posted April 15, 2002 05:52 AM         

I have been in a relationship with someone for the last 5 years. I was wondering if you could do our charts for us to give me an insight into what we need to do to make our relationship stronger & smoother because although it hasn't been a bed of roses, I just know that we're meant to be.

My birthtime- 30-7-77, 11.43 am(Pune India)
His birthtime- 14-11-74,12.10 am(Pune India)
I KNOW you're going to have good news for me! Thanx in advance.

Hello everyone else I've been through a few threads on this site and I couldn't help noticing how friendly and helpful you all are to newcomers. I guess thats why new people like me feel so comfortable registering!

Love,
Aquamoon

posted May 22, 2002 09:30 PM         

At the time you wrote your question, Saturn was conjuncting your Mars. Usually when this aspect is being used for the positive, you add confidence to any courage. You do what needs to be done. Hmm, I think you should think about that. Saturn was conjuncting his South Node at the same time, so it was karmic and you were helping him grow in some way, even if it was painful. It will teach him something. He may not realize what he was supposed to learn for years, but I assure you, it'll hit him someday.

The two of you are VERY different people. Your communication is good, though, so that will help with all those differences. Your Saturn squaring his Mars, Moon, Sun, Venus and Vertex is HARSH. Expect some really tough times with him when the transits hit that and set it off! During those times, it's better to realize it's not a good time to discuss serious issues! Delay them until you won't be saying things in anger, fear, and pain. The two of you were friends in your last life together, and came together to help each other again. Be nice to each other!