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posted July 25, 2002 05:30 AM         

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Hello, im new to the forum

I am looking for info on how compatible I am in the long run with the object of my desire.

Him: March 23, 1974 3:18PM NY, USA
Me: June 25, 1975 6:40AM NY, USA

Im utterly confused by this relationship, I get cold and detached actions but assurances with words that he is in love. He does not express what he is thinking often. I usually have to initiate affection.
Originally I was sure he was my future mate, but now were on a break. Hopefully it will cure my infatuation. Ive already decided to put faith in him that he will make the right decision for both of us.

Auriel, Morning Storm, Anyone who can offer insight? Much Appreciated, Thanks.

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posted July 25, 2002 12:05 PM         

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Welcome, Luna!

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posted July 25, 2002 04:06 PM         

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Hey Luna,
Welcome to this site!

-StarLover

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posted July 25, 2002 04:38 PM         

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Thank You for welcoming me.

I have to add about being Cardinal signs, and my Mars being in Aries I am a little controlling. I realize we would have to compromise alot.
What I really want to know has to do with our Venus/Mars aspects. There are sextiles and an opposition... I dont know what to think..

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posted July 25, 2002 09:02 PM         

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Hi Luna the reason he can be rather detached is because his Venus is in Aquarius and so its natural for him to act like friend then a lover. You do have squares between both your personalities most of the time you won't be able to understand each other and it can be rather difficult to communicate your feelings with one another. Although you may have overcome this because you both share the same ascendant(I'm not to sure about that, becuase my program may be innacurate with the location which is important to get your ascendants correctly.)Anyway you also have Opposed Venus' and that makes your likes and hobbies very different. You may not always agree with the right friends or things to do with one another. But the really good part is that you have quite a bit of Cinderella Aspects. These aspects indicate karmic love. You may have known each other in a past life or theres a very tight karmic bond between you both. Have faith when he says he loves you becuase he makes three cinderella aspects to your chart this surely indicates love and marriage. The even better part is that you both make no Saturn Clashes, this surely indicates that you will be able to overcome your differences. Although it still won't be easy, both your charts square one anothers moon and sun. If you do end up getting married pick a date that has chiron making happy or no aspects to saturn. As well check for Jupiter making happy or no aspects to saturn. The reason for this is that you can give the marriage a great chance. Just something I had to write in case, you never know. Make sure Mercury is in Libra thats good for marriage too.

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posted July 26, 2002 12:21 AM         

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Wow thanks, see thats just it I feel some sort of tie or bond to him, thats why I felt hed be the man id marry. I like the houses his planets fall under.

What exactly does a Cinderella aspect look like? Ive never heard of that before.

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posted July 26, 2002 01:02 AM         

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Welcome to Lindaland, Luna!

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posted July 26, 2002 11:18 AM         

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There very important aspects when it comes to love it explains why people can love each other when they have absoulatley nothing in common with one another or there personalities wouldn't get a long. I actually learned Cinderella Aspects from Donna when she introduced a website to me. Cinderella aspects in your own chart will indicate if you will marry someone above your social/wealth status just like cinderella. It also indicates karmic love between both and if they will have succesful marriage. The chiron will make an aspect to your Venus, Jupiter, and Neptune.

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posted January 27, 2005 08:08 PM         

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Aries male/Cancer female, in and of itself, is a BAD match. My parents were married for 28 years because she stuck it out. He never accepted that other women were not his due. She was flattered that he asked her to marry. The only thing they had in common was a desire for children.

JJ

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posted February 07, 2005 11:39 AM         

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Ouch! jfjinca

I must say that I agree that fire and water mixing is not ideal.My mom is a Sag with taurus moon and my Dad a Cancer with Cap moon.They both have venus in earth signs-my moms in Cap while my Dads in Virgo-and I must say I have never NEVER seen them kissing or hugging in public! Sometimes I feel sorry for my mom,who has stuck it out for 19 years(highly unusual for a Sag),because I can sense that her moon in Taurus craves affection.She tells me how miserable she gets and that if it wasn't for us she would have left my Dad a long time ago.My Dad on the other hand is very formal and dare I say "cold",but to make matters worse is having affairs(I guess his asc in Leo and mars need ego stroking).I am not even sure why they got married or maybe because it was the fact that they were both comfortable with each at the time because to me they seem more like brother and sister,tolerating each other. Sometimes,though,many other water fire relationships do work out.Both fire and water are extreme in different ways,this means the relationship will be passionate but the expression of that passion needs to be in sync!

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posted February 19, 2005 12:53 AM         

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>She tells me how miserable she gets and that if it wasn't for us she would have left my Dad a long time ago

After my mom left, we told her, "You should've left 10 years ago" but she stayed 'for the kids'. I was the youngest at 20 y.o. and thought, "Finally!"

He's Aries/Leo. She's Cancer/Virgo. I don't know the birth times.

JJ

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posted February 19, 2005 08:19 AM         

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jfjinca

To be honest though I dont think she would leave him even given the chance.She has venus opposing mars in cancer and saturn in dutiful capricorn.My dad was lucky to meet her,but I think she'll stick around a while longer.I understand her moon in taurus being reluctant to make a change,I have my ascendant in Taurus.Fear of moving to the unknown makes us weary to change established ties,no matter how bad they get.Luckily I have moon in cancer sqr my mars in libra.This gives me energy to change things when I am not happy,she has moon sextile her mars(taurus and cancer respectively).She bares the load she has,no matter how heavy!

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posted February 19, 2005 09:20 AM         

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I hesitate to judge relationships from the outside because we never really know the dynamics. Taurus and Capricorn moons are very similar and often I see couples that seem like brother/sister with this combo but they stay together for a long time. There has to be a reason they feel comfortable together. Capricorn moons offer structure, something Taurus moons need badly, and security.

The only other combo I see a lot of is Taurus/Libra Moon but usually with the man as the Libra. If the woman has the Taurus moon it's more difficult for her, because she is even more conservative, usually the males with Taurus moons get taken care of allright, but female relatives who notice if something is wrong. But the females can be taken advantage of. The opposite, Scorpio moons, are wonderful for Taurus moons, because they teach so much about nourishing from the inside.

My sister has the Taurus moon and I have the 8th house Cancer moon, we complement each other perfectly because she helps me with status and money, as a financial planner, and I help her nourish herself emotionally, and help her work on problems in her marriage with a Scorpio. I know he is just trying to get her attention, and bring her out of her shell, but she is afraid of losing control.

We consider each other, our only family, because we help each other so much. But we are like black and white, she is controlled and security minded, I have homemade drapes. They look good, but she would never have anything she didn't buy in a store. She has children, me none. But we work it out, and her Scorpio mate is the best for her because he brings force and attitude, and that is security in itself.

Taurus Moons often complain about being emotionally abandoned, because they place such a high premium on the material, they don't know how to ask for a cuddle or a kiss. It's important to have some kind of happy medium, involving children, or fun innocent playtime, vacations are very significant, as well as other family. That is why I am so supportive of her, I know deep down, I am her only emotional contact!

Strokes my ego:>

Natasha
Taurus/6th
Cancer Moon/8th
Aries Venus/4th

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posted February 20, 2005 01:33 AM         

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My cousin is a cusp aries/taurus and she has been with a cancer for about 3 years they have a 1 year old daughter and everything is beautiful. they are going to get married.

her temperment was a problem in the past but that has changed and he wishes she would be into soccer more.

thats about it

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posted October 23, 2007 07:24 PM         

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I don't know much about charts but I can tell you from personal experience that as a cancer, I prefer aries as friends. My ex was an aries and though we had a great physical connection and everything seemed great, times were horrible when we both disagreed on something. The aries guy I used to date found me very emotional, and his honest was at times VERY brutal, at times saying that I act like a 16-y/o (brutal) because of how I handle certain situations. Romantically, the cancer will have to put up with alot to make this work, sacrifices have to be made, so this isn't a harmonious relationship unless if the aries watches the usage of words and rethinks about criticism.

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