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Birdsong
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From: Kalamazoo Michigan
Registered: Aug 2001

posted March 28, 2002 11:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Birdsong     Edit/Delete Message
Dear Auriel,

A Long time friend of mine has gone off the wagon after 9 months.

It is imperative he get himself back together for medical reasons......

Right now Saturn is transiting his 11th

Uranus is opping his Pluto...and squaring his Saturn.
Uranus is also trining his Neptune...and he has Mars in the 10th...so that ability is there to retake control of himself.

That old Saturn /Pluto opp is on his 11th and 5th...and Chiron is transiting his 6th

I would be very grateful if you could look at this too and help me help him.

He is 7/16/56 kzoo mi...5:56 am

I knOw that physically it is caused by Delayed acute alcohol withdrawel syndrom....but I am hoping to get some insight as to what might be eating him from the inside that let him crumble.

Geez but this guy has a lot of water!..a lot of heavy hitters there...pretty even amongst the qualities.

Thanks hon.....it's not a love relationship...but it is a life time one.....

I inspired him to quit...and I feel a bit responsible for kicking him in the hind end right now.

If there's any way I could help him.......*sigh*

and

Dani

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Morning Storm
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Posts: 1778
From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: May 2001

posted April 01, 2002 01:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Morning Storm     Edit/Delete Message
Can't type much right now. Too painful. Calling surgeon in the morn. Will get to you asap, but will be awhile. Sorry, health first.

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To fall in Love, is to rise. . . .
~Upendra

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Birdsong
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Posts: 258
From: Kalamazoo Michigan
Registered: Aug 2001

posted April 01, 2002 07:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Birdsong     Edit/Delete Message
I wasn't worried!!!!

I knew your arm has been hurting.....take care of YOu!!!!

Dani

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Morning Storm
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From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: May 2001

posted April 08, 2002 07:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Morning Storm     Edit/Delete Message
I have been! That's why I haven't been around lately! Have a cast on again, but will be all right.

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To fall in Love, is to rise. . . .
~Upendra

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Morning Storm
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From: Columbus, GA USA
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posted April 24, 2002 03:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Morning Storm     Edit/Delete Message
Dani, where was he born?

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We are each of us angels with only one wing, and we can only fly embracing each other.
~Liciano De Crescenzo

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Morning Storm
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From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: May 2001

posted April 24, 2002 03:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Morning Storm     Edit/Delete Message
I used Kalamazoo and took a quick look at Neptune, since it's an outer planet and won't change much, if at all. Neptune rules addictions, drugs and alcohol. The thing that popped out at me first was Neptune conjuncting his Chiron, so it's karmic. It's also squaring his Neptune, so he may fight it. It won't be easy. He's going to need to dig down deep and find himS-ELF to accomplish it. Uranus is trining his natal Neptune, and that will help greatly. He can even find the path to enlightenment at this time!

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We are each of us angels with only one wing, and we can only fly embracing each other.
~Liciano De Crescenzo

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Birdsong
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Posts: 258
From: Kalamazoo Michigan
Registered: Aug 2001

posted May 07, 2002 10:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Birdsong     Edit/Delete Message
Hey stranger!!!!

K-zoo was the right birthplace....I appreciate you taking a look at it.

When I see him again....probably a couple of weeks or so....I'll tell him.

He would not meet my eyes last time.

sigh......

Everyone I knOw is having a hard time these days.

My head is exploding with all sorts of stuff to tell you......but it's too much to type!

I'm ok.......just over worked.

My lesson right now....is that 'It ain't all about me.'

Dani

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Morning Storm
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From: Columbus, GA USA
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posted May 22, 2002 10:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Morning Storm     Edit/Delete Message
How's he doing, Dani? Also, how are you doing??

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To fall in Love, is to rise. . . .
~Upendra

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Birdsong
Knowflake

Posts: 258
From: Kalamazoo Michigan
Registered: Aug 2001

posted June 15, 2002 02:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Birdsong     Edit/Delete Message
Hi there lady!

He's ok...sober again...we had a long long long talk...and he received his first astrology lesson.

He has everything he needs inside of himself to fight this and win...but it seems to me...this is it...it's now or never.

He was very relieved to find that the upheaveal he felt is universal right now...that this is his chance to win once and for all...he was quite angry at himself for falling off the wagon...the guy had been sober quite a while!

He's also good at the 'drink dance'....so I have not let down my guard......nor will I stop with those blatent questions to him.

It's most effective to be gross about hygene things that only happen to drunks...see every drunk thinks they are the only ones who have icky stuff happen in the bathroom...when you throw it out...(or is that up?) and say it...it blows them away....then they talk truth.

Virgo therapy ..."so, did you miss throwing up that first cup of coffee everyday? Isn't it fun to remember how good that feels?"

I can say it...because I lived it for so long.

Now...how am I?....that should be a whole 'nother thread....but frankly my dear...I'm just not that interesting.

......but maybe I will.....if only for the summary.... ...but I will get writers cramp....and you'll need a cup of tea!

Dani

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