posted July 14, 2002 08:17 AM         

Here are some (not all) of the aspects you share together....
Sue

Mercury square Mercury
You may have some communication problems so you'll need to be aware of that.

Sun square Saturn
You may be a little to "rigid" and like tranquility too much for him.
You have "lessons" to teach him (Saturn is always the teacher) but he may be reluctant to learn those lessons - "teach" him softly
Linda (Goodman) saw this aspect as a bond that is hard to break, if not impossible.

Venus conjunct Jupiter
This shows a relationship that could be completely successful. You're a couple that is happy to be alive, live together, with a pleasant family and home, total confidence in each other, intellectual understanding and similar tastes.

Moon square Pluto
Great physical attraction, uncontrolled passion. Watch out for possessiveness and jealousy. It can indicate problems on the sexual level. If this relationship should ever end, it will be very difficult to get over it.

Venus sextile Mars
Your relationship is particularly based on physical understanding, passionate love.

Mercury trine Mars
This aspect shows an understanding of each other. You like to discuss things with each other and take joint initiatives. Great intellectual understanding.

Moon opposed Neptune
This aspects shows that there is a potential of illusions and disappointments. You may find it difficult to understand each other. There is also the possibility of lies.

Mercury opposed Uranus
This shows a potential of there being no intellectual understanding between you which could result in disputes.

Mercury sextile Jupiter
You make an ideal couple, prosperous, happy, good intellectual understanding, great confidence in each other, a successful family life.

Venus opposed Pluto
A very strong passion but be careful it doesn't become destructive.

Saturn square Uranus
There's a lack of understanding between you and this could create conflicts.

Saturn trine Neptune
You have this aspect both ways.
This is a favourable aspect. You both bring dreams to each other.

Saturn sextile Pluto
This is a helpul aspect for a favourable relationship but Linda felt that in a love relationship you probably wouldn't notice any special influence from it.

Venus trine Neptune
You have the same artistic tastes in common and your lives will sometimes be full of fantasy.

posted July 14, 2002 08:28 AM         

You have an Unaspected Sun and also an Unaspected Mars in your natal chart.

Here's some information for you to think about
Sue

Unaspected Sun
Natives with an unaspected Sun have difficulty in finding themselves, in discovering who they are and what they really want in life. They do not realise in how bent they are in having their own way or how they keep pushing themselves forward in and out of season. Initially, they fail to see that this is what they are doing.
The creative urge is great, and they are full of pep and vital energy, but their enthusiasm comes and goes. At one moment, the unaspected Sun glows warm and bright and, at another, recedes behind a cold, dark cloud of uncertainty. Often these natives will act in a purposeful and independent fashion when feeling anything but purposeful and independant. Their insecurity drives them on; possibly until ordinary honorable ambition becomes power-lust. And yet, in spite of these traits, they have difficulty in holding their own. An unaspected Sun can indicate indentity problems in either sex.
In females horoscopes, an unaspected Sun frequently implies problems with the father or husband. The native may even go to one extreme to the other in her choice of partner. Examples are known of women who have fallen in love first with very dominant men and then with weaklings.

Unaspected Mars in your Chart
The agressive form of the self-preservation instinct, executive power or energy will tend to express in extremes, usually on the side of overcompensation. This can show itself in restlessness, the inability to sit still, trying to prove oneself, pouring a great deal of energy into endless activities, etc. Also there is likely to be a passion for sport.
The fierceness and determination of someone with an unaspected Mars can be very great. To see if there will be any unpleasant consequences, the rest of the chart must be examined. An unaspected Mars will not in itself produce dangerous situations. Nevertheless, a spirit of courage and daring can suddenly grip the individual unaware, and can incite the native to take very big risks.
As a planet symbolising passion and violence, Mars in its unaspected state can produce sudden tantrums and outbursts, or short but powerful internal explosions. An unaspected Mars is like a tightly wound spring which can fly open at any moment, but generally does not. What gives it its violence is the difficulty in adjusting the Martian energy to given situations.
Where sexuality is concerned, the native often has a tremendous urge to make conquests owing to the exaggerated need to prove him or herself. Sometimes several affairs are kept going simultaneously (altough this is not a hard fast rule). The possibilities for sexual expression when Mars is not aspected are quite considerable. However, the native trying to prove him or herself, may beg off at a vital moment, or else may be inflamed by someone who is sexually incompatible, and so on.
People with an unaspected Mars sometimes give unintentional offense by being caustic, tactless and blunt. Sometimes they shock their nearest and dearest. A woman with an unaspected Mars may not know what to expect of her man or the best way to handle him; sometimes she enjoys being very masterful.
Mars begins much and finishes little. Its energy is not steadily applied. Those who have unaspected Mars should restrain their enthusiasm and remember that while it is easy enough to start things it costs time and trouble to bring them to completion.

posted July 16, 2002 12:22 PM         

Every birth chart is different - just because she has Sun in Cancer (the same as you) does not mean that you will be alike. You certainly will have some similar traits but the whole birth chart needs to be taken into account.

Your daughter has...Cancer Sun, Capricorn Moon, Taurus Rising. (Just to mention a few of the planets.
You have....Cancer Sun, Gemini Moon, Gemini Rising.
So different already...plus you have an unaspected Sun and Mars. All her planets are aspected.

She'll be her own person
Here's an example for you....

Sun and Moon Combinations

CancerSun/Gemini Moon
The combination of your Sun sign and your Moon sign produces a highly sensitive and intuitive personality. Flexibility and adaptability are your strengths and sometimes your weakness, as well. You are tuned in to your world and always eager to please. You are essentially a warm and feeling person, and little escapes your impressionable mind. You are a trusting sort, but after too many disappointments and discouraging experiences, you have a tendency to withdraw into yourself. You enjoy social events and really hate feeling that you have been left out of any group. You have a strong curiosity, and don't mind experimenting. Yet if things don't turn out well on your first effort, you are quick to give up and go back to tried ways. Sticking with an endeavour is not one of your strong points. Your feelings are easily hurt, and until you learn not to let it happen, you'll find yourself in a fuming turmoil most of the time. You're highly flexible and adaptable, but indecision may be a lifelong problem. Even if you don't let it show, internally, you're never very sure of yourself.

Cancer Sun/Capricorn Moon
The combination of your Sun and Moon signs produces a good deal of ambition and determination in your personality. Yet this is well disguised in a mask of congeniality and understanding. The Cancer Sun is naturally understanding and affectionate, lessening the normal coldness of the Capricorn Moon. This lends good insight and a penetrating look at human nature. You are well equipped for a role in some type of public or official responsibility, and apt to gain recognition for your work in this regard. Prestige and status are likely to flow your way if you make any effort to achieve before the public. You have a reassuring way as you always seem willing to assume responsibilities, and work hard to reach goals. You expect things of value to require a good deal of effort. Unassuming and unpretentious, you are ever willing to tow your share of the load. You appreciate the value of a dollar, but you're not likely to spare cost when it comes to obtaining quality for your investment. A high degree of self-discipline allows you to save or even hoard money for that rainy day. You have a shrewdness that produces a genial and warm manner, but your purpose remains steely and determined. This nice blend of the personal and the sincere, with the calculating business core, allows you to accomplish much without hurting anyone's feelings. It permits you to muster and retain many friends along the way. You know how to drive a hard bargain with a smile on your face, and you have a keen sense for understanding people and instinctively sensing their motives.