posted July 23, 2002 07:02 AM         

I don't know very much about astrology, although it interests me a great deal and I do seem to fit the profile descriptions for my sign VIRGO. Anyway, I'd love any romantic advice that I can get, particularly advice regarding my current cyber relationships.

I have two pen pals that I care for very much and I believe both care for me. I'm curious about whether romance is a possiblity with either of them.

I am a virgo, born September 15,1972 in St. Louis Missouri at 10:23 pm.

My longest term penpal was born on May 6, 1972 in NewCastle England (time of birth not known).

My newest penpal was born on May 28, 1971 in Newark, New Jersey (time of birth unknown)

posted July 23, 2002 10:35 AM         

Just out of curiosity, which one are you more drawn to? And for what reasons? Which one stirs your Soul? Do either of them? Answer those questions and you can figure it out without astrology. Then look at the astrology for the one with which you feel the strongest connection.

posted July 23, 2002 12:20 PM         

Hmm, you've asked hard questions. I'm drawn to them both for very different reasons. My English pen pal simply calls out to my heart, he's what my dreams are made of but I often feel that he isn't emotionally as available as I need him to be,he's very cautious, reserved and quiet with his affections. I know we will be friends forever but I'm not sure that I can see anything more developing simply because we live in different countries. While we've each talked of relocation I doubt that even for love we'd have the courage to do it. Maybe with a bit of astrological proding I could get up the courage?

My American penpal makes me feel amazing about myself and has similar goals and life views, plus he's incredibly sweet. I could completely see us living happily ever after because we're quite compatible. My only fears are that he has a weaker personality than I and I know I could dominate him completely, something I don't like.Also, I worry that because we are so seemingly compatible that maybe I'm simply projecting more feeling into our relationship than what actually exists, sort of being in love with love. Because the relationship is fairly new, I have quite a few insecurities about it and about trusting him. I'm fairly cautious about giving away my heart.

Honestly, I'm not sure that either one will be my soul mate. I'm not sure I will ever find one. After having my heart broken by my first love I wonder if I'll ever find love again. I suppose that's why I'm here in this forum looking for advice. Nothing is more confusing than matters of the heart.

Thanks for listening to me ramble.

posted July 24, 2002 06:12 PM         

Pilgrim, how you journey...on the road you chose
To find out why the winds die, and where the stories go

All days come from one day
That much you must know
You cannot change what's over
But only where you go

One way leads to diamonds
One way leads to gold
Another leads you only
To everything you're told

In your heart you wonder
Which of these is true
The road that leads to nowhere
The road that leads to you

Will you find the answer in all you say and do?
Will you find the answer...in you?

Each heart is a pilgrim
Each one wants to know
The reason why the winds die
And where the stories go

Pilgrim, in your journey
You may travel far
For pilgrim it's a long way
To find out who you are...

Pilgrim, it's a long way...To find out who you are...

Pilgrim, it's a long way...To find out who you are...

posted July 24, 2002 09:57 PM         

Yeah, Linda's books are definitely a must!

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posted July 25, 2002 06:06 PM         

House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Gemini 05°45'21
2nd House Gemini 29°18'30
3rd House Cancer 20°19'01
Imum Coeli Leo 13°15'39
5th House Virgo 12°31'24
6th House Libra 22°00'10
Descendant Sagittarius 05°45'21
8th House Sagittarius 29°18'30
9th House Capricorn 20°19'01
Medium Coeli Aquarius 13°15'39
11th House Pisces 12°31'24
12th House Aries 22°00'10

Major aspects
Sun Square Moon 3°45
Sun Conjunction Mercury 3°16
Sun Conjunction Mars 2°54
Sun Square Jupiter 5°52
Sun Square Saturn 3°01
Moon Square Mercury 7°01
Moon Square Mars 6°39
Moon Conjunction Jupiter 2°07
Moon Opposition Saturn 6°46
Moon Square Pluto 4°27
Mercury Conjunction Mars 0°22
Mercury Square Saturn 0°15
Venus Trine Neptune 5°51
Venus Sextile Ascendant 2°52
Mars Square Saturn 0°07
Jupiter Square Pluto 2°21
Saturn Trine Uranus 3°14
Neptune Sextile Pluto 1°12
Neptune Opposition Ascendant 2°59
Pluto Trine Ascendant 4°11

Sun Virgo 23°21'33 05 direct
Moon Sagittarius 27°06'53 07 direct
Mercury Virgo 20°05'53 05 direct
Venus Leo 08°37'41 03 direct
Mars Virgo 20°27'52 05 direct
Jupiter Sagittarius 29°13'33 07/8 direct
Jupiter is technically near the end of house 7 and is interpreted in house 8.
Saturn Gemini 20°20'51 01 direct
Uranus Libra 17°06'44 05 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 02°46'45 06/7 direct
Neptune is technically near the end of house 6 and is interpreted in house 7.
Pluto Libra 01°34'20 05 direct
True Node Capricorn 24°07'38 09 direct

posted July 25, 2002 06:18 PM         

House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Libra 08°00'57
2nd House Scorpio 02°38'23
3rd House Sagittarius 03°36'37
Imum Coeli Capricorn 10°34'37
5th House Aquarius 16°19'01
6th House Pisces 15°22'20
Descendant Aries 08°00'57
8th House Taurus 02°38'23
9th House Gemini 03°36'37
Medium Coeli Cancer 10°34'37
11th House Leo 16°19'01
12th House Virgo 15°22'20

Major aspects
Sun Square Moon 1°49
Sun Quincunx Uranus 1°09
Moon Sextile Mercury 2°50
Moon Trine Uranus 2°58
Mercury Sextile Mars 5°22
Mercury Opposition Uranus 5°48
Venus Conjunction Mars 1°32
Venus Square Pluto 1°50
Mars Square Pluto 3°23
Jupiter Quincunx Saturn 1°19
Jupiter Square Ascendant 0°06
Saturn Opposition Neptune 2°25
Saturn Trine Ascendant 1°13
Neptune Sextile Pluto 4°46
Neptune Sextile Ascendant 3°39
Numbers indicate orb (deviation from the exact aspect angle).

posted August 03, 2002 09:47 AM         

Here is information on my second friends chart.

Planetary positions
planet sign degree house motion
Sun Gemini 07°08'51 04 direct
Moon Leo 04°59'20 07 direct
Mercury Taurus 14°41'31 03 direct
Venus Taurus 12°51'33 03 direct
Mars Aquarius 11°54'39 01 direct
Jupiter Sagittarius 00°51'28 10 retrograde
Saturn Taurus 27°26'17 04 direct
Uranus Libra 09°35'42 08 retrograde
Neptune Sagittarius 01°33'12 10 retrograde
Pluto Virgo 27°00'14 08 retrograde
True Node Aquarius 17°01'34 01 retrograde

House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Capricorn 27°18'06
2nd House Pisces 13°14'11
3rd House Aries 22°36'35
Imum Coeli Taurus 20°47'37
5th House Gemini 12°53'04
6th House Cancer 03°27'40
Descendant Cancer 27°18'06
8th House Virgo 13°14'11
9th House Libra 22°36'35
Medium Coeli Scorpio 20°47'37
11th House Sagittarius 12°53'04
12th House Capricorn 03°27'40

Major aspects
Sun Sextile Moon 2°10
Sun Trine Mars 4°46
Sun Opposition Jupiter 6°17
Sun Trine Uranus 2°27
Sun Opposition Neptune 5°36
Moon Square Venus 7°52
Moon Opposition Mars 6°55
Moon Trine Jupiter 4°08
Moon Sextile Saturn 7°33
Moon Sextile Uranus 4°36
Moon Trine Neptune 3°26
Moon Sextile Pluto 7°59
Moon Opposition Ascendant 7°41
Mercury Conjunction Venus 1°50
Mercury Square Mars 2°47
Venus Square Mars 0°57
Mars Trine Uranus 2°19
Jupiter Opposition Saturn 3°25
Jupiter Conjunction Neptune 0°42
Jupiter Sextile Pluto 3°51
Jupiter Sextile Ascendant 3°33
Saturn Opposition Neptune 4°07
Saturn Trine Pluto 0°26
Saturn Trine Ascendant 0°08
Neptune Sextile Pluto 4°33
Neptune Sextile Ascendant 4°15
Pluto Trine Ascendant 0°18

I'm beginning to come to terms with the way these two people fit into my life, but I'd be very interested in an astrological interpretation, particularly of my chart and my second friend's chart.

Thanks for your help.