posted July 13, 2002 02:29 PM         

What a lovely name

posted July 13, 2002 05:52 PM         

I just peeked at your natal chart....
5 planets in Scorpio....4 of them in your 5th house. Sizzling (hot)

You've also got 3 planets in your 4th house.
And 2 planets in your 7th house (one of which is Mars and it's unaspected)

5th house = romance, creativity, children
4th house = home
7th house - relationships

Chiron is transiting your 7th house, so some healing going on there

Ok it's late here 11pm, so I'm going to look at everything tomorrow for you.

One question....what's happening with your work at the moment? I am only wondering as Pluto is currently transiting your 6th house plus you have Uranus in your 6th house in your natal chart?

6th house = work and health
Chat tomorrow
Sue

posted July 14, 2002 05:31 AM         

I was asking about your work as Pluto transiting your 6th will bring changes there for you (and can cause unemployment). Uranus natally in your 6th house means you will experience a lot of changes in your work.

Yes a long distance relationship is not easy.
I'm taking a look at your synastry chart now. Back later
Sue

"Gemini boy, he always has diferent atitudes and that confuses me a lot. Gemini boys are so complicated"

posted July 14, 2002 07:16 AM         

Ok here are some (not all) of the aspects your share with Thomas....
Sue

Moon conjunct Moon
You both have your Moon's in Scorpio so you should know exactly how to interpret each other. See how you each feel, and understand each other.

Sun trine Moon
This is an excellent aspect for a relationship. You go well together, understand, appreciate, love and compliment each other.

Sun trine Saturn
As a couple you should be quite stable. Leading your live's together quietly, and becoming good friends. You will dominate him and he might find this difficult to accept. But as he likes to feel secure, you could be the perfect partner.

Jupiter conjunct Uranus
This can be a very good relationship, if you both mutually respect each other. You both like your independence, freedom of thought and action.

Moon conjunct Saturn
He will bring some fantasy into your life
which is good as you can be a little too serious sometimes but you also have qualities that he doesn't have and he appreciates those. You're two people whose difference in character is made to compliment each other.

Saturn conjunct Pluto
You have this aspect both ways and it's tight @ 0 and 1 degrees.
You'll each try to change the other but that shouldn't create any serious trouble as long as you both remember to compromise.

Sun trine Pluto
It's love-at-first-sight, the great passion. You're drawn to each other like two magnets, and will always have to see and touch each other. Very good sexual understanding, typically very passionate. I also have to say that unless other aspects show otherwise, then this type of relationship won't last forever and one of you could suffer if the passion of the other dies.

Mars opposed Neptune
Watch this aspect! It can create lies and agression with you each trying to destroy the other with the weapons at your disposal, strength (Mars) against lying (Neptune).

Sun opposed Neptune
This aspect can create the following situation.....
You may suffer in this relationship, as he may deceive you, lie, promise a fantastic future that only exists in the imagination. He will not be able to live up to these dreams.

Saturn sextile Neptune
You have this aspect both ways.
So you both bring dreams to each other.

Mars trine Pluto
Great physical passion.

posted July 14, 2002 04:10 PM         

You're a Scorpio "it's your job to be a little suspicious"
What kind of work does he actually do? I have to agree with you that working until 4:30am and on Sundays' is not "the norm".

What kind of work would you like to do??
Not being able to find a job that's "right" for you can be explained by Uranus in your natal 6th house......
The Sixth House shows HOW you work, not your career. (Your career is governed by your tenth house).
Uranus in the Sixth House....can’t stand to have anyone look over their shoulder while they work. The only boss that you can stand if you have this placement is one who says "Here’s the job. Good-bye. See me when it’s finished". You may be a genius at work or just plain crazy Either way, you can shock those around you. Expect to quit or get fired more than normal because "Those people at work are idiots" . Unusual jobs are best for you. Anything where you can innovate and shock to your heart’s content

Hmmm what can you send him by mail.....
What would really touch his heart.....
I'm thinking about that one as he doesn't have the water in his chart that you do.

posted July 16, 2002 07:44 AM         

You say you're feeling very insecure. Why do you think you're feeling that way?
Obviously having this long distance relationship is not an ideal situation for you. Having so much Scorpio in your chart will make that very difficult for you to handle.
Also what about your job situation? Do you think if you were working that you'd feel more secure?

Hmm, the mail that your boyfriend got from this other girl. I'm really not sure why he even told you about that He must have known that it would make you jealous and that you would worry about it!

Ok, now I don't think it's a good idea for you to tell him that you felt like living only for him....
That's a lot of responsibility for someone to take on and some men just can't handle that!
I really, really feel that you need to get some other interests to occupy your mind and also to make you happy. You mentioned about teaching Spanish or the piano. What about putting a small advert in your local paper (or somewhere) and start to give private lessons? You'd need to research a little to find out how much you should charge.

That way you'd satisfy your 6th house Uranus as you'd be working for yourself Plus you'd be doing something that you enjoy