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Topic: is this a long term LOVE match??
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kiki2002
Knowflake Posts: 10
From: austin
Registered: Jun 2002
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posted June 28, 2002 02:51 AM
 
We are both scorpio's me- 10-24-59 & his 11-18-53. I know he has venus in scorpio which is so awesome as a lover! I am venus in virgo- picky picky- I hate this! Anyway- we both feel a strong cosmic connection feeling & wonder what it means. He was planning to move back up north but now feels the universe has thrown him a curve ball (ME!!!) He's unsure of what to do & I dont want to tell him to stay with me if it's not right for him. I just want to know if this could be a long term thing/love. He can be so tender & gentle in his touch & Im afraid I confuse this with love- I dont want to end up a fool if he doesnt love me. thanks for listening~ IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 16464
From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted June 28, 2002 08:15 AM
You have to let him make the decision. Just tell him to do what's best for him. That's really all you can do.  ------------------
"It is never too late to become what you might have been." George Eliot IP: Logged |
Morning Storm
Knowflake Posts: 1778
From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: May 2001
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posted June 28, 2002 08:56 AM
Welcome kiki.   ------------------
To fall in Love, is to rise. . . .
~Upendra IP: Logged |
kiki2002
Knowflake Posts: 10
From: austin
Registered: Jun 2002
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posted June 28, 2002 01:16 PM
Hi again- If you need it my birth time & place is Houston, tx 615 pm & his St Louis MO 830 pm. thanks in advance.
~And the time came, when the Risk to
remain tight in a Bud was more painful
than the Risk it took to Bloom."
~Anais Nin~ IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 16464
From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted June 28, 2002 07:36 PM
LOVE that quote, Kiki!  ------------------
"It is never too late to become what you might have been." George Eliot IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 16464
From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted June 29, 2002 07:13 AM
This site was painfully a bud.  ------------------
"It is never too late to become what you might have been." George Eliot IP: Logged |
Aphrodite
Moderator Posts: 3280
From: San Francisco, CA, United States
Registered: Feb 2002
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posted July 17, 2002 06:32 PM
hi kiki,if you're still around and would like for me to take a look?  aphrodite IP: Logged |
kiki2002
Knowflake Posts: 10
From: austin
Registered: Jun 2002
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posted July 17, 2002 07:19 PM
Yes- Please do!! I can use all the help I can get! ------------------
Bright blessings~ Kiki "And the time came,
When the Risk to remain tight in a Bud
was more painful than the Risk it took to Bloom."
~Anais Nin~ IP: Logged |
Aphrodite
Moderator Posts: 3280
From: San Francisco, CA, United States
Registered: Feb 2002
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posted July 18, 2002 05:10 PM
hi kiki,i will try to get back to you tomorrow afternoon. talk to you soon. aphrodite IP: Logged |
Aphrodite
Moderator Posts: 3280
From: San Francisco, CA, United States
Registered: Feb 2002
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posted July 19, 2002 06:34 PM
hello kiki,in the synastry between the both of you, there can be the possibility of a long term relationship because there are signs that indicate that you both take this relationship seriously, and there is a connection between the home evironment and and day to day living compatibility. his pluto rests in your fourth house of home. i find this significant because it allows you both to communicate and live together on a deeper level, and the ability to work out and resolve problems that can typical erupt in the home. i sense that what you both project to the outside world is a totally different story from how you both really are at home. on the outside, you both seem like really fun loving, communicative people---and it's what probably attracts you both to each other, the communication part. it feels quite interesting to me since uranus squares both yours AND his mercury. there are quite a few saturn aspects, particularly his saturn is conjunct your sun, mars and neptune. he will probably be the more authoratative figure in this relationship, which may sometimes brush off negatively on your emotional sensabilities and sense of what you feel as expressing energy. his moon rests in your 12th house, so that will probably explain why you feel a beautiful unspoken connection with each other. his moon trines your saturn, so he feels comfortable and safe with your love. there are temperamental personality differences, which you can both work out, just don't let them get the best of you as there are many positive things that will help this relationship endure, and mature. aphrodite IP: Logged |
kiki2002
Knowflake Posts: 10
From: austin
Registered: Jun 2002
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posted July 19, 2002 11:59 PM
Oh thank you soooo much Aphrodite! I keep feeling like I could be with him long term & live comfortably together- something I hadnt felt with anyone else in a long time. I feel this & want it like YESTERDAY but he seems hesitant & moves alot slower. Too slow- like I'd like to spend the whole weekend together & then he doesnt- He's used to being a loner-so I've tried not to let it bother me-but it is. I dont know how to make him want to get more connected or whatever. Is there anything in the planets that shows his hesitancy? I really dont want to throw in the towel- the energy between us is so sweet & strong & like nothing I've ever felt. With other guys it was intense & magnetic but turned negative because of their volatile natures/make ups. But he doesnt seem like that as I think it shows in his chart there's alot of tenderness with his cancer aspects & Venus in Scorpio-he's a very senuous lover. I just hope it works out! <sigh> Thank you so much for looking in to it.------------------
Bright blessings~ Kiki "And the time came,
When the Risk to remain tight in a Bud
was more painful than the Risk it took to Bloom."
~Anais Nin~ IP: Logged |
Aphrodite
Moderator Posts: 3280
From: San Francisco, CA, United States
Registered: Feb 2002
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posted July 22, 2002 10:15 AM
hello kiki,"his saturn is conjunct your sun, mars and neptune." it is probably his saturn (restriction, limitation, hardship, and life-long lessons) aspects to your personal planets of self-expression (sun and mars) and your idealism and fantasy (neptune) that are making you feel restricted. aphrodite IP: Logged |
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