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swirl-kitt
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posted December 15, 2008 05:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for swirl-kitt     Edit/Delete Message
I have met a few people who either had Taurus moon or venus or both, and I don't know what kind of coincidence this is, but they either said hurtful things to me, or behaved in a rude manner..

And I actually like these people All I did was to disagree with them and suddenly they became rude..

I'm not saying every Taurus moon/venus is like that, but I was wondering if anyone has ever had a similar experience and what could be the cause of this ? Isn't taurus a venus sign, although earthly and all ?

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posted December 15, 2008 05:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message
"All I did was to disagree with them and suddenly they became rude."

Let me be devil's advocate here (Gemini ) and suggest that maybe you triggered off the response in some way?

Either you unwittingly offended them or came over as aggressive ~ something on your chart

or

You aren't on the same wavelength in some way and it is all a misunderstanding ~ something in your synastry clashes i.e some placement on your chart makes a tense aspect to a degree range of Taurus

Do you have any Fixed planets? That could b ethe clue here.

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swirl-kitt
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posted December 15, 2008 06:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for swirl-kitt     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks Blue moon Well I'm a Scorpio sun and aries moon, but I'm thinking it's my libra venus maybe lol. Because I can't just say yes or no so when I disagree with someone, I go on and on about it so everything remains peaceful but it seems to confuse them somehow. Then they become rude

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posted December 15, 2008 06:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dazzled     Edit/Delete Message
Sounds like they would rather a direct 'yes' or 'no' not a 'well, it's because...that's why...'.

Vacillating might be discomforting to them, thereby provoking these onerous bulls.

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Lara
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posted December 15, 2008 06:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
yeah the father of my youngest has taurus moon and he is unbelievably rude!

to everyone, not only me so l do agree.

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Diandra23
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posted December 15, 2008 07:22 AM           Edit/Delete Message
im a taurus moon

Usually im very nice with people - i ony get rude or can say sth really to hurt when others who are very close to me...are evil to me or make me feel injusticed.

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buena36
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posted December 15, 2008 07:22 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Hi,

I have Taurus-Venus and I am not rude at all. Of course, if you don't attack me as a first but that is my Sun square Mars.

My friend, she has Taurus-Moon and she is very kind person.

There must be something else in the Chart.

Buena

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triplepisces
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posted December 15, 2008 07:56 AM           Edit/Delete Message
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so when I disagree with someone, I go on and on about it so everything remains peaceful but it seems to confuse them somehow

For a Taurus influenced, if you keep going on and on and on and on and on and on, imagine how they would react? Moreover, your Sun is in opposition with their Moon and Venus. (and both of you Taurus and Scorp want to win right ) What they find pretty and pleasant doesn't really go along with this...especially with your direct if not fiery Aries moon. Probably they felt ticked off first then fought verbally back. I don't know all the details here. A person's upbringing and tons of other things contribute also.

I have a Scorp friend whose moon is in Taurus Sometimes she throws out some biting/rude/wtv words but generally a peace seeker, not rude on the surface (trying to win every case at heart though ) Another one, Pisces with Taurus, told me he's been accused of being crude + having mean sense of humor. Yet to me he's just misunderstood.

What are their Mars+Mercury?

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Kick It
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posted December 15, 2008 09:27 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Nah, I dont buy it that a single Moon sign is an indication of being rude. Guess you knew I would say that.

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lalalinda
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posted December 15, 2008 09:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message
Dang,I have the Moon and Venus in Taurus

I really hate to be rude and I dislike it in others, but I can be.
I've learned to control it (pretty much) but
sometimes... pompous..people..make..me..CRAZY

Something in me just snaps

This irritation seems to be magnified when my Mars/Mercury square is simultaneously activated.
(My Moon is semi-squared both Merc/Mars, so it's at the midpoint)

It's definately been a struggle learning to understand and overcome the negativity that goes with it.

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26taurus
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posted December 15, 2008 09:49 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Rudeness is not something we specialize in or are known for. We dislike having to do it. But we can be blunt when needed - or pushed to be, especially by our persistant and often pushy opposite: Scorpio.

What we tend to say usually comes out short and sweet. The 'point' in a condensed nugget. If we have to, we'll say it short and sour. Water sign's own sensitivity often mistakes this for being "mean".

Your Scorpio Sun paired with an Aries Moon says it all.
hehe.

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26taurus
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posted December 15, 2008 09:56 AM           Edit/Delete Message
We're not rude! Youre just annoying!

j/k !!!!

(Taurus mercury slip)

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yellowmoon
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posted December 15, 2008 10:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for yellowmoon     Edit/Delete Message
I'm Taurus Moon and I just hate being rude to others. Really - I can't bear the thought of hurting someone just like that!I can be a real ***** :-D, though, when I'm irritated or provoked, but then, almost immediately I feel so bad that I just have to ask them to forgive me.

lol

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Lara
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posted December 15, 2008 10:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
LOL

my taurus sun/mercury, l will admit, can be annoying as hell.

In my life l have managed to really **** off the arian members of my family LOL

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savanna20
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posted December 15, 2008 02:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for savanna20     Edit/Delete Message
I'm a taurus moon, but I don't consider myself rude. I think people get the worst out of me when I lose my patience with them (when they are being rude themselves); that's when I'm rude.

But my libra rising balances it out.

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Love
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posted December 15, 2008 02:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Love     Edit/Delete Message
I have a Taurus Moon and know many people who are as well. Taurus Moons are more stubborn than they are rude. They will staunchly defend positions when it comes to feelings and this emotional defensiveness might be perceived by some as rude, I suppose. But I definitely wouldn't say rude at all.

I really think that the potential for rudeness cannot be found in a placement as general as one planet in one sign. The most generalizing I would do in this case is note the pattern that people with these Taurus placements trigger some aspect of your chart (like someone mentioned, your Scorpio Sun).

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posted December 15, 2008 08:20 PM           Edit/Delete Message
What others define as 'rude' is likely their perception of the lack of sensitivity in the Taurus-esque person.

Not being sensitive to others' needs isn't rude, it's just stating your truth and letting others take it as they will. Course, this is biased, coming from a Taurus sun.

I've experienced others' attempts to disagree with me, and in some scenarios, it was more like them pushing their beliefs on me and freaking out because I didn't feel the same way. When backed into a corner, I won't even consider other opinions, I will place my feet and not move until THEY back down.

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swirl-kitt
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posted December 16, 2008 01:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for swirl-kitt     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks for the replies

I don't know. I guess I will always keep expecting it from people with taurus moon/venus now I don't usually pull charts for random people but the next time someone is mean to me , I'll be wondering what their moon and venus are :P

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posted December 16, 2008 03:10 AM           Edit/Delete Message
i don't exactly get how venus is being interpreted this way? isn't it more of a preference-oriented planet? shouldn't you be looking to mars?

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triplepisces
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posted December 16, 2008 07:20 AM           Edit/Delete Message
yea lolz do you read the replies at all? rude might be because of Mercury (verbal) or Mars (action)

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posted December 16, 2008 07:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message
ditto triplepisces

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lalalinda
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posted December 16, 2008 08:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message
Hiya Peri

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Amber24
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posted December 16, 2008 01:32 PM           Edit/Delete Message
Hmmm, I have Mars in Taurus and if I'm being honest, lol, I do get rather rude/blunt if someone disagrees with me. I don't mean to, of course, lol, but such is Taurus.

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posted December 17, 2008 01:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MysticMelody     Edit/Delete Message
"What we tend to say usually comes out short and sweet. The 'point' in a condensed nugget."

YAAAAYYY good to know

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posted December 17, 2008 01:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for taurus/gemini cusp     Edit/Delete Message
Taurus Venus here. I am despicably polite. At almost all times. (I think that's more to do with my Britishness than my Taurean-ness!!!) However, if you blatantly tread on my toes, you'll be told where to go.....

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