posted June 17, 2002 10:32 AM         

the questions you are asking fall more along the lines of predictions, which horary astrology would probably be of service.

unfortunately, i do not practice horary astrology

posted June 17, 2002 04:09 PM         

what horary astrology does, in one sentence, is *predict* whether in actuality something does happen. like, "am i going to culinary school this fall?" and horary would give, sometimes, a definite answer, along with the information regarding the situation surrounding this question.

so, in asking if this woman likes you, is a predictive question to me. but if you asked me if the potentials are there, and what the situation may entail, i'd probably be able to provide some assistance.

tarot cards would probably be a good substitute for horary astrology too. in fact, i use it when i can for predictive purposes.

posted June 17, 2002 06:31 PM         

yes, there is a lot of volatility between you both. lots of harsh karma and lessons to be learned. there is emotional abuse and psychological manipulation there are several indicators of sexual perversion, disruptions in shared resources, and violence. there is a lot of tension. your sun is squaring her neptune, so you are probably having a hard time seeing the relationship for what it is, and she is having problems communicating with you.

the funny thing is that you both get along on a superficial level of romance, friendship, and some psychic levels of communication (venus trine neptune), but it's when you both have to merge together as a couple sharing, and exchanging intimate things that things start to go bad. in other words, once the show is over and it's time to pull the curtains down and get down to the business of relationship management, huge egos and power struggles erupt as to who's right, and who's wrong and you both wonder how you made it through the honeymoon phase.

but since you know these things, it puts you in a proper perspective of what you want to do. like, being an architect looking over a masterplan for an old building in need of repair. you both can make decisions on what you want to do. however, BOTH people have to work on it, no half-way deals or your owe me a favor sweet talk.

let me know if you have questions, and i'll try the best i can to answer.

love,

posted June 18, 2002 09:38 AM         

i understand how sad and upset you are feeling. and sincerely, i cannot tell you what you should do because these are decisions you must think out, realize, and make for yourself. my only piece of advice, as small as it is, is from a book that i've read:

You are not responsible for the actions of others; you are only responsible for you.

this line has personally helped me cushion against heartache, and to use my emotions and energy more efficiently.

aphrodite

posted June 18, 2002 09:51 AM         

YES! I asked the Uni-verse for a Sign, and I found it in your words, Aphrodite!