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Topic: What is wrong with us??
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augentier
Knowflake Posts: 905
From: KS
Registered: Nov 2007
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posted December 08, 2008 01:15 AM
 
This guy and I have become such good friends in the past month, but we constantly argue and bicker over EVERYTHING. It's not always aggressive arguing but just..challenging everything we say to each other. We misunderstand each other a lot, too. He takes things too literally and I am too vague and fickle for him, I guess. We even argue during sex..how pathetic is that? What do you see in our synastry chart that would reflect this? It is really annoying. I am on the INSIDE.
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Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon Mercury:: Sagittarius
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BlueTopaz124
Knowflake Posts: 1517
From: Portland, OR
Registered: Jan 2004
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posted December 08, 2008 01:19 AM
Is your mercury in Sag? It's hard to tell on your chart...if so, your mercuries could be squaring each other if his is in Virgo.IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
Knowflake Posts: 751
From: processing destination......
Registered: Sep 2008
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posted December 08, 2008 03:11 AM
Blue Topaz, good observation!
I can't read aspects so much, but the square Mercury can be a major problem!
I was actually spending so much time looking at that 6th house traffic jam, and thinking how some kind of weird haggling was going on in there. lol.
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pearler
Knowflake Posts: 41
From: Australia
Registered: Dec 2006
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posted December 08, 2008 07:26 AM
I’d be looking at his pernickety Virgo mercury opposing your mars and this opposition is forming a T-square with the conjunction of his moon and your Uranus.
It’d probably be interesting to be a fly on the wall.
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Kick It
Knowflake Posts: 1084
From: Leeds
Registered: May 2008
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posted December 08, 2008 08:09 AM
The thing wrong with you two is arguing and bickering. You need to learn some stuff because you do all that BEFORE you have sex!
Not during!Communication problems is likely, but maybe something more. 3rd house is place to look at. Hey it seems alright.... same Moon/Venus/Uranus/Neptune/Pluto. He/she has Cancer rising, so does he/she come across as a Dad type? Remind you of your Dad at all? Yes, fly on the wall bit for me too please. Arguments during sex is out of the ordinary, so will need a detailed look to find the cause of the problem.  IP: Logged |
augentier
Knowflake Posts: 905
From: KS
Registered: Nov 2007
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posted December 08, 2008 11:41 AM
yeah my mercury is in Sag. our mercuries are squared you think this is it?? i've never dealt w/ a virgo mercury before and damn it's buggin me..he does have this parental tone with me. always saying "you should/shouldn't..." "why can't you..." etc.. ------------------
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AcousticGod
Knowflake Posts: 13907
From: CA, USA
Registered: May 2005
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posted December 08, 2008 12:17 PM
How about his Sun conjunct Mars squaring your Sun/Neptune, his Jupiter opposing your Sun/Neptune, and his Saturn is sitting on your Sun?  quote:
he does have this parental tone with me. always saying "you should/shouldn't..." "why can't you..." etc..
I could see where that might seem Virgoan, but it's probably Saturn. IP: Logged |
izodesmozina
Knowflake Posts: 1459
From: No longer under Pluto's jurisdiction. Yay!!
Registered: Oct 2006
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posted December 08, 2008 12:19 PM
His Virgo Mercury receives only hard aspects from your chart, he finds it difficult to talk to you and come to terms with your planets. The Mercury-Mars opposition is especially tricky. Me and my ex had a square and we argued a lot, it was really annoying. It is said to spice up your daily life, but I personally could have gone without that particular spice.
You guys need to be more patient with one another and really try to listen to what the other one has to say without jumping to premature conclusions. Learn a little tolerance, it is annoying but not impossible to live with this configuration. ------------------
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AcousticGod
Knowflake Posts: 13907
From: CA, USA
Registered: May 2005
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posted December 08, 2008 12:21 PM
I don't recommend keeping this one.IP: Logged |
enchantress299
Knowflake Posts: 245
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Registered: Dec 2007
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posted December 08, 2008 12:56 PM
His Mercury opposes your Mars (although it looks like it may be out of orb; I can't tell without the degrees)... That might explain the bickering in bed.  ------------------
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augentier
Knowflake Posts: 905
From: KS
Registered: Nov 2007
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posted December 08, 2008 01:47 PM
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I don't recommend keeping this one.
Yeah, the chemistry died (for me) once we became physical..so we decided to remain friends and we are good friends..but he is WAY more into me than I am into him. He keeps nagging, and asking questions, and trying to read into every little thing I say and do.. ------------------
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Lara
Knowflake Posts: 3373
From: London
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted December 08, 2008 01:56 PM
mars opposing mercury? IP: Logged |
Kick It
Knowflake Posts: 1084
From: Leeds
Registered: May 2008
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posted December 08, 2008 02:02 PM
Sounds like the flames have fizzle out. Same Moons seems pretty good compatability and ASCs in trine should be fine. Easy aspect.
Guess it is accurate if you keep it as friends. Not like it is a massive difference and big fall out.Hope it all goes well whatever happens.
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VirgOh
Knowflake Posts: 296
From: JC,NJ,USA
Registered: Sep 2008
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posted December 08, 2008 02:18 PM
I love to argue, it's like flirting to me lol.Mercury in Virgo. IP: Logged |
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