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Mysticr
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posted November 13, 2008 06:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mysticr     Edit/Delete Message
My friend is dating this guy who was practically stalking her before they started going out. But my friend is very needy and vulnerable and so has gone head first into a relationship with him.

I've met him once and he comes across as aggressive and secretive, but I'd like to know more about him astrologically speaking. Also, he's currently going through a divorce - his wife was the petitioner.

I'm concerned about my friend's safety. She says she's loved up at the moment but I think he is the wrong guy for her. Can you tell me more about him and if they potentially have a love that can last?

I'm hoping I am wrong about him and things do work out because she really doesn't need any more trouble in her life right now.


HIS DOB is 14 March 1976, Edinburgh, Scotland, 10pm (my friend's is lower down)

Sun Pisces 24°27'18 in house 5 direct
Moon Virgo 7°28'01 in house 10 direct
Mercury Pisces 8°49'39 in house 4 direct
Venus Aquarius 29°50'48 in house 4 direct
Mars Gemini 28°26'04 in house 8 direct
Jupiter Aries 27°24'14 in house 6 direct
Saturn Cancer 26°10'44 in house 9 retrograde
Uranus Scorpio 6°40'01 in house 1 retrograde
Neptune Sagittarius 13°58'17 in house 2 stationary (R)
Pluto Libra 10°47'05 in house 11 retrograde
True Node Scorpio 13°38'11 in house 1 retrograde

Ascendant Scorpio 2°39'00
2nd House Scorpio 29°45'30
3rd House Capricorn 5°42'21
Imum Coeli Aquarius 16°58'27
5th House Pisces 20°30'53
6th House Aries 14°48'10
Descendant Taurus 2°39'00
8th House Taurus 29°45'30
9th House Cancer 5°42'21
Medium Coeli Leo 16°58'27
11th House Virgo 20°30'53
12th House Libra 14°48'10

Major aspects
Sun Square Mars 3°59
Sun Trine Saturn 1°43
Moon Opposition Mercury 1°22
Moon Opposition Venus 7°37
Moon Sextile Uranus 0°48
Moon Square Neptune 6°30
Moon Sextile Ascendant 4°49
Mercury Trine Uranus 2°10
Mercury Square Neptune 5°09
Mercury Quincunx Pluto 1°57
Venus Trine Mars 1°25
Venus Sextile Jupiter 2°27
Venus Trine Ascendant 2°48
Mars Sextile Jupiter 1°02
Mars Trine Ascendant 4°13
Jupiter Square Saturn 1°14
Jupiter Opposition Ascendant 5°15
Uranus Conjunction Ascendant 4°01
Neptune Sextile Pluto 3°11

HER DOB is 3 July 1978, Maidstone, England, 11:15am

Sun Cancer 11°07'49 in house 10 direct
Moon Gemini 19°23'53 in house 10 direct
Mercury Leo 0°50'04 in house 11 direct
Venus Leo 20°02'38 in house 11 direct
Mars Virgo 10°52'16 in house 12 direct
Jupiter Cancer 16°14'34 in house 10 direct
Saturn Leo 27°27'49 in house 12 direct
Uranus Scorpio 12°27'12 in house 3 retrograde
Neptune Sagittarius 16°17'17 end of house 3 retrograde
Pluto Libra 13°55'17 in house 2 direct
True Node Libra 0°26'50 in house 1 retrograde
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.

Ascendant Virgo 19°39'24
2nd House Libra 12°17'51
3rd House Scorpio 11°11'57
Imum Coeli Sagittarius 16°31'50
5th House Capricorn 23°17'44
6th House Aquarius 24°32'38
Descendant Pisces 19°39'24
8th House Aries 12°17'51
9th House Taurus 11°11'57
Medium Coeli Gemini 16°31'50
11th House Cancer 23°17'44
12th House Leo 24°32'38

Major aspects
Sun Sextile Mars 0°16
Sun Conjunction Jupiter 5°07
Sun Trine Uranus 1°19
Sun Square Pluto 2°47
Moon Sextile Venus 0°39
Moon Opposition Neptune 3°07
Moon Trine Pluto 5°29
Moon Square Ascendant 0°16
Venus Trine Neptune 3°45
Mars Sextile Jupiter 5°22
Mars Sextile Uranus 1°35
Mars Square Neptune 5°25
Jupiter Trine Uranus 3°47
Jupiter Quincunx Neptune 0°03
Jupiter Square Pluto 2°19
Jupiter Sextile Ascendant 3°25
Neptune Sextile Pluto 2°22
Neptune Square Ascendant 3°22

Thanks

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GemLover
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posted November 13, 2008 03:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemLover     Edit/Delete Message
Could you post the charts? Most people find it easier to have something to look at.

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Happy Dragon
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posted November 25, 2008 05:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Happy Dragon     Edit/Delete Message
~ Mysticr ~

.. I looked at the Pisces sun chart when this was posted ..
as far as .. **I've met him once and he comes across as aggressive and secretive**
well i didn't save the chart .. i took one look .. saw a couple of nasty-ish aspects ..
didn't say n'owt cause if some 'doom and gloom' astrologer saw my chart ..
i'd hate to think what they might say ( 'keep away' most likely :-) ..
and one can look at the charts of serial killers ..
and see nothing apparently dubious or threatening ..

however what IS about to happen in his chart ..
be ~ transiting Uranus conjunct natal Sun ~
probably 'building up' now ..
first 'exact' hit is April '09 .. then September '09 .. then Feb '10 ..
( i've not looked at anything else .. transit or progression wise )

one possible manifestation of that transit is 'temper tantrums' ..
( probably more apt for any sign that dislikes 'change' )
and suffice to say 'ME' will be probably more important to him than 'WE' during that transit ..

the transit might give him a difficult time if he likes to be in control ..
Uranus is pretty good at upsetting the status quo ..

some very basic info here re Uranus transits ..
~ http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/009074.html ~
and here ..
~ http://www.cafeastrology.com/uranustransits.html ~

here's some info on Pisces Sun ( if you've not seen it ) .. note the 'shadow' side ..
~ http://www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/jkbx/sign.pisces.html ~

looks like he will be dealing with transiting Saturn opposing his Sun as well ..
mainly next year .. ( '09 )

** who was practically stalking her before they started going out. **
he has been going thru a Pluto transit .. it first squared his Sun ..
then opposed his natal Mars .. ( only 4 degrees separate those two natals ) ..
that transit looks to be past now ..
~~~~~~~~~~~~~

( edited to add )
btw: re ** he comes across as aggressive and secretive **
that Pluto transit would have lasted from at least the begining 2005 till now ..
( Pluto only recently went direct ) ..
and in itself could possibly account for that type of behaviour ..
i.e. as it hit on his 'sun square mars' natal aspect ..

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sonah22
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posted November 26, 2008 10:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sonah22     Edit/Delete Message
He has a couple of cusps (29 Venus, 28 Mars) and Uranus in the 1st in Scorpio, so that might be why he seems a bit restless/aggressive and intense. With Moon opp merc and venus and square neptune, there could be some problems with him seeing his emotions clearly, and mars square Sun could create unnecessary aggression. That Virgo moon could also indicate a patient planner who might be calmer in the background than he appears. And Mars in 8th- very aggressive in sexual matters and could also be passive aggressive since 8th house is the house of secrecy, obsessions, death and sex. Jupiter Square Saturn- restlessnes between optimisim and depression. But this can be dealt with internally since its a square...

HOWEVER, I had a Pisces Sun/Virgo Moon/Scorpio Asc. friend with a problem of how the world viewed her- as more emotional and erratic than she actually was. Her Virgo moon was actually very stable, but she always overwhelmed people with her intensity, and I met her when she was 34, so this "problem" was permanent and there's not much she could do. And she tended to get obsessed with love, and her relationships were intense, but long lasting, and she was good at nurturing them. She was overall a very good person. This guy also has Mercury and Venus in 4- he thinks about building a home a lot, and he has pleasant connections to home. And sun in 5- romantic, creative type. And Venus Sextile Jupiter could be luck in love and an optimism about it.

These are the very general "good" and "bad" conclusions I can make so far. I also have many moon squares and neptune oppositions, so I think these can all be good or bad. You would have to go to a really good astrologer who can calculate the closeness of these aspects and any configurations that can indicate violence.

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