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Topic: To Kaira: the Venus/Pluto aspect
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CoralFrequency
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posted December 14, 2008 07:17 PM
 
I was thinking in the other thread, your Venus/Pluto conjunction in Scorpio could be the reason you feel an identity loss. I know a Libra guy with the same conjunction and a Leo Moon. He went through similar things when he was younger. I have Venus opposite Pluto myself. Pluto restructures and changes any personal planet it touches. Sometimes it can feel like a part of you literally dies and then it is gradually reborn from the ashes. The phoenix is a Pluto symbol.
 Also, Venus is more significant in your chart since you are a Libra sun sign. Any relationship you enter (sometimes friends as well as lovers) tends to feel like you went on a rollercoaster only to find out you're in the middle of a horror tunnel. Occasionally you can feel betrayed. But even a small betrayal or mishap will turn your Pluto side on and you have the ability to completely cut the friend/lover off. Once you leave, you never go back. It's very final. You were saying you used to be extra social when you were younger. Venus as a planet is connected to all things social Maybe at that stage you hadn't had certain Plutonian experiences yet. My suggestion is that you don't beat yourself up about the way you are. I believe you simply want something deeper and meaningful from people. You no longer feel like forming flaky relationships and friendships. That is very normal of the Plutonian growing process. In time you'll find it was all for the better, because once you become more discriminating (Pluto sees right through people) you will draw friends in your life who are faithful and long-term and who genuinely (and not superficially) care about you. There may not be a dozen. But Pluto would prefer two or three good ones to ten superficial ones, anyway. IP: Logged |
Aste*risk
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Registered: Nov 2007
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posted December 14, 2008 09:40 PM
I went through that exact same phase. When I was really young I was very much an extrovert, but I did go through a stage where relationships with others was incredibly rocky. And now I only consider half that amount 'real friends' because I form 'real connections' with them. I can't stand having a relationship with someone because of superficial qualities. It literally drains me, and then I begin to not want to interact with that person. Libra Sun
Venus-Pluto conjunction in Scorpio. Relationships are the main theme of my life, it seems. I feel like I am unable to grow without them. So this has become a very important process for me.
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CoralFrequency
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posted December 16, 2008 05:13 PM
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kaira
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posted December 18, 2008 01:18 PM
CoralFrequency, thank you for this. what you said was absolutely true of how i am and how i used to be. and since you mentioned that i'm a Libra, ruled my Venus, and my Venus in Scorpio would sort of be amplified, its starting to make more sense what's the matter with me.and what you said that mayube i hadn't experienced Plutonian experiences when i was younger, that is true. i started to feel this way after i fell in love with a guy, over 3 years ago. i think that may have probably switched it all on and changed me for good, since now i'm much more discriminating, as you said, and mature. but i really wish i'd have that ease of forming just casual friendships that i used to once have in me. IP: Logged | |
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