posted March 03, 2002 10:45 AM         

She's an acquarian 12th Feb (9:19pm Meerut, India) and Im a Pisces 5th March (3:56am, New Delhi, india).

There are quiet a few times when we misunderstand each other and interpret each other wrongly. There are many times when I dont know whats going on in her mind and there are times when she has no idea of what i might be going through. Ironically we both are known in our respective friend circles are known almost as mind readers and have this almost psychic like way of telling whats on the other person's mind. Both of us have people flogging us with their problems and we both are almost always the ear to people's worries and troubles. Of corse we both do that for each other all the time too...but ID like some insight from you guys as you obviously would be better informed than me on whats really going on here.

Thank you very much people.

posted March 04, 2002 03:25 PM         

I need her year of birth.

posted March 06, 2002 10:42 AM         

hers: 1982
mine: 1980

posted April 22, 2002 08:58 PM         

You might want to double check her birth data since it took three times to get it correct with yours.

posted May 22, 2002 11:33 PM         

Could you please make one of those report thingies and send them to me? They are a whole lot simper to understand as they give a better broader picture.

>You may doubt her intuition and stifle it.

I usually take her opinion when it comes to certain aspects like when it comes to the question of dealing with people who are of doubtful nature. She seems to have a knack for telling one's reliability rather well. In most other issues she seeks my opinion which is always more practical, simple and straight forward. We try to balance the decisionmaking between us - as we both have rather stubborn streaks. So compromise is something we have accomodated and are slowly getting used to.

>You underestimate each other and she may >feel like she's being judged unfairly by >you. She's more sensitive to that because >her ego is at stake, since it's her Sun.

I sometimes doubt her as she can be VERY UNPRACTICAL and DOWNRIGHT CLUMSY. My parents have gone on a weeks vacation to the south Indian state of Tamil Nadu. Me and gf are living together. She's new to cooking and Im always superwising her to make sure she doesnt accidently burn herself or cause a kitchen fire or something. The thing is that she has a mind that is HYPER ACTIVE all the time. Even when she sleeps...she has REGULAR dreams and has a dream even when she takes a nap! Her mind is always busy and its VERY hard for her to fully conecentrate on ONE thing and do it right. Focus, direction and concentration of efforts towards a single goal at a time is something thats she lacks.
She also lacks a lot of common sense and worldly wisdom which thank God I have in plenty. I was initially very impatient with her about this - but I've learnt that patiently making her understand things is far more effective than me blowing off my top and bellowing at the top of my voice everytime she messes up. Strangely enough she's far more reserved and less social than I am wheras Im the complete opposite and have a fairly vast circle of friends.

>You need to be a touch nicer, and she needs >to learn to not take things you say to >heart so much. You need to learn to trust >each other, too. Be nice! You have some >really sweet aspects to help you, if you >use them!

We both are diffrent people. Completely unlike the other. We both look at one thing and think diffrent things. Yeah she used to cry a lot...shes very very very sensitive. Actually shes over sensitive and she's aware of the fact that she is. Hey please elaborate on these sweet aspects.

posted May 24, 2002 01:19 PM         

Before I answer anymore of your questions, do me, your mate, and yourS-ELF a favor. Do a search for Indigo and read all the posts about it. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being hyperactive. I am hyperactive myself, and am thankful I chose to be this way. Also, read your message again with your 3rd eye open.

I don't get the cooking thing. If she hates to cook and isn't good at it, and you have to supervise, then why don't you just do the cooking, especially if it'll alleviate some of the stress and tension between you?? We all have our own special gifts and talents!

As an Aquarian, she has a natural ability to be sociable, but her Mercury Rx in her natal chart stifles that. Give her a lot of positive feedback when she's social and that will help. She's sensitive to negativity and icky energy, so if you're negative with her, she'll get tired of it and tell you to stuff it and walk out when you least expect it. Why don't you bring her here so she can learn and grow with the rest of us? It would be really great for her!

posted March 04, 2003 11:41 PM         

Noble and me just completed 2 years together. We both have had our ups and downs but the ups and downs have just mae us have a better understanding of each other.
Rest everything is fine.
Love to you all.