posted July 16, 2002 05:33 AM
Hi Cartoon.
I hope you're feeling better today Ok, first of all, I must explain to you that we do not do "predictive" astrology here on this site so I cannot say if you will or will not have a relationship with him.
I can tell you how you're likely "get on" with each other. I can also look at your current transits to see how things/situations are likely to be affecting you.
I can also look at your natal charts - which gives an overall view of a persons character.
But what you must always bear in mind is that we all have "free will". Life is not just a road map that we are given at birth that we have no "power" to change
One thing I noticed straight away when I looked at both your natal charts is that you both currently have Pluto transiting the 1st house in your natal charts.
Pluto packs a punch. When it hits you, you know it. Whatever it contacts in your horoscope gets “transformed”. Pluto is death and rebirth, decay and regeneration. (Note: Not actually death - just end of a type of behaviour or situation) It is very difficult to hold on to something that Pluto is trying to take. Sometimes it is just better to let go. Pluto also rules obsession. An almost insane desire to possess a thing, or a person.
Pluto is the slowest moving planet in the solar system, so it's transit in your 1st house will last approximately for 2 years. But please don't thing this is a bad transit - it isn't.... you'll be a new person by the end of it Pluto’s effect, as always, is to clean things out. Yes, things get reborn wherever Pluto goes, but they have to decay and die first. The house in your horoscope that Pluto is transiting through is the area of your life needs attention. This is important because the processes of Pluto are usually hidden at first. It works something like a volcano with pressure building up for years until it explodes.
Pluto Transits Through Your First House: This starts with Pluto making a conjunction with your Ascendant, but the effect can last for years. Usually, you will become more assertive. This is the “Nobody better mess with me” transit. It also can bring suppressed feelings and desires up to the surface, things that you don’t want to face. Some tend to become more domineering with Pluto. Others try to suppress this, but find instead that they seem to attract people who try to push them around. Pluto transiting your first house can also make you more aware of things around you, as well as the motivations of the people with whom you come into contact. No, everything hasn’t changed. You are just more sensitive to things under a Pluto transit of your first house.
Ok, so that's given you something to be thinking about.
Just one thing I would like to say with regards to you saying that your Boss was more like family when you were on the Brussels business trip. I have travelled a lot on business in the past and know many many people who do the same. People do tend to act "differently" when they're away. You spend more time in each other's company and so do become closer. Usually once back to the office...it's business as usual.
How often do you travel on business with him?
Sue