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Topic: Hi Beverley
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Cat
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From: England
Registered: Jan 2002
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posted July 07, 2002 07:03 AM
 
Hi Beverley 
I was going to take a look at his current transits - but we don't have a birth time. Any chance of you finding that out?Using a 12 noon default time
He has a Capricorn Moon in his 4th house.
The 4th house represents the home and "if" his moon is there it shows that his home is the "shell" he likes to retreat to.
Some say that the Moon in Capricorn is the sign of cold efficiency. Actually, the Moon here can be just as emotional as anywhere else. It just doesn’t want to show it. Capricorn builds walls.
But in order to get the house placement correct we need his time of birth. I still think that the planets he has at 29 degrees explain a lot about his behaviour. In your natal chart you currently have Pluto transiting your 7th house (relationships).
Here's something for you to think about....
Pluto transiting 7th House.
Be careful of entering into any partnership when Pluto transits your 7th House. On the negative side, Pluto rules power struggles and underhanded behavior. This doesn't mean that every partner is going to turn on you but there is a tendency for things like that to happen during this transit. Make an extra effort to keep communications with partners open. Resentments tend to be unexpressed at this time. They will just build and blow up later, so take early action to keep this from happening. Beverley, it's not a transit to worry about - just to be aware of
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beverley
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From: South Africa
Registered: Jan 2002
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posted July 08, 2002 07:54 AM
Hi Sue
Thanx for the reply. I printed the thing you posted about fate so will have a look at it tonight. I do think (know) he's not telling me evrything - especially about his ex.
How long is the Pluto transit?
Won't be speaking to him for a while because he hasn't called since Thursday, so I don't think I'll be able to ask for his birth time. Also he was adopted, so don't know if he'll know?
He used to phone me 4 or 5 times a week and now it's only about once a week and he won't tell me why. So I'm backing off also if you think this is the right thing to do?
You know what, one day I want to write to you guys and tell you what a wonderful straight forward realtionship I'm having instead of all these sagas!!! Wouldn't that make a pleasant change.
None of my friends can understand why he won't come & visit. Very strange. I mean I can't break his heart over a cup of coffee!!
Speak to you soon.
Thanx again for all the time you put in.
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Cat
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posted July 08, 2002 08:56 AM
Hey Beverley
Sorry I don't have an empheris (must get myself one!) so I can't give you the exact date that Pluto will leave your 7th. It's gonna be there for a long while yet though.
Pluto transits most certainly do not "get a wiggle on".......
It's the slowest moving planet in the solar system, and can take over 12 years to transit through each of the houses of your horoscope.
Pluto transits aren't bad...this planet’s effect is to clean things out. Things get reborn wherever Pluto goes, but they have to "decay and die" first (by that I mean the problems). The house that Pluto is transisting through is the area of your life that needs attention. The processes of Pluto are usually hidden at first. It works something like a volcano with pressure building up for years until it explodes. I think this really "fits in" with what has been happening in your life lately.
Pluto has only just gone into your 7th and is today @ 15 degrees saggi. Your 7th house cusp is 13 degrees saggi. It won't leave your 7th until it gets to 11 degrees cappy (which is your 8th house cusp). Please don't look at this as a "bad" transit. Sounds to me like it's just what you need "to clear out the rubbish" and bring something/someone great into your life Now another interesting thing....
You also have Chiron transiting your 7th house. It's currently @ 6 degrees cappy (so again it's got to get to 11 degrees cappy) before it leaves your 7th.
I am not very "fluent" with regards to Chiron. Auriel will be able to help you re that. However Chiron is known for healing.
So I would say that this transit is helping you to "heal" those relationship wounds. I'll give you another example....
I have had Pluto (forever...lol) transiting my 4th house AND I also have Chiron transiting my 4th as well.
You would not believe what I have gone through re my ex, home etc etc 
Between you and I, I bet we could write a book  Now another transit that you are currently having is Saturn in your 1st house.
Here's some info re that.....
Saturn Transits 1st House:
This transit starts with Saturn passing over your Ascendant, and it marks the start of a new cycle in your life. During the next 14 years, or so, you have to concentrate more on taking care of internal matters rather than focusing on what’s going on out there with everyone else. The 1st House is You, your personality and how you approach things. When Saturn moves here, you have a chance to figure out not just who you are, but who you want to be. If you get depressed during this transit, it is most likely an indication that some of the basic routines of your life are faulty and need to be changed. Well...
Mr Cancer seems to have a lot of "emotional baggage" that he needs to deal with/come to terms with.
If we all went from one relationship to another "carrying baggage" then before long we'd be dragging a trailer behind us I think all you can do is what you're already doing - be friendly, supportive BUT please do not let him take advantage of your good nature. Any friendship must be mutally supportive. Re the phone calls. Well he's obviously got his reasons. I wouldn't ask him to explain as he's likely to "go on the defensive".
I'd keep it light with him and in the meantime try to keep yourself busy with other things that make you happy. One day you will write to say what a wonderful straight forward relationship you're having.
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Randall
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posted July 08, 2002 01:13 PM
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"He who is devoid of the power to forgive is devoid of the power to love." Martin Luther King, Jr. IP: Logged |
Morning Storm
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From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: May 2001
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posted July 09, 2002 03:50 PM
Hi you two! Sue, thanks so much for looking at this.  I just haven't had access to a computer to do it. Plus, I'm at the library and it only lets me open one window at a time, so I can't even access astro.com.  Love and hugs to both of you!  ------------------
To fall in Love, is to rise. . . .
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Cat
Moderator Posts: 3307
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posted July 09, 2002 04:14 PM
Hey Auriel  Randall mentioned that you had no internet access.
Hope everything's ok with you and that you're feeling much better Hopefully you'll be back on line soon.
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posted July 10, 2002 10:58 AM
I get to see her today! YAY! ------------------
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beverley
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From: South Africa
Registered: Jan 2002
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posted July 11, 2002 06:56 AM
Hi Randall
So Love is in the air again, I'm so pleased for you!Sue
Thanx for all that work you put in looking at my chart, it sure helps.
Cancer man came to see me last night (First time in 6 weeks)and boy is he carrying baggage from this woman. Says he's been trying to patch things up for 2 years, but knows it's not a happening thing. This after she cleared out his house while he was away and moved out of town with his best friend!!!! Guess we can't choose who we love! Also unbeknownst to him I found out last night that I'm just one of many. One of whom is sending him messages telling him how much she loves him. The latest of these dated yesterday, so why was he with me? I kinda feel sorry for her.
Think this is a good time to be moving right along!!!!!!!!! He doesn't know I know, although when he left he did ask why I was shaking like a leaf! Just played it cool and said "see ya round!" Knowledge is power.
Yes you and I should write a book.
Speak to you soon
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posted July 11, 2002 05:50 PM
Hi Beverley
Hmmm, well from what you say..Yes, I agree with you that this seems like a good time to be moving right along.It certainly sounds like he has a lot of "emotional baggage" that he seriously needs to deal with. Plus if he's still trying to "patch things up" with his ex...then he's not emotionally available to anyone  Not nice to now find out that you are "one of many"
You know he may well go through a period of "using women" as a "reaction" to his ex using him. Not a great thing.
And you deserve much better than this.
You're right "knowledge is power" - maybe you should use that knowledge to walk away and find someone who will not lie to you 
Sue
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beverley
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From: South Africa
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posted July 12, 2002 02:48 AM
As they say in this country "howzit" Sue!
Yes sometimes when you are being stubborn and won't "SEE" something even though you think it's there the universe has a way of making you "SEE" things!
I tried to register at the free astrology course place, is it only available to moderators?
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posted July 12, 2002 05:36 AM
Howzit Beverley Hope things are starting to improve for you To register for the Astrology Course you need to send Randall an email (include your user name) and he will add you to that forum - then you'll be able to access it.
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beverley
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posted July 12, 2002 07:57 AM
Uuuuuuuuuuuummmmmmmmmmmmm
Silly thing this. Don't have Randalls e-mail address? ThanxIP: Logged |
Cat
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posted July 12, 2002 08:29 AM
lol Beverley Here it is.....
webmaster@linda-goodman.com Actually if you go to the Free For All Forum. At the top left it says moderated by Randall and Morning Storm. Click on Randall and it let's you send him an email.
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