posted December 10, 2008 08:07 AM         

But the big three I would like to see in a man is:

~ good with kids or willing to try

~ kind and caring

~ capable of saying something intelligent or sensible or thought-provoking

Must be the Venus CNJ Mercury in Taurus in the 7th house.

I was going to say sensible, but then I have lived happily for rather a long time with someone who has a T-Square with Neptune at the apex, so to be scrupulously honest I can't really put that down. But sometimes I dream of it.

posted December 10, 2008 08:24 AM         

not too fussed on looks, aslong as i fancy them, thats all that matters. lol

as for the personality, well, i know what i want, but im feeling lazy to figure out how to say it lol..

intelligent is a must, not too moody, open minded, some one i can talk to about anything, intelligence and communication is one of the big things i need.

some one whos unique in some way, i don't want some typical grundge/emo/goth/wag/w.e style, i won't some one whos mature, dresses like an "adult" lol, acts like one. how they dress is kind of important to me, im not into glamor or attention seeking girls.

she cant be stuck up, she has to be kind a nice person, willing to work and be a little independant, virgo traits, there has to be some air in there somewhere for communication, aquarius/gemini/libra traits, i am not kean on too much emotion atall, but i do like a little, tiny bit of vulnerability, i enjoy helping people (cancer influences) but only to get them back on there feet not to nurture them there whole life or "look after them" 24/7.

earthiness for maturity would be appreciated.

she cant be too serious, or too humerous, a little ballance of both, but slightly in the favor of seriousness.

friendship /soulmate/ love is really important to me, i have to genuinely get along and really like them for who they are, not just fancy them sexually or one small aspect, and vice versa,.

intelligence is a must, cant be to loud or too social, not too anti social either.

a bit of scorpio to spice it would be nice!, and some fire to give her some edge, but not too much..

i could go on about the likes and dislikes for a long long time, but i really cba to state them, but hopefully what i have said gives an idea.

so what do you think? am i asking for too much? too picky? LOL.

my placements:

5th house sagittarius, 7th house/dc aquarius

mars & mercury - virgo

posted December 10, 2008 08:50 AM         

You don't ask for too much. You have your husband a bit different, than you wrote there.

posted December 10, 2008 08:53 AM         

I think, you should draw your perfect woman or make Natal Chart from her. Could you do that? Try!

There must be something in Virgo (your Mercury) to be picky.

posted December 10, 2008 09:01 AM         

Now, very short:

- I need a doctor to help me (most important), because I have pains
- Age is not important (40 +)
- He should speak French
- Any sign, but Ascendant Scorpio.

That is all. Very clear and very modest!

Doctor and French: ideal!

posted December 10, 2008 09:06 AM         

I am sorry: I didn't read all, just a bit and look what came there!

It is terrible weather and I feel terrible. In such a cases happens horrible mistake. It is good, I have moved man and wrote woman.

posted December 10, 2008 09:24 AM         

He has to be intelligent, witty, dry sense of humour and knows how to get my mind rolling. Gots to be mature in his out look in life, be confident with himself but not egotistical..i like a guy who is serious at the same time but can have a laugh, knows how to dress smart even casualy and not over doing it.

I like someone who is caring, understanding and sensitive but not sensitive or too emotional, has good sense of morals and values.

I don't like attention seekers to much or loud ones. Looks is important but no terribly important but it's the eyes on a man that does it for me.

I think Earth sign men or ones with alot of Earth influence do it for me the most with lets say a Mercury in Air and some Fire somewhere is always good just not too much.

posted December 10, 2008 09:30 AM         

Stop stop stop!

posted December 10, 2008 01:05 PM         

someone that knows me by heart, trusting me and that i can put all my trust in, connected so we can be away and still be together, gorgeous, sincere with everyone, who cries in front of the tv, stable, educated and deeply into sex and me (i mean emotionally)

patient, trusting, jealous, strong physically but soft inside, devoted, secretive with everyone else but me .... someone that will take care of me when i come back home in the evening after having killed many dragons. someone that makes life hard for me and pushes my limits so i always have to prove my undying love and that loves me back even more for that. someone that can kill the dragons which i couldn't. always supportive.

real love basically.

shall I book a room in a monastry? lol

astrologicaly speaking, the ideal knight has a pisces sun (me aqua), a cancer moon (me libra) and libra rising (me cancer). in fact he does exist, and we both have venus in pisces.

posted December 10, 2008 01:37 PM         

I once wrote a very long list of EVERY SINGLE THING I would want in a guy. It was quite extensive and I have changed my mind a lot, lol..so I will settle for..

-Great sense of humor (most important to me)
-Attractive (to me at least)
-Passionate in bed & about other things he loves..
-Loves me totally
-Intelligent and enjoys intelligent conversation
-Not religious
-Does not want children
-Likes to travel and experience new things
-Can stand up for himself, is not afraid to back down from a challenge, and sets goals for himself and works to achieve them.

That's what I'd love in a partner.

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Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon

posted December 10, 2008 01:57 PM         

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You don't ask for too much

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The longest lists are off single people, aren't they?

posted December 10, 2008 03:56 PM         

looks wise, i like them tall and skinny with some muscular definition. and they have to be model pretty =/ i feel kind of shallow sometimes, but if im not sexually attracted to them, i dont want to go on dates! (makes sense)

posted December 10, 2008 04:24 PM         

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(aside from Gaspard Ulliel, he is a Sagittarius).

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posted December 11, 2008 05:39 AM         

Thank you for nice words.

Unfortunately, I have bad Karma, so life is not very nice to me: wrong place, wrong everything.

Maybe I am punished for something?

Kind regards to you and UK,
Buena

posted December 11, 2008 07:16 AM         

- When I sit and stare out the window daydreaming, he will understand it. Many people get nervous and fill the silence with questions like "what are you thinking about? how are you feeling?? are you sad? you think too much!" - when I'm just enjoying the moment in my own little happy bubble... nobody gets this!

- He should love traveling and be as interested in experiencing new places like I am - flexible and alert, ready to move! He should be multi-lingual too!

- He has probably tried bungy-jump and/or skydiving. Or similar adrenalin stuff like that. I am a girl of no fears and I think a guy probably has to match that (maybe for his own sake of feeling "manly" enough).

- He should have some sort of music talent.

- Good taste in clothes!

- We should have lots of interesting conversations and lots of passion!

posted December 11, 2008 08:22 AM         

Being good with kids is important to me, so is being kind and considerate