posted December 04, 2008 06:41 PM         

a former thread of mine got killed due to the technical problems lately - so I am trying anew: How would you people (especially the guys!!!) would pursue a person - or like to be pursued - in love matters when natally you have VENUS in SCORPIO and/or MARS in VIRGO?

How's your flirt-style, how much "intensity" and "sexuality" do you crave or apply when you're attracted to someone or even in love? What repells you? What kind of woman is your type? How self-confident may a woman be in order to get your affection? Or do you prefer the shy, remote ones? Are you rather into "romance" or do you prefer the more dirty "nitty gritty"?

Since Scorpio is sexual, but fixed - and since Virgo is "earthy" and "brain-driven" ... I imagine that this combo makes a person a bit cautious, but loaded with taboo-thoughts...?

Some sketches from "real life" experiences would be very appreciated!;-)

posted December 05, 2008 12:39 AM         

Ok. my flirt style...i'm a bit shy but i'm intense, though i always let them come to me. i find ways to attract them... body language and eye contact do wonders..

I banter only if i'm very comfortable with them, and i don't touch unless they touch me first. My friends have pointed out to me that when i like someone my entire attention is focused on them, and i don't drop their gaze until they answer me. I crave the highest levels of intensity when i'm in love, but i feel more comfortable if it's the other person showing it and me responding.

Example : (them) "i miss you so much. I NEED to see you, like i don't mean to sound like an obsessed guy but i love you...like so much" (lol quote on quote from my scorpio ex) -my response " i knoww, and don't worry i'd rather that than you not be interested. I love you to the moon and back!"

When i feel they're distant or im unappreciated though,i shut down and come off frigid- cause im protecting my feelings.
But i'm never sexually frigid, my libido is way higher than normal but i hide it well.
If a guy starts making suggestive remarks to me early on i put off sex because i have a fear that he's going to do me then abandon me. Once were started though i wear them out. :P

What repells me is mean, underhanded, unreliable, deceitful, opportunistic, sleazy, selfish, stupid, emotionally shallow, unemotional, cold, stagnant, dispassionate, wimpy, no follow through, asexual, violent, unkept, hyper, boisterous, self centered, attention ****** .

My type is Mr.blend-in, but inside he is different than the others. I have a thing for jocks, like the tough guy's-guy who's a deep, sweet, softie underneath. I like guys who are caring,dominant, reserved and mysterious. Their eyes have to be deep & gentle. They have to be intelligent, reliable, trustworthy , loyal, kind, passionate, intense, emotionally in-tune, and strong. I'm also attracted to men who have hidden tempers, its dangerous- but what a show! especially since i can match it.

Honestly, i like shyness, i think it's adorable- but the guy has to carry himself with self-assuredness.

I think romance is fine but i have no need for candles and whatnot all the time. Wow me with simple sincerity and ill be yours forever. <3

you are so right when you said cautious but loaded with taboo thoughts! I'm very cautious in who i give my heart to, but where taboo thoughts are concerned... lets just say i conjured S&M up in my head before i even heard of it !

posted December 05, 2008 04:20 AM         

i have a cardinal square, and i think other aspects can influence things from one virgo mars to another, for me, i do stick to the description , i am not really a pursuer, i allways hide the signals that i fancy or wan't some one. i like intensity ,i like to be persued. i love good conversation, witty, although im not good at it my self, i like engaging into conversation before doing anything further. thanks venus libra.

my attraction, i can't put it down to one thing. i have a type, for diff types of people! lol. or i don't have a type atall. i like who ever i fancy, no matter how they dress or act, it doesn't matter to me if its a sexual attraction. if i wan't a relationship though, then yes it matters.

iv got pluto and eros in scorpio, and aquarius in psyche.

for me, looks don';t have to be amazing, i just need to be attracted to them, idealy though i don't go for the really loud type of girls who dress like a celebrity, i do kind of prefer the slightly less noticed ones.