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Topic: PLEASE HELP!!! ITīS IMPORTANT TO ME!
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Carla_A Knowflake Posts: 32 From: Brasil Registered: Jul 2002
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posted July 27, 2002 11:18 AM
Hi! This is Carla again, Iīm having a problem in my relationship. My boyfriend is a Gemini boy born the 20th of June of 1983, Iīm a Scorpion 13th of November. We love each other very much, we are far away from easch other for now, he is having some confusions in his head, he is insecure about many things he canīt explain or understand, we almost broke up because of that confusion please maybe with the astrology help me we decided to solve things together, and I really want to know what to say, maybe the planets are influencing him in some way, he is really confused about life! Ohh please I would apreciate it very much! THANX FOR EVERYTHING! much love always, please help me as soon as possible because we are going to talk tonight. much love always. CarlinhaIP: Logged |
Joga Knowflake Posts: 251 From: The Desert Registered: Jun 2002
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posted July 27, 2002 01:26 PM
Long distance relationships are very hard honey. The only thing you have is a phone, which is a hard tool to use in love. You said he's having confusion in his head. You need to reasure him that you will do your best to help him with it, if only he'd let you know what its about. Tell him that youll be not only his girlfriend, but also his friend, and then give him time to let that sink into his head and let him open up naturally. Try to work with him on it slowly. Some men cant piece together their thoughts into emotion like most women can. Some men have an even harder time expressing thoes emotions once they find them. The key is *PATIENCE*. Just reassure him that once he finds what he's insecure about, you'll be there for him. Take care... **Joga** IP: Logged |
Carla_A Knowflake Posts: 32 From: Brasil Registered: Jul 2002
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posted July 27, 2002 03:40 PM
Yoga thanx for being so nice! Thanx for that help I really needed to here that words. Well the problem is that he doesnīt know what is making him feel that way, and I īve been trying to help him for a long time, even when we wher together he felt insecure about life he was born 1983 he is a teenager. what do you think? I sent the birth date in the other reply. Pleace if you could see if the planets are confusing him or what can it be? much love always CarlinhaIP: Logged |
Aphrodite Moderator Posts: 3280 From: San Francisco, CA, United States Registered: Feb 2002
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posted July 29, 2002 04:55 PM
hi carla,unfortunately, because i volunteer my time and services here, and there is a long line of members requesting help, i cannot honor your request as soon as possible for your date. what i can do, if you are still interested, is look into one question you may still have, and if you post it on here, i will probably get around to taking a look at it. aphrodite IP: Logged |
Carla_A Knowflake Posts: 32 From: Brasil Registered: Jul 2002
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posted July 29, 2002 06:10 PM
Thanx very much for everything, this are working so good now, things are getting solved with a lot of love, so Iīm happy, but yes it would be nice to know a little bit more, I can wait. Thanx for everything much love always! huge huge hug from Brazil CarlinhaIP: Logged |
Aphrodite Moderator Posts: 3280 From: San Francisco, CA, United States Registered: Feb 2002
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posted July 30, 2002 09:12 AM
hello carla thanks for the understanding reply. i will take a look at your friend's chart when i can, and get back to you. in the meantime, would you post his birth information, with birth city, and try with your best ( i have faith in you ) to get his birth time? it's good to hear that things are going good with you two. aphrodite IP: Logged |
Aphrodite Moderator Posts: 3280 From: San Francisco, CA, United States Registered: Feb 2002
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posted August 05, 2002 06:26 PM
hi carla,without a birthtime, i cannot discern exactly in which house his planets and aspects corrolate. however, i was able to pull up a chart using 12 noon, so here goes: your friend has his sun and mars opposite his neptune, which indicates indeed, confusion will be prevalent. his mercury is opposite uranus and jupiter, so he will sometimes promise more than he can give, and there will be moments of mental anxiety, (possible panic attacks if pushed too far). hmm, i suspect the part about him not being able to "explain or understand" his confusion has more to do with the communication with the two of you. he actually has his sun, mars, and north node making tight trines with pluto and saturn---which means he can express himself very well, balanced, and with perservance . . . although on a more abstract, theoretical and intellectual level. transiting saturn is conjuncting his sun, which can instill a sort of silence on him temporarily. he needs peace to sort out the lessons saturn has for him. uranus is trining his sun also, which will help him out by giving *flashes* of insight into things. romantically speaking, neptune will soon make a tight opposition with his venus, which can result in confusion about his own affections in relationships, and an aura of uncertainty. best, aphrodite IP: Logged |
Carla_A Knowflake Posts: 32 From: Brasil Registered: Jul 2002
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posted August 09, 2002 12:03 AM
Hi!! well I took to long but i got the information needed! Well my boyfriend complete name is: Thomas James Merwin he was born in Sacramento California the 20 of June of 1983, 2:00 am. Thanx very much for everything!!!!! much love always! CarlinhaIP: Logged |
jackiep Knowflake Posts: 312 From: Rio de janeiro, Brazil Registered: May 2002
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posted August 09, 2002 08:14 PM
Hi Carlinha ,I believe that you are brazilian like me. If you are, send me your answer in portuguese,ok ? Felicidade ! Jackie IP: Logged |
jackiep Knowflake Posts: 312 From: Rio de janeiro, Brazil Registered: May 2002
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posted August 09, 2002 09:33 PM
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Carla_A Knowflake Posts: 32 From: Brasil Registered: Jul 2002
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posted August 10, 2002 02:18 PM
Oi Jackie! Nossa é muito bom encontrar outras pessoas do nosso querido Brasil! um beijão CarlinhaIP: Logged |
jackiep Knowflake Posts: 312 From: Rio de janeiro, Brazil Registered: May 2002
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posted August 10, 2002 05:23 PM
Oi Carla,É bom mesmo. Até agora eu pensava ser a única por aqui. De qualquer maneira não é legal ficarmos "falando" em portuguęs, já que ninguém vai entender nada... Se vocę quiser, podemos abrir um "fórum"para aqueles que falam portuguęs aqui no site. Já existe um para os que falam espanhol, do qual eu participo. Pense sobre isso, ok ! Beijo Jackie IP: Logged |
Aphrodite Moderator Posts: 3280 From: San Francisco, CA, United States Registered: Feb 2002
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posted August 19, 2002 12:49 PM
hi carlihna,thanks for the additional data. i will get to it soon. aphrodite IP: Logged |
Carla_A Knowflake Posts: 32 From: Brasil Registered: Jul 2002
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posted August 19, 2002 07:02 PM
THANX!!!!! !!! MUCH LOVE ALWAYS! CarlinhaIP: Logged |
Morning Storm Knowflake Posts: 1778 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: May 2001
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posted August 21, 2002 02:13 PM
Amy, I really love reading your interpretations. Hey, I don't know if you were ever offered an L-G email address! If you want one, just let me or Randall know. ------------------ To fall in Love, is to rise. . . . ~Upendra IP: Logged |
Aphrodite Moderator Posts: 3280 From: San Francisco, CA, United States Registered: Feb 2002
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posted August 21, 2002 04:04 PM
hi auriel!thanks it's good to know there's a fan this is a lot of good practice being here to help out. now that i just went back to check my unopened e-mails (hehe randall), yes, he has offered an address. sure! tonight i'm going to go through a whole list of requests that i said i'd look at. i'm grateful people are nice enough to wait. oh btw, i just realized the other day that pluto squares my ascendant. i haven't been able to find an interpretation for this. does anyone have any ideas? love, amy IP: Logged |
Aphrodite Moderator Posts: 3280 From: San Francisco, CA, United States Registered: Feb 2002
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posted August 21, 2002 10:00 PM
hi carla,i looked at his chart with the 2:00 am birth time, and what i've written above still stands. he is very smart, and has a high degree of emotional intelligence. i really think the factors contributing to his confusion are his pre-existing aspects with mars, north node, and sun in the 3rd house opposite neptune in the 9th, and transiting saturn conjuncting the third house energies. in simple terms, because his neptune (the planet of fanstasy, mysticism, dreams, spiritual aspirations, surrender) is conjunct his saggitarius south node in the 9th house, he has most likely gotten away in his past lives with living with dreams, and quite possibly developed a mental laziness in taking the time spiritually to learn what is real and what is not in understanding God, universal laws, and the cosmos. in a more exalted state, he could have mastered, or come to a better understanding of these cosmic principles and gradually move on to this life's mission, to communicate with people what he has learned spiritually, and to help people learn how to make profound revelations in their own lives. his moon is in the 7th house conjunct saturn and pluto (making grand trines with the north node!), indicates a real possibility that he will be attracted to public service. now, these positive things are on a higher plane, and if he has achieved this state, the potential is there for him to achieve. for now, saturn is conjuncting his mars, north node and saturn in the third house, which i would interpret as a time for him to learn how to communicate precisely, honestly, and with utmost integrity with his peers. these are his challenges, and he will be placed in situations that will teach him what he needs to know. i suspect you are part of his lesson, in that you notice his confusion, and are working with him to develop a clearer mind. saturn at this time is helping resolve a lot of inaccuracies he has accumulated over many life times, and i imagine it can be quite tough when the things one thought were once true, are not, simply because extra time, thought, and care was not taken. naturally, he will be frustrated with his peers, what his own values are, and being told again and again, to do things right when he thought he was doing them right in the first place. my only suggestion is for him to face the challenges, and not fight against them necessarily. but to use this time to better understand himself and how to communicate clearly to eventually become wiser and to fulfill this life's destiny. aphrodite IP: Logged |
Morning Storm Knowflake Posts: 1778 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: May 2001
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posted August 24, 2002 09:57 AM
Amy, do you want Amy at L-G or Aphrodite at L-G? Hey, email one of us about this. There's another question you have to answer privately before it could be set up. ------------------ To fall in Love, is to rise. . . . ~Upendra IP: Logged |
Carla_A Knowflake Posts: 32 From: Brasil Registered: Jul 2002
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posted August 24, 2002 05:03 PM
Hi!!!! Thanx very much for the help! it is great!! ALL MY LOVE ALWAYS! Iīm really thankfull big hug from Brazil CarlinhaIP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 16464 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: Nov 2000
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posted August 25, 2002 12:54 AM
Oops! I already gave her aphrodite. ------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
Aphrodite Moderator Posts: 3280 From: San Francisco, CA, United States Registered: Feb 2002
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posted August 26, 2002 09:11 AM
hi auriel & randall, "aphrodite" is fine, since it's already been created. you are both welcome to e-mail me at my general address (the hotmail one . . . yes, yes, i am a lil scattered brained, typical for yellow aura people ) to ask, or comment on anything. loves ya both, amy IP: Logged |
Morning Storm Knowflake Posts: 1778 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: May 2001
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posted August 26, 2002 09:17 PM
------------------ To fall in Love, is to rise. . . . ~Upendra IP: Logged | |