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sammadeesam
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From: Sydney, Australia
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posted January 11, 2002 07:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sammadeesam     Edit/Delete Message
Me: 18 Feb 1972, 5:15pm Sydney, Australia
He: 23 Sept 1970, 8:00am London, UK

We have been together for 7 years - with a 2.5 yr separation due to existing on two different continents. Since we have been toether again, everything feels like a hardship - when we are apart I feel full of energy. I love everything almost about it, though i have no sexual desire for him at all. I have tried to change this - but I cannot lie through my body. Is there any lightening up of this relationship or does there seem to be consistent struggles.

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Randall
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posted January 12, 2002 11:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message
Welcome to the site!

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"It is never too late to become what you might have been." George Eliot

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Morning Storm
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posted January 16, 2002 10:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Morning Storm     Edit/Delete Message
Hi sammadeesam.

I took a quick look at your chart and there's no real sexual chemistry between the two of you in your charts together. Progressions may change that over the years, but it won't be lasting, as they will keep progressing. I'm not sure how to work past that given you don't have much in the way of communication, either. In fact, he probably stifles you quite a bit. I'm sorry sweetie, I see a lot of harsh aspects with the outer planets binding you together, but hardly anything helping you take those hits with Love aspects. I guess I have to ask what you get out of the relationship? It sounds like you've been doing some introspection, and you're on the right path by asking. I'd stay on that path and start searching and pondering over what makes YOU happy. When you figure it out, everything else will fall into place.

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Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.
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sammadeesam
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posted February 16, 2002 03:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sammadeesam     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks Morning Storm for your reply - i have made big changes since writing - my parnter and i have separated, moving out of the house, left work and have a completely new horizon to create upon....... it's a very whirly headspace, but it feel's so right!

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Morning Storm
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posted February 16, 2002 03:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Morning Storm     Edit/Delete Message

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Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.
--Rumi

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Morning Storm
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posted February 16, 2002 03:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Morning Storm     Edit/Delete Message
Oh guess what?! You won't believe this! As I sent that message, the song by Alabama, "Feels So Right" came on my stereo!

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Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.
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sammadeesam
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posted February 17, 2002 05:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sammadeesam     Edit/Delete Message
Alright!!!!!! The universe is a ONE-derful place!!

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Spiritua
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posted February 17, 2002 10:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Spiritua     Edit/Delete Message
Welcome to Lindaland, sammadeesam!

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Morning Storm
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posted February 17, 2002 11:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Morning Storm     Edit/Delete Message

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Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.
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