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posted November 17, 2008 04:33 PM            

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They say this is the glue that binds a relationship. Well how do you get away from that when you cut a person lose..

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posted November 17, 2008 05:08 PM            

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Well you can and you can't. I have an ex-boss that I quite liked overall and I had hard Saturn synastry with. I still think about him a lot and it's been seven years since I last worked with him. Saturn is the insoluble glue, that's why families and long-term relationships have this stuff.

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posted November 17, 2008 05:11 PM              

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I agree.

You can even get those people out of your life, but somehow you can`t get them off your mind completely.
At least that has been my experience.

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posted November 17, 2008 05:13 PM            

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It's hard. With my ex, I had good Sun-Saturn, mercury, venus and mars and I just couldn't let go of him...

Bad aspects with him: Saturn-moon, saturn saturn, and saturn jupiter.

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posted November 17, 2008 05:14 PM            

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So is it like that for both ppl..

I do get that, out of your life thing but somehow stays on the mind thing..

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posted November 17, 2008 05:15 PM            

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It's very much for both people.

I also had a Mars (me) square Saturn (her) aspect with a co-worker. We really disliked each other. She still lingers in my memory, it's been more than 4 years now and I've moved cities etc.

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posted November 17, 2008 05:55 PM            

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Can't live with them, can't live without them...

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posted November 17, 2008 06:06 PM            

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It makes me think of U2's song:

"With or without you, with or without you; I can't live, with or without you..."

You're right Savannah.

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posted November 17, 2008 06:15 PM            

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oh i'm secretly glad the guy suffers just as much!

or is it the saturn person only who suffers?

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posted November 17, 2008 06:17 PM            

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Both suffer. Mars is hurt and feels rejected and leaves. Mars feels angry because they can't get in. Saturn is hurt because it is abandoned and doesn't understand why it feels so sensitive, it can't let its guard down.

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posted November 17, 2008 07:09 PM            

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I hope this doesn't happen. I'm at a point where I could make a decision to either continue or leave a very Saturn influenced relationship (both in synastry and composite)

I'm really not sure what's best.

These are the aspects:
His Saturn conjunct my Sun
My Saturn trine his Sun
both ^ within a 0' orb
Saturn trine Saturn
My Saturn trine his Jupiter
His Saturn square my Moon
:edit: forgot, we also have - My Saturn square his Venus.

In composite: Saturn trine Sun, Saturn trine Pluto (they are in a grand trine)
Saturn square Mercury, Saturn square Uranus, Saturn sextile Moon, Saturn sextile Neptune.

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posted November 17, 2008 08:38 PM            

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I'd think what Saturn from past relationship left is a critical tool to make present and future relationships more fruitful, one could never be a better oneself without it.

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posted November 18, 2008 03:40 AM            

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I have several Saturn aspects with a man I mentioned in another thread.

His Mars/Saturn trines my Mars, Uranus and ascendant, and squares my Jupiter/Pluto. My Saturn trines his Venus/Jupiter and squares his Mercury (widely ~ his Mercury is conjunct my Mercury).

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I agree.

You can even get those people out of your life, but somehow you can`t get them off your mind completely.
At least that has been my experience.

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This has been my experience, too.

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posted November 18, 2008 05:19 AM            

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Actually I agree with all of you and I see saturn nearly all in my important relationships.
But there are some exceptions.

The virgo guy I dated last winter,we have important sat.aspects.
It was not only a very short term relationship(lasted 2 months)but also it didnt stay in my mind..
New relationships for both of us began as soon as ours ended.
He is planning to get married with his gf nowadays..I heard it from a friend.

I really forgot how he looked like we liked eachother it was a good relationship but it ended and I got over it in 2 days.
I cant explain it with this saturn theory.
our saturn aspects
my sat squ his venus
my sat squ his mars
his sat.conjunct my asc.
Well these aspects are binding enough I guess,but they didnt work for us

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posted November 18, 2008 06:54 AM            

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definitely very very hard to break... even when you SO know you should...

with a guy I knew & still can't escape nor him escape me....

my saturn opposes his sun merc and pluto, sextiles his saturn and trines his neptune and AC... his saturn opposes my neptune and AC (by 3 mins!) trines uranus, pluto and MC; conjuncts NN, and sextiles chiron.

oh and to top it all our vertex are conjunct at less than 1 degree arrgggghh

he would drive me mental if I allowed him to...he nearly did last year :-(

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posted November 18, 2008 07:02 AM            

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having just looked at my last relationship we had lots of saturn links also, buts its a different scenario, I do think of him often, as we were very very good together until he did a u turn, but i think its easier as he no longer contacts me at all... can't say if it would be different if he did, i think probably would be harder. We have no vertex contact though so perhaps that says something..

saturn links certainly but in addition to something else for the real "will u stop occupying my head" relationships

melanie

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posted November 19, 2008 07:08 PM            

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Hi, when I saw this post I immedietly thought about a guy I was "involved" with that I'm having a hard time forgetting.

I have moved on by all appearances and have dated quite a few other people, and he has been dating a girl of a little more than a year (which we ended because he found her) and I'm having a tough time still thinking about him. It doesn't hurt really anymore, and I don't do all the things you do when you're getting over someone (like check his facebook, horoscope, etc) but still I think about him and sorta miss the connection we had. Could someone possibly explain to me why on earth I still feel this way after all this time? I have been hestitant to actually post this but I thought what the heck lol. Please help me. Thanks.

His Dob: 12/1/86, born 7:53 pm in Baltimore, MD
My Dob: 7/3/85 born 5:34 am in Bellflower, Ca

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posted November 20, 2008 11:25 AM              

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Take off his ring Saturn will be naked without his ring.

I am beginning to see the drudgery of a Saturn bond too, especially when it's past it's expiry date.

"NOOOO!! Let me goooooooooooooo!!!!!"

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posted January 05, 2009 11:37 AM              

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Saturn can be very, very clingy. That's what I've noticed.

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posted January 05, 2009 09:11 PM            

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how so? what have you noticed?

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posted January 06, 2009 10:30 AM              

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I know it in my case (many people don't like to admit their role as Saturn). My friend and I have Venus opposition Saturn as well as Saturn in the seventh. I'm Saturn, he's Venus. Whenever we're together, I only stick to him. I depend on no one else. There can be thirty other people in the room, but I don't care. I don't pay attention. Honestly, I subconsciously think when someone enters the picture and tries to join our conversation, they should seriously leave. That person feels my energy and scrams.
I don't feel romantic about it, but Saturn to me means business. I'm serious about the other person, whether he be my father, my teacher, my friend, or whatever. It's sort of a 'what's mine is mine' sort of thing. Reminds me of Taurus. Saturn can be mighty possessive, even limiting the social life. That's from my experience.

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posted January 06, 2009 10:51 AM              

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I'll tell you another instance where Saturn was prominent in synastry. This one has a different taste.
Between me and this girl, there are several Saturn ties between our charts. Venus conjunct Saturn is one of them. There's no clinging, no limiting, none of that. I haven't even told her I like her, yet I've liked her for many years. All there is is admiring from afar, thinking about her, feeling almost like I can't touch this thing. There's a whole lot of respect involved, as well as some hesitancy and worry. I don't know why I can't move foward with it and reveal how I feel. Maybe it's best to wait a little longer. Wait 'till I'm mature and ready.
Some Saturn ties take YEARS to unfold. Saturn, after all, rules time.

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posted January 06, 2009 02:44 PM            

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So with the girl, your saturn conjs her venus? Thats how you feel about her? How interesting. Im sure she has not an ounce of a clue how you feel.
Thanks for sharing.

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posted January 06, 2009 03:32 PM            

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ah I hate Saturn right now and I sooo saturnian lol

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posted January 06, 2009 04:30 PM              

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Saturn can hide their love for another person quite well.

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