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Topic: TWINS NEED AURIEL'S HELP!
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Infinity
Knowflake Posts: 369
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Registered: Oct 2001
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posted May 16, 2002 09:58 AM
 
Dear Auriel,I wasn't going to ask you, because I know your wrist has been giving you a lot of trouble lately. Just think of all the Good Karma you will gain, if you will please, please help my Twin and I understand each other! My birth info is: 7/22/68, at 6:07 am, in Salt Lake City, Utah. His birth info is: 1/22/69, at 7:30 am, also in SLC. We are having some trouble, so anything you can give us will be greatly apreciated.
Please, take your time!  Thank you,
Infinity  ------------------
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Nephthys
Moderator Posts: 889
From: California
Registered: Oct 2001
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posted May 16, 2002 12:13 PM
Infinity ~ Pardon me for intruding, but your birthday is the same day as my Cats, Yoda & Tigre'!!!!!  (Tigre' is the one who recently went to the Other Side)There's also another Knowflake who sometimes comes here who has the same birthday. (I don't know if she wants me to say her name). My Mom is also a 22, she is August 22!!!!!! Wow, I bet we have a lot more in common!  Ok, I'll get out of the way now here IP: Logged |
Morning Storm
Knowflake Posts: 1778
From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: May 2001
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posted May 16, 2002 09:11 PM
Infinity,The first thing I noticed when I opened seeker's chart, is he's Aquarius with Sun and Mercury in Aqua in his first house. He needs a lot of freedom--tons more than you do. You probably have no understanding of his need because you have no planets in Aqua and nothing Aqua strong. Being Cancer, you're more emotional, moody and live by your feelings. You need more attention than he does. Well, actually he needs love and attention, but it's in a completely different way than what you need. He has a difficult time expressing it though, because he has Merc Rx in his natal chart, and it's squaring his Mars. Ouch. That has to be really tough for your relationship--especially since it tightly quincunxes your Mercury. That's a major strain on the way he communicates. So, before you get upset with him because you have problems getting your point across to him, just remember he will NOT SEE it the same way. No matter how you explain it to him, it's going to be different from what he understands. Also, before you get upset with him, just remember he has trouble communicating with the world in general, so when he does (which I've seen him do successfully), be proud of him and encourage it, because it's certainly not a strength in his chart. Having Mercury in the 1st house will help him some, and being in Aquarius will really help, but it also means he can come off aggressive, argumentative, and confrontational--and you never know when he is going to express himself. He needs to learn there's a difference between a healthy debate and hostile one. You need to learn not to clam up and hide your feelings and then vent them all at once as if you're shooting them at a firing squad. Patience isn't your strong point, so you may need to back off and give him some of that freedom he needs. Trust me when I say his need for freedom isn't anything to do with your relationship--well, it may be at times, but he has an internal need for it too. He was like that as a kid and he will always be like that. It's the Aquarian way and to be honest, the only people who truly understand it, are other Aquarians/Aquarian strong people. seeker, give her extra tlc and make her the center of your life and she'll love you forever.  I'll lOOk at it some more later. Gotta run.  ------------------
To fall in Love, is to rise. . . .
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Infinity
Knowflake Posts: 369
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Registered: Oct 2001
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posted May 16, 2002 09:16 PM
Hey, Nephthys, that is something, isn't it? That is really cool that you know exactly when you pets were born. I only know that Taffy was born sometime in late January, or Febuary - an aquarian rat! I don't mind at all that you jumped in! Besides, I have infinite patience! Comes from having kids. OH! You saw that my Twin is a 22, Peacemaker's father is also a 22, as my sister's husband.
What IS it with all these 22's?  Peace,
Infinity ------------------
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Morning Storm
Knowflake Posts: 1778
From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: May 2001
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posted May 16, 2002 11:33 PM
That's cool that you have infinite patience, Infinity, because it sure isn't in your natal chart!!  Mars conjunct ASC and conjunct Mercury--those are usually the aspects of someone who shoots off at the mouth in a rapid and impatient manner--especially when they have strong Gemini in them. I love hearing when people have grown from their natal chart. The other thing I noticed about your chart that will affect your relationship is your Mars is squaring your Saturn. That can help you with patience, but it's usually out of fear.  That doesn't mean you have that fear issue with seeker, but it does show that there have been men in your life that will limit you in some way and will inhibit you from being who you are. You may learn to distrust your abilities from it. You can get past this aspect, but it will take time, and the ability to get past your fears. Mars is squaring your Nodes, so this is an issue from your last life that you carried over to work on again. ------------------
To fall in Love, is to rise. . . .
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Morning Storm
Knowflake Posts: 1778
From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: May 2001
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posted May 16, 2002 11:33 PM
With your Moon square Uranus, seeker is an awesome choice for a mate, because that aspect makes you rebellious, and gives you the need for a partner who is independent and unconventional. Just be careful and continue to use this aspect for its positive qualities, because it can also make you emotionally unstable and cause a great deal of inner tension. Have you ever been physically or emotionally abused, Infinity? There are indications for it in your natal chart. It doesn't mean it had to happen, but emotional abuse from a man is very likely, and indicated in more than one place. Those issues will all affect your relationship, because they've all helped and added to who you are today. That doesn't mean you're carrying negative baggage with you. You can take a challenging experience and use it to make your life more positive. Either way, it'll affect your relationship. ------------------
To fall in Love, is to rise. . . .
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Infinity
Knowflake Posts: 369
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Registered: Oct 2001
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posted May 17, 2002 01:02 AM
Auriel, you are an 
Thank you sooo much! I don't know how you do it, but you called it so perfectly!
Yes, I have been abused- emotionally, mostly. I had two very controlling relationships, which left me jaded for a long time. I am finally starting to understand where I do lack patience, and I am conciously learning it with Paul. Oh, it's Okay with him to just call him Paul, and besides, it'll help eliminate confusion here 
Any way, do you see where we are exactly six months apart? Of course you do! Thanks again, so much, and rest that wrist!!!Namaste,
Infinity ------------------
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Morning Storm
Knowflake Posts: 1778
From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: May 2001
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posted May 17, 2002 09:00 AM
Thank you, Infinity. I'm happy I could be of any help. I didn't know seeker's name was Paul, but I'll call him that from now on. Yes, I saw you are both 22's and exactly 6 months apart! That's so cool!  ------------------
To fall in Love, is to rise. . . .
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Nephthys
Moderator Posts: 889
From: California
Registered: Oct 2001
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posted May 17, 2002 09:52 PM
pardon the intrusion again Dear Infinity ~ well I don't know Hope's birthday, but since I adopted her in October, she'll get a birthday party (yep, for real) in October! he he he! What fun! Speaking of birthdays, one is coming up, Kona's is 5/27, one of my Mom's dogs. Do the 22's feel that they have a hard/difficult life? wondering I love that graphic with the EYES popping out! ha ha! IP: Logged |
Infinity
Knowflake Posts: 369
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Registered: Oct 2001
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posted May 18, 2002 12:26 AM
I couldn't say for every 22, but I had a very interesting childhood. Not really a bad one, just a LOT of unstability and moving constantly! My teens were filled with rebelious, anti-establishment behaviour. And then we get to my young adult years, and they were very, very difficult! I have learned MANY lessons, and have grown beyond what I ever imagined as a child! 22, for me, has not been resented! Namaste, Infinity ------------------
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seeker
Knowflake Posts: 221
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Registered: Aug 2001
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posted May 18, 2002 01:13 AM
Infinity and Auriel,So, we have someone Infinity knows, who shares my nickname. Interesting! Seeker IP: Logged |
Infinity
Knowflake Posts: 369
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Registered: Oct 2001
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posted May 18, 2002 03:58 AM
Seeker, yes, we do! LOL! He posted quite a while ago at Endlesspath.com, so not everbody here knows him! He has only posted once here, and he had to sign in with a different nic, because YOU had seeker. How ironic that you and he both chose the SAME nic. He left his capital S off, too. I knew right away that your posts were not from my Twin... but, oh well!  Namaste,
Infinity ------------------
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Morning Storm
Knowflake Posts: 1778
From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: May 2001
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posted May 18, 2002 06:08 PM
I distinctly remember that as well, Infinity. A quick search found it.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/000112-4.html I remember is so well because a friend of mine who posts here also goes by seeker, and she had to use another name, too. ------------------
To fall in Love, is to rise. . . .
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Infinity
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posted May 19, 2002 12:29 PM
Infinity  ------------------
When we feel the desire to become more, we are feeling the universe evolving through us -- Greg Braden IP: Logged |
Morning Storm
Knowflake Posts: 1778
From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: May 2001
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posted May 29, 2002 08:35 PM
Hi Infinity,I've been meaning to tell you about a transit that's coming up that will affect your relationship. Saturn is going to square Paul's Venus beginning next week, and it won't be easy on him or you, IF YOU ALLOW IT TO AFFECT YOU AS A COUPLE. He may feel stressed and more aloof at that time, so give him space if he needs it. Venus also rules money, so he may take an unexpected hit there, too. Good luck and take care. ------------------
To fall in Love, is to rise. . . .
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Infinity
Knowflake Posts: 369
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Registered: Oct 2001
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posted May 31, 2002 10:47 AM
Thank you, Auriel!
  I will keep this in mind!
Be Mindfull... Infinity ------------------
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Tanebamos
Knowflake Posts: 10
From: My own, quirky Universe
Registered: May 2002
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posted June 07, 2002 01:30 AM
Wow, Morning Storm! You totally got it right! Thank you for helping Infinity with that. I had no idea she was seeking help here, but it worked! All of a sudden, she seems to undrstand me better. Not perfectly yet, but quite noticably! We are doing so much better. And it's because of your insight, I'm sure. Thank you!------------------
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Morning Storm
Knowflake Posts: 1778
From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: May 2001
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posted June 20, 2002 09:54 PM
Those are the sweetest words anyone can say to me after helping them, Paul. ------------------
To fall in Love, is to rise. . . .
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Randall
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posted June 21, 2002 09:39 AM
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