posted July 01, 2002 08:22 AM         

My birth data

DOB: 26 Jan 1974

Place of Birth: Tiruchchirappalli, Tamil Nadu, India (78e41'00, 10n49'00)

Time of Birth: 10.30am

I AM NOW LIVING IN SAUDI ARABIA.

hoping to get positive prediction I remain.
Thankyou in advance.

posted July 01, 2002 02:41 PM         

Can I ask you a few questions?
As I'm trying to "narrow down" what to look for. A full chart interpretation plus transit effects is extremely time consuming and not something I can really do on a forum. Anyway let's see what I can do to help

OK questions....
You mention that you have struggled at lot in the past 3 yrs. Can I ask you in what way. Work, relocating, relationships, emotionally?
You also mention that you had a breakup in 2000. Was this a relationship breakup? Do you remember when in 2000? As I'll take a look at your transits for that time - if that's important to you.
You also say " as per my parents wish" I am planning to get married early next year.
Is that also your wish? Or are you worrying/uncomfortable with that?

Thank you as I'm trying to get a full understanding/feel for your chart.
Sue

posted July 02, 2002 02:53 AM         

I had bad times in my work, personal life,
education and also a breakup in relationship this happened in the year 2000 February, but I got a good job in March 2000, eventhough I had a job I was feeling depressed, I was unable to complete my education and still it goes incomplete.
March 2002 I resigned my job in India and came here to Saudi Arabia and am doing good. I am also really very comfortable with the proposal which is coming my way now, but I would like to know whether everything will move on fine with me hereafter.

The girl is a Bull (Taurus) and am an Aquarian (as you would have predicted) will this relationship work out?

I need your help Sue..

Thankyou in advance

posted July 02, 2002 01:19 PM         

All relationships have the potential "to work" and all charts have both positive and difficult (negative) aspects. Some aspects will contradict each other. What the aspects show is that the "potential" is there.
Having all positive aspects in charts can be "worse" that than a mix of good/tough aspects. As things could be "too easy" and so become boring. A mix is ideal You just need to be aware of the areas that may need some patience/work

Ideally, you need to look at both individuals charts as well, as this shows how you each "approach/behave" in a relationship. (Hope that makes sense)

Ok, so now I've explained that, here are some of the aspects you have together. I can't do a full chart interpretation on an open forum as it's very time consuming and would mean I couldn't answer everybody else
Sue

Sun square Moon
There is the potential of some conflicts and arguments.

Sun square Mercury
You may not have the same intellectual interests or the same tastes which could result in you not fully understanding each other. You'll need to learn how to respect each other's individuality.

Sun conjunct Mars
Pure sexual attraction will unite you as a couple. In each other you have an ideal partner. You'll be energetic, full of life and can take things on together on a professional level or travel together on adventurous, unpredictable journeys.

Moon square Venus
You're very attracted to one another, have pleasure in being together. But this aspect also indicates that conflicts could arise perhaps because of unfaithfulness.

Moon sextile Moon
The Moon is our emotions. This is a great aspect and you'll know exactly how to interpret each other, to see how each other feels and to understand each other.

Moon trine Jupiter
You'll go very well together as a couple, understand and have confidence in each other. You can develop side-by-side in the same way, and could have have many joint projects. You should have a happy family, where their children will grow up in a pleasing atmosphere.

Mercury sextile Jupiter
You make an ideal couple, prosperous, happy, good intellectual understanding, great confidence in each other, a successful family life.

Mars square Mars
Watch out for conflicts with this aspect!

Mercury square Uranus
This aspect shows that you may have problems in understanding each other.

Mercury sextile Neptune
You should have a good spiritual understanding.

Mars trine Neptune
Be careful with this aspect. Your relationship can succeed but lies may be possible. Only the two of you can make the decision to be totally honest with each other.

Venus opposed Neptune
The attraction is certainly there. She may misunderstand you but without doubt she will love you. You (Neptune) may be unfaithful.
(Please note, I'm not saying you will be, just that the aspect shows that possibility).

Jupiter square Pluto
There's a conflict between your individual aspirations, goals and ideals. Co-operation and compromise may be difficult to achieve. But keep trying - practise makes perfect.

Mercury trine Pluto
You have a strong influence on each others minds, which should lead to lots of changes in your life styles. It's more likely that you will change her viewpoints and way of thinking. Your discussions will sometimes be profound. Just about anything that you seriously set your combined minds to can miraculously happen.

posted July 03, 2002 01:14 AM         

Howz you..

posted July 03, 2002 02:01 AM         

Thank you for the prompt and elaborate reply !

So there are ups and downs in the relationship?
The relationship could work out well only if there is forget and forgive policy, am I right ? Cool...but the Venus opposed Neptune aspect ails me...

I would like to know why I faced a setback in education and a break up in an relationship in 2000, Do you find something wrong in my chart in this period ! I also lost a huge amount of money in 1999 in education.

How about my career, finance and personal life hereafter. I ask this because in India I have heard many astrologers say that a wife's chart will have a strong influence in one's career, finance and personal prospects, is that true ?

Awaiting your reply, I remain

posted July 03, 2002 05:10 AM         

"So there are ups and downs in the relationship?"

There will always be ups and downs in any kind of relationship - lover, brother, sister, parents, friends, work colleagues etc.
It's not the ups and downs that are important....it's how you "deal" with them.
For example....How do you look at a "half filled glass" Do you think it's half empty OR do you think it's half full???

"The relationship could work out well only if there is forget and forgive policy, am I right?"

Life is all about forgiving and forgetting. It's the only way for your soul to grow

"but the Venus opposed Neptune aspect ails me..."

Don't forget...you are the Neptune here
Are you feeling that you cannot be faithful??? That's in your hands.

I may be wrong - but I get a "feeling" that you are not really comfortable about this arranged marriage? You have to listen to your heart/inner voice/higher self. As all your answers are there

You also asked why you faced "a setback in education and a break up in an relationship in 2000"
If you can give me reasonably accurate dates then I'll take a look at what was going on with your transists then. But I do need dates - as the planets are constantly on the move

You also say "I also lost a huge amount of money in 1999 in education".
Again I need dates to look at your transits for that period.

Finally you say......
"How about my career, finance and personal life hereafter. I ask this because in India I have heard many astrologers say that a wife's chart will have a strong influence in one's career, finance and personal prospects, is that true ?"

Well you know what they say "There's always a good woman, behind every good man"

Sue

posted July 03, 2002 10:19 AM         

Aww shucks

posted July 04, 2002 01:14 AM         

As you said "There's always a good woman, behind every good man" Am a good man and hope my fiancee is also a good woman

How well does an Aquarian man
match a Taurean women ?

Thankx again Sue !!

posted July 04, 2002 04:26 AM         

Saturn was transiting your 1st house. This transit starts with Saturn passing over your Ascendant, and it marks the start of a new cycle in your life. During the next 14 years, or so, you have to concentrate more on taking care of internal matters rather than focusing on what’s going on out there with everyone else. The 1st House is You, your personality and how you approach things. When Saturn moves here, you have a chance to figure out not just who you are, but who you want to be. If you get depressed during this transit, it is most likely an indication that some of the basic routines of your life are faulty and need to be changed.

Jupiter was also transiting your 1st house.
By itself, this transit tends to bring new opportunities. The danger is that you will feel so good that you won’t do anything. Jupiter is also the ruler of Sagittarius, the sign of wisdom and philosophy. This transit can enable you to get the big picture. Jupiter going through your 1st House helps you understand. Optimism tends to increase.

Pluto had started to to transit your 9th house. This is the house of religion, philosophy, “higher mind”, the principles we live by. Pluto is extremes and obsessions. When Pluto hits, everything Feels differently. During this transit, you may become more fanatical about beliefs you already hold. Or you may junk them entirely and devoutly believe something totally different. The 9th House is also the house of higher education and long journeys.

Neptune was transiting your 10th house. The 10th house is your career and the goals of your life, and Neptune transiting here favors any career that requires vision and imagination. It also favors any occupation requiring compassion. It’s a good time to work in the areas of medicine, social work, or psychotherapy. In careers requiring less imagination and more practical skills, there may be a period of disorientation, doubt, and lots of daydreaming.

Uranus was transiting your 11th house. This is the house of friends, hopes, and wishes. It also influences any group or organization that you may belong to. Uranus transiting here can have several possible effects. It could attract you to new friends, people that are very different from those friends you have already. The people you know, at this time, can have a greater influence on you, to bring about big changes in your life. Conversely, the friends you already have will seem to undergo behavior changes. Groups that you belong to may suddenly seem to be dull oppressive. There will be a strong urge to leave. Uranus transiting here could also attract you to some sort of new group. When Uranus hits, we are seldom content to simply believe something.

Hopefully that will help you to "understand" what happen back then.
I'm glad to hear that thing's are now moving forward for you

Finally, you ask.......
How well does an Aquarian man match a Taurean women?

Haha Shanking... now you're making me
You're still not sure are you
Mind you, you do have your Venus in Aquarius and that does find it hard to commit....Once you do (with your heart) you'll be fine.

Ok all the info I've already given you should have given you a fuller understanding of how you potentially will "get on" as a couple.

If you're looking for a general "overview" of how the different signs relate to each other, then I really think you should treat yourself to 2 books.......
Sun Signs by Linda Goodman.
Love Signs by Linda Goodman.

These both are excellent. Sun Signs will give you a fuller understand of each of the different signs. Love Signs will show you how each sign potentially "gets on" with each other.

Sue

posted July 06, 2002 02:12 AM         

Well regading my marriage issue, yes am really confused and in a dilemma to commit myself, but she is very strong and says she is madly in love with me

Her Birth details
DOB: 6 May 1978
Time: 6AM
Place of birth: Madurai, Tamil Nadu, India (078E 07'00", 09N56'00")

Can u pls spare some time to find out wht is happening around her now... ??

Thankx again Sue for your help

posted July 07, 2002 02:11 AM         

By looking at her mails and the way she speaks over phone seems to say, she is good natured and a lovable girl

And as you said, YES am not fully comfortable with this relationship may be in future I may but not now. I have faith in my LORD and hope he will never let me down.

As this is an arranged marriage (date is yet to be fixed, but planned for February 2003) and my parents seem to be happy with her, I can't say anything against thier wish.

I would be grateful to know what is happening around her now, and is love, marriage, romance is in her air??

Thankyou again SUE

posted July 08, 2002 01:14 AM         

Thankyou

posted July 08, 2002 09:32 AM         

Well you know Feb 2003 is still 8 months away
Here's something to make you smile....
In Feb 2003 you will have Jupiter transiting your 5th house....

Jupiter Transits in 5th House:
This house rules romance, creativity, children. (Jupiter is known to "expand things" and also to bring luck). Get ready for some fun

Also in Feb 2003, Venus will be transiting your 9th House.....

Venus transits in 9th House:
This transit provides that through a Venus encounter, you will have a consciousness-expanding experience that will broaden you and bring about personal growth. This transit can also signify a long and enjoyable trip, perhaps to a place you have never been before. (Hmmm....Where are you going for your honeymoon??)
Your experience may be broadened through a loved one who shows you new things. Or something may happen that will teach you more about your relationship, not to disturb you but to increase your insight.
Whichever of these transit effects you experience, this is usually an easy and rewarding transit

posted July 09, 2002 04:00 AM         

Glad you're feeling