europe
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 30, 2009 02:33 PM
Savanna you said:
"I'm Libra Rising and yes being indecisive is definitely a trademark of ours"I agree with you Savanna. I'm Libra rising also. All angles are at cardinal signs.
I'm like the cat in the pic, many times I say "I dunno".
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