posted May 24, 2002 08:46 PM         

We have never been really serious. But I have been liking him over two years and I'm not sure what he wants or what he's thinking.

posted May 24, 2002 11:50 PM         

For what it's worth, my chart program shows those born Dec 28, 1965 @ 4:38am in Baltimore, Maryland to be:

Sun--------6*Capricorn
Moon-------7*Pisces
Mercury---15*Sagittaruis
Venus-----12*Aquarius
Mars-------4*Aquarius
Jupiter---24*Gemini
Saturn----12*Pisces
Uranus----19*Virgo
Neptune---21*Scorpio
Pluto-----18*Virgo
Ascendant-29*Scorpio

posted May 27, 2002 12:11 AM         

This is a link to astro.com. I ran a composite chart for you and the Sagittarius guy. These charts are also known as midpoint charts and give some indication of how you might be together.

My chart program is temporarily, (hopefully) down so perhaps someone can run a regular synastry for you. Cat!!!!???

Hope you will find this helpful!
http://www.astro.com/cgi/atxgen.cgi?lang=e&cid=hh3fileEtUnlr-u1022510077&nhor=1&nho2=2&btyp=acx

As an aside, both astro.com and my program shows your Rising sign to be 29* Virgo, using a Placidus or Koch chart system.

posted May 28, 2002 06:29 PM         

I didn't look at your friend's chart, but I took a lOOk at yours. You might want to take some time to yourS-ELF this summer before you think about a relationship. You have some challenging transits to deal with this summer, and you have a lot to explore within. Your lessons are with intuition, spirituality, your career, your daily life, your job, your public life, and everything else that deals with the 6th, 10th, and 12th houses. Given intuition has been mentioned several times on this thread, even when your birth data was apparently incorrect, I'd take that a strong clue and lOOk at it--maybe it's something about your friend that you already know on a subconscious level. BTW, like jwhop, I also get Virgo for your rising.

posted May 29, 2002 12:42 AM         

Indeed, there is a La Grange, Georgia. It's on a north/south line approximately 30 miles west of Atlanta.

Aphrodite, if you use Atlanta, GA as the place of birth, you won't be far enough off to matter.

Hi Auriel
Hope your wrist is continuing to improve.

jwhop

posted May 29, 2002 04:45 PM         

are you two more like friends than lovers??? at least, in comparing the both of you, he sees you more as a friend . . . because his love planet makes only 1 aspect with your planets. his venus is squaring your sun. his style of expressing love is probably baffling you. his venus is in aquarius---which emphasizes his needs for a more cerebral, ideal, broader expression of caring, quite a different perspective from your scorpio sun. his freedom loving saggitarius sun also squares your uranus, and pluto . . . so to you, he's is one very unpredicatable guy.

i can totally see that you adore this man, because your personal planets, (moon, venus, mars) all conjunct his sun. and you feel some sense of stability when you express your emotions because they harmonize with his sense of stablity, and sensibility (your personal planets trine his aries saturn). and your venus and moon sextile his mars, so there can be some chemistry. though, chemistry is not enough to sustain a relationship.

in my own personal analysis and look, there already exists a wonderful gift of friendship. as for a more monogamous relationship, you would *both* need to use your own free wills to *build* what you both desire . . . healthy relationships are a two-way street . . .

also, i got the same feeling auriel did from looking at your natal chart. neptune is transiting your 5th house of romance, and is making a square with your sun. this aspect makes it difficult for you to look at things for the way they are, especially in romantic affairs. neptune is notorious for confusion, and fantasies when used for negative outlets. on the same token, this aspect opens the closet to look at your skeletons in regards to love affairs. you'll be able to tell which ones are indeed a waste of energy when they just dissolve and don't contribute positively to anything you apply it to.

love,

aphrodite

posted May 29, 2002 10:06 PM         

k-lo, you have a tight T-Square in your chart with Pluto/Uranus, Mars and Saturn/Chiron. Those are challenging aspects. The transits will be setting it off all summer. This is a major time for you to be learning. To go along with Aphrodite, Uranus rules your 5th house that Neptune is transiting right now. In simple terms, the transits are working against any romance in your life right now. You will see things through a hazy cloud. LOOk within, k-lo. You set it up for a reason, and you're probably here because yOu wanted us to reMIND YOU! Have light-hearted fun and go with the flow.