posted July 21, 2002 08:23 PM         

As I understand your situation, your ex boyfriend thinks you don't want him and now you're questioning whether he wants you, either now or later!

Sometimes it takes a gesture to break the ice or open the door so to speak so a relationship can resume. Especially if both are uncertain about the intentions of the other person and may be reluctant to stick their necks out.

Could be you're going to have to be the one to make the first move since you broke up with him and got involved with another guy.

If you decide to go for it, I would be somewhat indirect in the method you choose and keep it light. Just something to let him know you're thinking about him. In other words, open the door a little and see if he wants to walk through it.

One way would be an E-card sent to his email address if he has one and you know what it is. Something light and airy and maybe even funny. Or a regular card if email isn't possible. After that, it's up to him to make the next move.

I generally think the guy should make the first move but given the way you two broke up, he may think you're happy with the other guy and there's no reason to contact you.

If things begin to work out for you, and I hope they do, you can get his birth information, date, city and exact time and along with your own, ask Cat or Morning Storm to run a chart comparison (synastry) for you to see how you relate as a couple.

jwhop