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posted November 16, 2008 02:24 AM         

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Yay! *grabs swirl's hands and jumps up and down* How are you going to spend your riches, girlfriend? I will buy jewels and soft, fuzzy socks. Ooh, and jewel-encrusted soft, fuzzy socks! Perhaps we should also buy Ray LaMontagne cd's and donate them to the (good-music) deprived.

I was sure she was an Aqua. I thought that b/c of 1). things she said (including her wonderment and analysis of her own emotions) and because 2). mblover, by posting this guessing game, thought there was something intriguing about the sign being expressed this way.

There was an element of performance art in her letter. I suspected a Leo Asc, but I see that's her MC instead. *palm to forehead* Of course!

I'd also thought Sco Moon, but the opp Taurus Moon makes more sense. Sco wouldn't have so freely shared her true feelings with someone who hurt her.

Interesting game. Free socks for everyone!

Oh, and I'm with Coral about the guy having strong Neptune. Definitely has something mutable going on as well. The girl is heavily fixed, and she might not understand someone more fluid.

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posted November 16, 2008 04:27 AM         

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well I'm happy with 10k for that. I'm a total novice and just picked a load of signs just for the fun of it.

Well done everyone!

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posted November 16, 2008 10:07 AM         

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'Perhaps we should also buy Ray LaMontagne cd's and donate them to the (good-music) deprived. '

Haha Jane, good idea !

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posted November 16, 2008 01:14 PM         

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Here is the Guy's Chart.

WARNING - WARNING - IMPORTANT: I don't know his ASC..

But, I strongly believe his wide Moon - Neptune Conjunction creates a huge difficulty in expressing emotions on his own needs and desires..

And, there comes the Sun Conj. Saturn in Libra.. The man has one of the most complex relationships with his father.. His mom sacrificed because of the father during his childhood and he always feels that Saturn block inside him on any or everything he does..

His Silence in this situation seems to be because of that Saturn Block and Moon Conj. Neptune.

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posted November 16, 2008 02:49 PM         

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Interesting - can I ask about the father relationship? Is it complex because it's in libra or because of the conjunction?

I have sun conjunt saturn too and both are conjunct my asc - all in gemini. My relationship with my father is 'strained' to say the least. Sun is in my 12th and saturn is in my 1st. I've always wondered about this as I have troubles figuring out who I am at times! I feel like I was swapped at birth or something. Would welcome any thoughts on this (or do I need to start a fresh thread??)

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posted November 16, 2008 02:50 PM         

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Oh, meant to say that saturn is opposite neptune (and my sun) too. I keep feeling this is significant somehow, but I don't know how

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posted November 16, 2008 07:44 PM         

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Sad situation for the both of them.

edit - lol, that was supposed to be a sad face on top. I'm not that sadistic to grin widely at other people's pain. I may chuckle evilly for a second...

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posted November 17, 2008 11:31 AM         

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The guy's following aspects are important as well..

Merc in Scorpio - Silence

Venus Conj Uranus in Sco - Unpredictability

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posted November 17, 2008 05:54 PM         

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Yes sun and mercury are in a Cancerian house and the moon is in a Libra house. She also has a bit of Pisces going on and nit picky Virgo & Leo MC. Interesting a couple of days after I posted I was toying with the idea of some Aqua because I know a couple of Aquas that are emotional train wrecks(cancer rising). I've found that some air signs are really good at writing and communicating their emotions even more dramatically than water signs. Water signs sometimes come off cool and are not always good at expressing emotions if there is a lack of air.

Thanks for the game!

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posted November 17, 2008 07:17 PM         

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the chart looks so familiar!
Mb - is the man in question still with her, or loyal to her (sun conj saturn)?
I surmise he probably sent you the note!

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posted November 17, 2008 09:41 PM         

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Atlenta,

The guy is on silence mode.. talked 2 months ago only for 15 or so mins for a nice talk..

There was really no break up because both were Airy enough to give each other space but space turned into a gap and into an unknown ununderstandable break up situation.

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posted November 17, 2008 09:59 PM         

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I don't think this 'pseudo' relationship between them will really end. If anything, the girl was vocalising _his_ feelings that he projected unto her without saying it.

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posted November 17, 2008 10:33 PM         

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I don't know if you guys will believe me..

But the Aqua sun-merc + Scorpio mars friend I mentioned earlier, a guy with Libra sun, Scorpio venus sort of broke her heart too
In fact I observed some of her post break up behaviour during that phase. How weird is that.

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posted November 18, 2008 08:35 AM         

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swirl, I believed you as soon as you posted the answer. She is a very good friend of mine. She dated several men but can't find that type of connection anymore.

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posted November 18, 2008 10:15 AM         

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the thing is, does that guy feel the same about her, considering it may evoke the same feelings in others, and considering the silence he metes out leaves gaps that makes her guess and fill in everything?

Her chart is a loose bundle, his is a tight bundle. So his area of focus in life would be slightly narrower.

Basically it isn't a real relationship without communication (more like fantasy).

I believe you too, swirl-kitt. I guess both of them have good friends to hear them out, else its called 'implosion'.

And I think since he seems so scorpio, one part of his stellium must sit in the 8th house. Most likely the sun-saturn stellium, which makes him Pisces rising (especially if he is considered smaller build [petite?]). Oh, and that unaspected mercury!

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posted November 18, 2008 02:26 PM         

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grandmothermoon - I Suggest a new thread. He has seenmany hard things in life in childhood and father is controlling and detached. In my view, the man has struggled with depression due to that Sun/Saturn effects and has found it very hard to remain close to his Core Libra Soul.

jane - LOL. Yes I know it was supposed to be a sad face. You are the Master. You know me quite well. So, it helped you BTW, how is your SUV doing?

Kat - agree with you. Very nicely said.

Atlenta - Nicely said. I agree. The Aqua woman wants to keep 'pseudo' relationship. I also agree that he seems to be scorpio on the outside. And, 8th house stellium is a good possibility. But, the further review shows that the silence and withdrawal is not new. They were never committed. Also, his actions have no revenge quality. He remains rather charming and Sag. Moon type man in person. So, I am keeping it open for further interpretations.

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posted November 20, 2008 10:31 PM         

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yeah these moons are not very compatible. I had guessed something air because the way the letter reads to me is actually not very emotional, and it reads as someone who has control over her emotions but just not in this moment. Like momentary crazy, but underneath that is a stable heart.

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